I think it was started because I had posted about being pregnant and I know some men were talking about why providers see clients when pregnant. Although while a majority said they would not I want to mention that sometimes..there is no choice. I have 4 small kids at home and if I was to work a fulltime job my whole paycheck would go to childcare and there is no way in hell I'm getting on welfare. I'm healthy, my baby is healthy, and I am not jeopardizing that. Women still have sex with their s/o so as long as protection is used then there should be no hazards. I carefully screen and only see those that I've personally met or they are well known on the board. I see maybe one client a week. I don't hang out at hotels all day getting banged and my one client I has been my regular for quite a while. I don't go and meet strange men. I have barely posted and have seen maybe 2 people since I became pregnant. Both whom I've seen before. I'm not saying anyone is judging but I want others to know some of us have good reasons. For those that know me you know that I'm a wonderful mother and love my kids to pieces. I would never do anything to harm them. I am also their support system and I won't let us fall onto welfare and struggle. I am a strong woman and can hold my own. Forgive me if this seems defensive but being pregnant I am quite moody and I don't particularly like the poll answers. Instead of saying "No not a chance in hell" perhaps it should have said "No. I prefer not to". I am going to eat some chocolate now to relax. I've said my piece and now it's off my chest.

Kudos to you taking care of business Malaya! I would imagine it could get rough/difficult providing when you have 4 little ones at home and a little bundle of joy in the oven. I think it's touching you work so hard to provide for your family without falling back on the government or anyone else, and I wish you the best of luck! If the economy was in better shape, (it's ripped my business, and my extension me, a new asshole these past 9 months!) I would have seen you by now. Hopefully you will be around when (if) things get better.