Hobbyists with Big Mouths!

I need to vent for a second. As an active member here, I know quite a few of the other gentlemen as well, and all of them have been great and respectful. Anyhow, I met a perfect young lady who provided great service for quite a while to me, but one day she got crazy upset with me out of the blue. I had no idea what the fuck was going on. I gave her time, and eventually she came around to talking to me again. She revealed to me that one of the hobbyists whom we both know, talked shit about me. Long story short, my fun times with her are ruined because this fucker opened his big mouth. I hate guys who cause drama. I talk about none of the other hobbyists, and I expect the same in return. I'm finding out that some in this thing we call hobby have big mouths and small brains. Thank you. This completes my rant.

OH my sorry to hear that .. sometimes its best just to vent and next time ur with a new provider keep all comments good or bad to urself bc some ppl can be spiteful and say things and its not sometimes what u say its how ppl perceive it and how the next person says it. Thats where the damage can lie..

well have a goodnight and sleep well!

lexxxi

Boooo
<3 Summer
xoxo

That sux playa
But i understand, totally!!
Its easy to share stuff with others in this world bcof the "unspoken bond" and then mess like that happens...
And things become "real" again
Hopefully you can salvage things with the lady.
(You didnt run her name in the mud, right? Jk!)

Ms. Kitti, I'm more honorable than that. I have no hard feeling for the lady.

And this is why I personally feel folks need to step back and reflect on what this adult lifestyle is all about. It's certainly not about the *clicky, buddy buddy* stuff where folks are up in each others business on a daily basis and hanging out all the time.
Because your issue just proved how catty and low some folks will/can be. And how some guys will go to great lengths to cock block so they can have the pussy all to themselves and disrespecting others won't matter to them.

So if those men are bad mouthing you. Then those same men are bad mouthing the very girls they're fucking.
And FYI, what right does a *provider* have to get mad at a hobbyists who's paying her for companionship???? She has no right to cop a piss ant attitude like that with a hobbyist who's paying for companionship!!!!!

Reality as to what this adult lifestyle is about, really needs to resonate with some folks, here. Because your issue is NOT the first incident and won't be the last. And it tends to always involve the same girls/guys within a *click*.



And I don't give a monkeys ass if folks don't like MY opinion on this.

I need to vent for a second. As an active member here, I know quite a few of the other gentlemen as well, and all of them have been great and respectful. Anyhow, I met a perfect young lady who provided great service for quite a while to me, but one day she got crazy upset with me out of the blue. I had no idea what the fuck was going on. I gave her time, and eventually she came around to talking to me again. She revealed to me that one of the hobbyists whom we both know, talked shit about me. Long story short, my fun times with her are ruined because this fucker opened his big mouth. I hate guys who cause drama. I talk about none of the other hobbyists, and I expect the same in return. I'm finding out that some in this thing we call hobby have big mouths and small brains. Thank you. This completes my rant. Originally Posted by playansa

^^^lol^^^

Well hun i know ur a good guy with a good rep. & everything will blow* over! =]

Im confused though shouldnt a provider keep to themselves what a client {friend} says during each session to themselves .. once time begin and ends thats where all the personal stuff stays ??

well hope this get resolved and dont stress much or take others opinions to heart. This is our fantasy land.. dont let this grief cloud ur personal life ..

xoxo
lexxxi

Ive met you a few times, and enjoyed your presence
I can honestly say, lexi, that although were paid for our time, were still human.
Some gents have shared/said things to me, that have hurt my feelings.
To remove any and all emotion...is impossible.
I wish those things said to me, about me, didnt hurt, but it did.
But i am glad it was said to me directly. Vs hearing through the grapevine.

Thats just my 0.02
Pm me!! We needa get together, SOON!! @Lexi

Playa, sorry for your trouble! Some people just don't think and some are just plain HATERS. If that person is around long enough and causes more people grief...their reputation will get around.

People who have been around awhile aren't stupid. And, those who are relatively new...will eventually get a clue! (lol)

That's why I roll dolo!!!

Im confused though shouldnt a provider keep to themselves what a client {friend} says during each session to themselves .. once time begin and ends thats where all the personal stuff stays ?? Originally Posted by Sweet Lexxxi dd's

Very true Lexxxi "we" as providers should always practice discretion just like we want the guys to do with us.
It should always be about who we are spending time with and not ranting about others when we are having
our naughty encounters

I really enjoyed meeting you at lunch playa. Seems some ppl didn't have a great opinion on me after that shindig Not sure what I did to earn that from those ppl, but from what I learned meeting you there was nothing to bad mouth about! Hopefully see you at happy hr buddy

This is just another reason why my hobby life is not shared with anybody.

Playansa, don't look at me. I tell all the ladies you have the Big One.

Walllet, that is.

Seriously though, it does suck to lose a good relationship to bogus drama, but all the ladies here worth their salt know you have a good reputation and are a great guy. No worries going forward.

People talk here. About first hand stuff, I don't know.
Actually, I like talking about our little community when I do partake.
Not something I do outside of our site.
But I have to admit, I like hearing some of the stories.

But i've experienced how bitchy some Providers can be (not from our little 'burg) in the past. I was shocked how they talked/treated other Providers. So, i'm sure it is the same amongst guys.