Serious Newb Question(s)

BlackJesusX's Avatar
Okay, though I have lurk on here for a little while I can't seem to find an opinion on this:
How do you feel about having a provider come to your home?

Also, I'm looking into providers here in Killeen via here and BP and this one sparked my interest but I can't find a review or anything on here. Did so G2 on her via the web and came up with nothing either (negative or positive).

http://killeen.backpage.com/FemaleEs...ion-26/6362288

Thanks.
B-Jesus
knotty man's Avatar
outcall(they come to you) and incalls(you go to them) each have their pros and cons
the pros of an outcall are
1) conveinience
2) more privacy
3) less likely to be LE. they like to be in controlled environments. (i.e. cameras, recording devices, vice team in the next room)
the cons are
1) usually more expensive
2) they know where you live (pimps ,drivers, as well as Bat shit crazy girls)
3) nosy neighbors
i tend to stick with incalls, unless i know her pretty well and have seen her for some time. but, its a double edged sword .if you go to an incall. do your research, see verified ladies, always be aware of your surroundings, and above all else ,ask question on here. we've all TOFTT. use the wealth of knowledge and experience to your full benefit on here.
there are no stupid questions, just stupid regrets!!
randomguy2010's Avatar
Personally, I would not. You expose too much of who you are when you do that. You expose your home, your vehicle(s), your preferences, your belongings, your economic status, your whole being. Especially to one off BP. I would only POSSIBLY consider it with a well established and reputable ECCIE lady. To each his own, but that's my take on it. The risks are too great. Plus, you get attention from your neighbors if you do it often enough. You'd only get away with it a few times in a college town.

I agree with knotty's list of pros/cons. Spot on. The above is my reasoning why I wouldn't do it at all.
sirhk's Avatar
  • sirhk
  • 06-08-2012, 10:30 PM
you could also do an outcall to a hotel room that you get. that way you do not expose your personal life - kinda a halfway between in/outcall. the major negative is it WILL be a lot more expensive. the positives are you are more in control ie. there will not be as much security/LE issue. still have to watch for the pimps drivers and crazies though.
BlackJesusX's Avatar
Thanks all for the advice. All noted.
I'm still on the wall with finding a good provider here.
the girl that u see on bp is a good and personal friend of mine and a good find call her and let her know amber said ur ok she will respond then if she hasnt already
I prefer outcalls, I would rather the gent be comfy in his own situation, tends to ease nerves for the first meeting. Also I dont really like keeping an incall, although sometimes thats the only option for gents, I just feel like a sitting duck waiting for some LE to come busting through the door.... I would rather be on the move and not have everyone knowing where I can be found at that particular point. I've got LOTS of reviews of outcalls, so im not the freaky, crazy BIATCH, I am much more concerned with you than where you live... but i do prefer it to be clean, whatever kind if home it may be.
I am have done both...each has their pros and cons. But as I am in a hotel in B/CS at the moment, you make do.

xoxo
Cat
BlackJesusX's Avatar
the girl that u see on bp is a good and personal friend of mine and a good find call her and let her know amber said ur ok she will respond then if she hasnt already Originally Posted by lilmisshottie
Is she the girl in her pictures or the girl from her facebook?
/yes I did my research after she emailed me.
Also, thanks for the provider feedback too, it's really helped.
NewWave's Avatar
knotty has already covered the ins and outs, pros/cons. I actually think you get better service with outcalls, but then I only do an outcall with a chick i've seen before or know fairly well, so perhaps it's more of the familiarity than the actual setting.

i would be leery with a BP type coming to your crib for the first time. Most likely you'll have a driver waiting outside, which is uncomfortable as shit, plus you never know if they are scoping out your place, which there is a good chance they are.
  • Paven
  • 06-12-2012, 03:39 PM
NewWave, I am curious to know why you think you get better service with an outcall? If a gal delivers good service it shouldn't matter if it's in or out.