How Do You Like Your Chas Chas Played With?

Sorry for posting so much but I'm bored on the weekends and I have sex on the brain! Sadly since I can't work on the weekends I will talk sex here LOL!

So Ladies, how do you like your boobs played with?

I love it when a guy grabs my whole tit with his hand squeezing it. I love when he puts his WHOLE mouth on my tit slowly and gently licking and sucking the nipple. But not too hard because my nipples are oh so sensitive (pinching, sucking too hard, and biting my nipple hurts!). But when everything is done the right way my back will arch and you'll here that moan that drives a man wild. I will start getting super wet and ache for more. Mmmmmm I can't wait for Monday....
levi tab's Avatar
Dear Diary, if this post was asking the guys how they play with the Providers tits I would say the following...

There are times that I love to cradle the titty in my hand and lick all around it and gently run my tongue across the nipple like and accidental lick and move off of it and continue to lick and suck on the titty while I get closer to the nipple like a tease that I'm almost there and then move away. When I'm sure I have her attention and she is squirming for more, I finally start licking around the nipple and finally let my warm tongue make contact. I'll suck on the nipple, lick the nipple, gently tease the nipple with my teeth and it gets really exciting when the Provider grabs my head while I'm pleasing her nipple. When it's possible, I like to squeeze the titties together and alternate sucking on each nipple til I can get them close enough to suck and lick on both of them at once...

...too bad this thread wasn't asking the guys
Dear Diary, if this post was asking the guys how they play with the Providers tits I would say the following...

There are times that I love to cradle the titty in my hand and lick all around it and gently run my tongue across the nipple like and accidental lick and move off of it and continue to lick and suck on the titty while I get closer to the nipple like a tease that I'm almost there and then move away. When I'm sure I have her attention and she is squirming for more, I finally start licking around the nipple and finally let my warm tongue make contact. I'll suck on the nipple, lick the nipple, gently tease the nipple with my teeth and it gets really exciting when the Provider grabs my head while I'm pleasing her nipple. When it's possible, I like to squeeze the titties together and alternate sucking on each nipple til I can get them close enough to suck and lick on both of them at once...

...too bad this thread wasn't asking the guys Originally Posted by levi tab
Perhaps I should ask the guys but I better have some toys handy!
GentlemanCaller007's Avatar
Dang good question Malaya!

I wish I could always guess correctly the first time I'm with a woman without feeling like I picked the right technique for the wrong lady.... Some like it hard, some like it soft, some liked it hard last week but now for some reason are too sensitive today....

I'll be interested to hear what each ladies "default" is though!

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So Malaya, has that always been your favorite or did it change because you are pregnant?
Were you ever a crab-tap lover? (one of my exes didn't like to have her nipples pinched hard or constant (like a nipple clamp),instead she loved\insisted on having her nipples pinched over and over with medium-light pressure between the thumb and forefinger; I felt like I had little crab claws but instead of pinching, I was just tap, tap, tap, tap, tap, tap....)
Dang good question Malaya!

I wish I could always guess correctly the first time I'm with a woman without feeling like I picked the right technique for the wrong lady.... Some like it hard, some like it soft, some liked it hard last week but now for some reason are too sensitive today....

I'll be interested to hear what each ladies "default" is though!

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So Malaya, has that always been your favorite or did it change because you are pregnant?
Were you ever a crab-tap lover? (one of my exes didn't like to have her nipples pinched hard or constant (like a nipple clamp),instead she loved\insisted on having her nipples pinched over and over with medium-light pressure between the thumb and forefinger; I felt like I had little crab claws but instead of pinching, I was just tap, tap, tap, tap, tap, tap....) Originally Posted by GentlemanCaller007
I think I've always been like that. I'm super sensitive and it's very easy to turn me on. But when it comes to pain in my nipples or lady area...it doesn't feel good. I can take hair pulling and pounding my pussy but biting, pinching, or anything like that on my clit or nipples is very painful for me. Usually I just grit my teeth and bear it but lately they are even more sensitive and I find myself asking others not to be so hard. I feel bad but it really does hurt.
  • Laz
  • 08-25-2012, 09:15 PM
Usually I just grit my teeth and bear it but lately they are even more sensitive and I find myself asking others not to be so hard. I feel bad but it really does hurt. Originally Posted by Malaya
I would like to think most guys do things to please the woman. If what they are doing is not pleasant I bet most of us want you to say something and not "just grin and bear it".

We are all different. One of the benefits of this hobby is learning about different people. If you don't give us feedback we are being deprived of some of the benefit and you are being deprived of a pleasant experience.
Whiskey-Fied's Avatar
If what they are doing is not pleasant I bet most of us want you to say something and not "just grin and bear it".

If you don't give us feedback we are being deprived of some of the benefit and you are being deprived of a pleasant experience. Originally Posted by Laz
I am one who also prefers feedback since pleasing is a large part of my own pleasure.
GentlemanCaller007's Avatar
I would like to think most guys do things to please the woman. If what they are doing is not pleasant I bet most of us want you to say something and not "just grin and bear it". Originally Posted by Laz
+1 Agreed. We are trying to make you feel good too. If we guessed your type wrong, Please do tell us. Same goes for Ass-spanking. Some ladies love it, some HATE it.
I even dated a lady who liked to have her thighs lightly bit while getting cunnilingus. I think she's just been reading too many Twilight novels if you ask me....
Malaya, I do NOT like having my cha cha's played with!
I also prefer feedback. There is so much variance in what women like. My SO always liked a gentle touch so that's how I started playing it. I know one who loves her nipples pinched real hard, one who like her breasts squeezed somewhat hard but not so hard on the nipps. Some tender, some hard almost nipple clamp hard for some. I usually ask a new lady how she likes it right when I start playing with them. I try to play it by what she indicates.