I few years ago I had the priviledge to train with Alexis Soft Touch in Houston Tx. After several session and so extra offsite training, she admited time that I could "ring her bell any time".
There is a thread what trantra offers and about ladies faking it. And other service thoughts.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=508351
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=508343
If you want to do some reading on the topic of Tantra here are some good options.
http://www.ivillage.co.uk/tantric-sex/82325
http://www.scribd.com/doc/16746118/Primal-Power-Tantra-by-Jon-Peniel
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http://www.luckymojo.com/tktechniques.html
http://tantraecstasy.blogspot.com/2012/06/maithuna-ritual-tantric-sexual-union.html
http://oralsextechniques.blogspot.com/
http://www.reuniting.info/wisdom/tantra_women_orgasm
http://at-tantra-tantric-sex.com/different-types-of-tantra.htm
As I was trained, here are some basics:
The 3 basic tantra tantric sex technique categories
Type 1 - the “give and receive method” - This tantra tantric sex technique involves the couple sharing their "energies" during sex. Think of it like a circle of energy - an electrical circuit if you will. The couple can also "tap into" the energies of the Earth and the Universe/Spirit (which then feeds more energy into this "circuit", and the energy builds and grows). This type of tantra tantric sex technique benefits both partners. That is the basis of the method we recommend and teach.
Type 2 - the “take” method - In this tantra tantric sex technique, one partner uses the power of their mind (through visualization) to take advantage of the other, essentially "sucking" and “hogging” all the sexual and "life energy" (reiki) for themselves. This was primarily done by men in some cultures, but women have been known to do it also, draining a man's energy to "stay young".
Type 3 - the "modern" methods - Many new tantra tantric sex technique methods have cropped up in the last 40 years. Created by teachers who have no legitimate training or background (other than "certificates" from someone with no training or background), they may still call it tantra, tantric sex, tantric yoga, tantra yoga, or whatever, but they are really "(E) - none of the above"....
Such methods and teachers can be harmful, and even dangerous. We've heard some real horror stories about these "modern style" tantra teachers who were using their positions just to get sex and manipulate people.
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So, have others tried any of these techniques 1, 2 or 3 successfullly? Are you willing to share?