why some providers refuse k9 position ?

any idea ? what would you do if a provider told you no after you pay the donation ??

I would respect her limits, I might not like them but I would respect them.

ANY AND EVERY Provider has the right to tell you no for whatever SHE wants. It is her health, life, business, safety, body...
A lot of Ladies refuse to do K9 because a disgusting scumbag could take the condom off. If someone ever asks me for BB I wont even give them BBBJ, they earn CBJ for that I'm not putting that gross BBer in MY mouth. If a Lady asks me about him I tell her he asked. An attempt is a hard death grip on his unit with my long nails digging in, I keep the entire donation in full even if he was only there for 3 minutes, I kick him out, and I write an alert about him the second he leaves the room

She don't want you to see her hemorrhoids

I always respect a providers limits. I may not like it but I never complain or beg. Disappointments happen so just make the best of it. Lexxxy makes a good point. A guy who takes the condom off is a real jerk. I think another reason they refuse K9 is that a guy may try to go Greek on them. In my experience I find it more common for providers to refuse getting on top(though not the case with verified providers). I've had many BP gals tell me they don't get on top. That always puzzled me. The only reason I can see is that they are lazy. I can see reasons why they refuse K9 but not simply getting on top.

I always wondered if women didn't like the "pounding" they could take from k9? Maybe I'm crazy but if it's a 2nd pop and some one just jack hammers them from behind that could be painful? I dont know but I wondered recently the type of pleasure/pain women sometimes get from certain positions.

For the record I think others ideas are better but just adding some thoughts. Respect their wishes and work to find another good spot

I have never heard of an SP refusing K9. In fact most prefer it. Theory being they don't have to look at us. I have been refused CG because of size. But I always take that with a grain of salt. Aren't they paid to say that? LOL

ANY AND EVERY Provider has the right to tell you no for whatever SHE wants. It is her health, life, business, safety, body... Originally Posted by Lexxxy

All that needs to be said.

why would guys try and take the condom off?
I never heard of that, i dont get that., thats not good if that happens, u girls need to alert that if thats happening.

I love k9, but there are many reasons why. Believe it or not, there are asshats out there that do try to slip the jimmy off but if a woman is bent down to where she can see, grab bastard by balls and squeeze is what I say!
Every woman has their own comfort level and most know how to contour their bodies to adjust. If a man is going in to power drive from the get go, no it is not pleasurable...might as well bust out a hitachi magic wand and do it herself lol.
The main thing u want to do is have respect for ur play partners body and ask her periodically If she is comfortable, doesn't hurt

I love k9, but there are many reasons why. Believe it or not, there are asshats out there that do try to slip the jimmy off but if a woman is bent down to where she can see, grab bastard by balls and squeeze is what I say! Originally Posted by Mina Parker

I've never had a provider refuse it but I always did wonder why so many insisted on "guiding" it themselves especially on first visits. I never considered that a guy would be self destructive enough remove it.

The main thing u want to do is have respect for ur play partners body and ask her periodically If she is comfortable, doesn't hurt Originally Posted by Mina Parker

Of course we want to do that , listening to her being happy about what is happening is a big part of the enjoyment.

Maybe they think you might hit the wrong hole. lol

Twice now, I have paid and then the rules changed...like I make sure the women is ok with BBBJ and then after I get there and i and I drop my gift off, she says no I dont do a BBBJ,when I know I asked........once time I paid for a 3some and then it was oh it is that timeof the month, you cant go there......AFTER the gift was dropped off.....of course that was years ago and they were young CL girls......that is just wrong.

yes you are right A holes will sometimes take the cover off and that is just wrong.....as for a girl not wanting to do K9...for most of us guys...ok for me....I know when I play using a cover....if not with GF/SO....the only way I can pop is K9........of course these new thin mags......I have no problem poping the last two times I used them.......

Been refused k9 also,

she said it was size and a tipped uterus painful I guess , its my atf pos but its Her body and I always respect her rules. Two pops in mish later I left with a smile ;-)

Maybe they think you might hit the wrong hole. lol Originally Posted by hobbyist1

Yea, probably think you're going to slip em the dark one .