squirting is NOT a sexual service...its a verb

So I got in trouble and receive an infraction...(birds chirping...) I use the term gfe in my provider ad. So I emailed asking for clarification..they were sooooo helpful (um not really)
for example, I am still a lil confused as to why gfe is considered a sexual service. I emailed that I felt using the terms squirting or saying one is a spinner were much more affiliated with the mentioning of sexual services versus the use of the term gfe. I was a lil frustrated, I must admit...(I received a freakin infraction dammit) but the email I received is so unbelievably funny I quickly switched moods.
Some quotes from first email...EDIT - Removed comments from a personal message - violation of forum guideline #9 - No form of private communications between members are to be posted in our forums. This includes the contents of emails, PMs, IMs, private chat logs, privately shared images, etc. This is an invasion of another's privacy and will not be allowed - fritz3552.
In my second email EDIT - Removed comments from a personal message - fritz3552.
what is right. (Ok,first of all, I am 120% sure that I probably WASNT warm and inviting to her....uuummmmm duh. Second of all, I DO NOT foresee needing her help in the future to do what is right.)
I happened to look up the definition for gfe...
the dictionary defines the term gfe as a type of service a female sex worker offers which includes acting like a gf to the client. Gfe includes french kissing, hugging, talking and eating a meal together. The gfe generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girl or escort offers. There is a focus on not just having sex, but having more of a comprehensive experience.
Touché !!!!! Lol. Never thought I'd see a debate of websters dictionary on here , but it makes for a great read!!! Thank u Gemma for clearing everything up!
For clarification, the term referred to in this post has been determined as inappropriate for use in posting ads in both the Provider Ad and Weekend Lineup sections. Until the moderator community is told differently, that term will not be allowed to be used in ads.

I happened to look up the definition for gfe...the dictionary defines the term gfe as a type of service a female sex worker offers which includes acting like a gf to the client. Gfe includes french kissing, hugging, talking and eating a meal together. The gfe generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girl or escort offers. There is a focus on not just having sex, but having more of a comprehensive experience. Originally Posted by Gemma34
Therefore, Gemma has defined the reason as to why the term is not allowed.

And I keep thinking back to the quote in Stripes by Sgt. Hulka - "Lighten up, Francis".
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What an interesting topic!!! So I'm curious. Are you located in Kansas or in Dallas?

Interpretation of verbiage is always open ended. Interestingly enough, the moderators of all areas sincerely try to be helpful to others. Of course, being kicked in the shins back, as a sweet thank you, is relatively common.

All in a days effort!

Have a great Friday everyone!!!
And to think I left names out of my posting for nothing! Thx for ur help ms whispers..makes for an interesting discussion...
What an interesting topic!!! So I'm curious. Are you located in Kansas or in Dallas? Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
What does my location have to do with this discussion? Just curious...
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Well, instead of posting the contents of my PM to you, which is REALLY against all of the rules here on ECCIE ... if you had wished for a debate of terminology, instead of me quickly trying to send you an explanation of our guidelines, I would have put in more effort!

After all, I also love a debate of diction! However, I'm going to bow out of this discussion and topic from this point. I have other things to do.

But enjoy!
Elisabeth, I know u r a veteran but seriously sweeti! Lol
This is merely a forum for entertainment purposes only, right? My goodness...well anyway squirting is a verb and gfe is a sexual service and I wanted to merely clarify that to the rest of the eccie members...lol

NEW PICS COMING SOON! SAME SERVICES OFFERED!
  • stukc
  • 08-17-2012, 11:55 AM
Gemma,

Come see me in KC and we'll try all the verbs you can think of!!!
Gemma,Come see me in KC and we'll try all the verbs you can think of!!! Originally Posted by stukc
Very soon babe...very soon...lol the more verbs the better!!
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Gemma, we will welcome you with open arms...mouths, legs...you name it
This is merely a forum for entertainment purposes only, right? My goodness...well anyway squirting is a verb and gfe is a sexual service and I wanted to merely clarify that to the rest of the eccie members...lol

NEW PICS COMING SOON! SAME SERVICES OFFERED! Originally Posted by Gemma34
I'm going to jump in here because I know Fritz and he's biting his tongue right now.

No clarification to "the community" was necessary.

I'm a mod, but not in the KS area, but I live in KS. It's very clear as Elisabeth tried to explain to you what is and is not allowed in ads and public areas of the showcases. Now you may disagree with those rules. That's fine. There are rules here on ECCIE that as a mod *I* don't agree with, but I still play by those rules. Why?

Their house, their rules. I either play by THEIR rules or if I don't like it, I leave.

The rules to the mods are that GFE is considered a service and not allowed in ads or public areas of showcase. Why? Doesn't matter. It's the rule. You're certainly free to ask why it's the rule and can expect an explanation, but violate it at your own peril.

It really is that simple.

KsJack
I respect all the moderators.. and had this been kept between myself and the moderators I'm sure I would have accepted it and moved on. When I receive messages breaking down services,adjectives, verbs acronyms, positions, and activities while at the same time making remarks about my attitude from ANOTHER provider that a mod passed me off on then I'm a lil upset. I'm not one to take that lightly..
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Most of us aren't meant to understand the bigger picture of policy. The rules are there for a reason, they are enforced for a reason, so they should be respected.