She left me holding the check.

I was recently seeing a shelia for about two months. Things were going ok till she the question. "how many girls have you been with". Well, being honest I told her over 300. Her faced dropped with disgust. She calmly got up and left.

Well, I had a choice to make, chase her down or eat the Rib Eye and sweet potato. I chose the Rib Eye. My waiter asked what happened me what happened, and I told him and I explained. Killing himself laughing, he asked me my secret "it's the accent and America has been good to".

So, I'm back again.

My opinion..... You made the right choice. Unless someone accepts you for who you are, past included..... It's not worth it. Move on lol

I'm assuming that answer included all the providers you've seen over the years. If not, kudos to you! If and when asked by a date or girlfriend I only admit to the civilian ladies I've been with, NEVER the providers!!!!

Even if I had a high civilian number I think I'd still give a lower number.

Doesn't everyone give a lower number? Lol

No body has asked me and I like it that way.

When a woman answers, you have to multiply by three.

When a man answers you have to divide by three.

I do not ask the question as I really do not care about her past. I am only interested in the present and our future together. I cannot answer the question truthfully because I really have no idea how many ladies I have seen, it just does not matter to me. I respond by telling her the truth and the truth about all of me, hobby, civilian, marriage, etc. And the truth is I do not know. I reassure her that I am a monogamous man, when I am in a relationship it is only her I desire to be with. I do not state a number because I have no idea, i can estimate and it has been more than 1 lady but less than 300.

But the key for me is being in an honest relationship where we can discuss our fantasies and sexual desires and she is willing and able to fullfill mine as I help with hers. If all my sexual needs are being satisfied I have no desire to venture outside the relationship, just me.

In my past I've seen maybe 20-30 providers, and that is based on my international travels. Now it seems there are a few providers I have my eye on.

Although, I have never been with a black shelia.

Were you including her or did she ask before you were able to shag her?

I already played, horizontal hide the weenie with her. Then she asked the question about a month later.

that is so awful!!!!!!! im sitting here trying to figure out what makes her feel she even needs to know that info? That is out of control. i agree with carmen you made the right decison, if it was that damn important she should have asked beforehand.

Better luck next time babe :-)

Doesn't everyone give a lower number? Lol Originally Posted by CarmenAlexis

Not me. I always tell them I am quickly approaching Wilt Chamberlain's number.

It didn't bloody matter. I have a saying.

There's two things you don't want when I'm done with them.
That's a car and a woman. Because I wear them both out.

Reminds me of a joke. A wife asks her husband one day how many women has he been with. He says he doesnt know. She says awwww you must know. He refuses to answer. She insists. He refuses. She insists that she has to know. And he says, "Well, lets see," So he starts thinking and counting on his hands. "Four.....Five..... Six.... You.....Eight.....Nine....Ten, ....."