Being Too Picky??

I always use my gut to guide me, but I have a controversial topic right now to discuss. This question is mostly for other providers, but you guys can chime in also. Okay, the question is this: If any of you other providers feel like you will not be attracted at all, either physically and/or mentally, with a potential client, would you still see him for the money?

Put in another quotient, you are broke!

Tell me honestly what you would do. I, personally, would rather be out of a few bills, what about you???

Tell me your opinion!!!

That's one thing I can understand. There are some ugly men out there and I wonder how some providers fuck them.

Most providers are GREAT actresses and can fake anything for an hour.

Lil Red Robin told me she would find something about a guy she could focus on, even if it was just a spot on his bald head.

I can't answer but I applaud the intelligent and insightful question. We clients mostly are picky about our choices...some like MILF, some like Asian, some like spinners, some like BBW, so we get to pick and choose..providers however can be selective to a degree and that is why some are priced at $500 an hour and others at $150 an hour.

If you draw the line on ugly, how about a line on age, or too long of hair, bald, wrong color of hair, too tall, too short, are going to put that in your ad or just tell him when he knocks on the door, or are you going to even answer the door....So if you draw that line and you are that picky, how the fuck is he gonna know....ija

If I was being paid for sex by chicks I would think most would not be very hot. At least not super fine chicks maybe just some ok looking ones. But I would expect many to shoe that I would not bring home to mama.

You ladies got the easier end on it as you don't need a hard on to fuck, hell lube works great today. I've asked before most say it is easy since you know he will leave, and if he is nice and kind he scores points and is viewed in better light next time. It is a hard thing to do, I expect they see all kinds of guys from true dorks to the deformed.

Speaking of the deformed how bad can it be before you say no.

If you draw the line at ugly...then I'm fucked. I have had many cases where I show up, knock, I hear her approach the door...then all of a sudden, freeze...no answer. I knock again, call again...no answer. So, I've learned to hit the door at an angle...once she opens, I'm in...ta da

True story, once I was on the phone with the fem, driving into the parking lot of the notel as she guided me where to park. Still on the phone with her having the usual conversation, as I exited my vehicle, before I could close the door, I hear a dial-tone. No lie. I figured I hit a deadzone or something, tried calling her back, went right to voicemail. I called again, rang a couple of times then right back to voicemail. I stood there with puppydog eyes , didn't work. So, I got back into my vehicle, put it in reverse, and left rockin' to Tyga (rap). Cool.

Thanks for all the great answers! I just feel that if I am that unattracted and turned off, it would be better if we both just moved on. I wouldn't be able to engage in a good session. I really don't require movie star good looks, and usually don't turn down most potential clients. But I would rather turn down a few now and then, and feel more comfortable, than have a session just to make a little more money.

I did raise my rates a little so I could see less clients, but I added time, so I think it might work for me. I honestly feel every provider is different when it comes to her comfort level in doing this kind of work!

But on the other hand, one fem told me she liked her men Black (as in purple or blue-Black) and UGLY. So, Ugly is not always a bad thing. And this fem was model material, gorgeous and flawless. Too bad I'm not blue-Black, LOL

Debbie, if a lady didn't feel like she could provide a Great session, I would certainly appreciate her canceling it. Supreme acting notwithstanding, to spend money for a fantasy and being disappointed because of the lady's lack of enthusiasm would be worse than simply being turned away.

Btw, how do you send someone away....
1. Answer door, laugh, scream, and slam the door
2. peek and not answer door
3. Make up a story that emergency occurred?

Debbie, if a lady didn't feel like she could provide a Great session, I would certainly appreciate her canceling it. Supreme acting notwithstanding, to spend money for a fantasy and being disappointed because of the lady's lack of enthusiasm would be worse than simply being turned away.

Btw, how do you send someone away....
1. Answer door, laugh, scream, and slam the door
2. peek and not answer door
3. Make up a story that emergency occurred? Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

I think I heard, "Oh God", one time before the deafening silence as one fem stood frozen behind the door, not wanting to move, waiting for me to leave. One time, I stood there as long as I could, started making faces, and dancing. She got tired as hell in that "frozen" position. Damn rudeness, just tell me or send a text or something. Damn shame how Ugly people get treated in this world. There's definitely two worlds out there. And being Ugly ain't pretty.

Damn. I've never had this happen to me and I'm a tubby bastard.

I must be a tubby, beautiful bastard. I'm a dude Adele!

That might be pushing it.

Debbie you say you won't see a guy 50 pounds overweight so that narrows things down a bit right there....do you ask up front how tall they are and how much they weight in the prescreening???

GREAT TOPIC SEXY!
........:fe ar2:.......

SUCK IT UP.

Your a professional girl.



hELL no

NO CHEMISTRY NO FUN!

kindly excuse yourself.

Damn. I've never had this happen to me and I'm a tubby bastard.

I must be a tubby, beautiful bastard. I'm a dude Adele!

That might be pushing it. Originally Posted by linux

I get no respect...fems tell me how gorgeous I am, and either 1 of two things is happening when they are saying it:
1. Her petite hands are holding my dick with deep affection as she looks into my eyes...
2. Or, I close my eyes bashfully, smile and say 'thank you' only to look and see that she's looking at my dick as she's saying that and not at me.

My dick gets all of the compliments...once it's over, they kick me out quickly...and tell me, "don't tell nobody"...hell, I get threatened if I write a review.