The sight of a penis

garlandBone's Avatar
Someone had recently posted a thread wanting an mmf encounter. You see this every once in a great while. As usualy happens, there were a few interested, but most replies were squeemish of the idea. (homophobia?). I think it is all kind of funny. Who here hasn't/doesn't watch porn? Porn is essentialy phallic in nature. Yes, there is abundant female nudity, but what are those females doing? They are stroking penises, sucking on penises, sitting on penises, getting showered by penises... . In Bukake porn, some poor asian girl gets attacked by dozens of penises. Half the time, you dont even see the guy's faces, just a penis fills the screen, a penis being engulfed by lips. Now here is the irony of it all. While we enjoy watching images of penises, pretending we are the ones recieving special treatment, we (actual y'all) get squeemish if you find yourself in a real life situation of another penis in the same room getting tlc. For me, it would be a turn-on to watch another man being serviced while I too was getting some, although, given my oral inclinations I would want to be the guy in front! I guess I'm either crazy or have subconcsious bisexual leanings. Just an observation.
You're not bisexual. I think you are more normal than most would admit publicly.
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
Back on another board in the old days, a thread of mine was closed because I was looking for a third guy for a client of mine and well, me. It was scandalous! Shocking! I received PM's and before the topic was closed, men were coming out of the woodwork stating that men who would do something like this were not straight. Period.

Funny what a difference a few years make! Now, some of those SAME men have actually experienced it, they're STILL hetero (imagine that? lol) and the topic doesn't hold the same disgust and disregard as it once did.

And isn't that a great thing!!! (BTW, it's probably my number one fantasy other than straight male and female interaction. Just HOT HOT HOT!)

Elisabeth

P.S. And I'm going to add a little to what Dannie wrote. I sincerely believe that most passionate men think of a LOT of different sexual scenarios and they just don't admit it. And also? They've done a lot of different things as well and don't admit to it. Just for one example, a man being with a transsexual. Oh yes. MANY of done it, maybe not even been aware of it.
AlmostThere's Avatar
i'd like to hear what others have to say about this
I'm interested in MMF sessions
no homo
You make some very good points GarlandBone! Some guys are extremely homophobic and it's just dumb IMHO.

My SO absolutely LOVES to watch me be fucked by another guy. Thats why I started offering voyeur sessions.

I've had clients come over just to watch me and my SO go at it and he masturbates.
I've had clients who just do me, and my SO watches and masturbates.
I've had clients who share me with my SO - for instance, my SO does my doggy while I give a BJ to the client, or other way around.
Never any male on male contact.

I looooove these sessions. I feel unbelievably sexy and desirable. Nothing like having two men wanting you at the same time!!
there is nothing wrong with it. when i was married for a time my ex and i were swingers. on a number of occasions i participated in MMF with her and in most we did a DP on her or one of the other wifes. Im not the least bit homosexual. Frankly man on man action grosses me out. But i'm sure at least a few times there was accidental sword crossing due to the nature of DP. It can't be helped. It is what it is. I miss those days and would happily do it again if I had the right people to do it with.
It's been something that has crossed my mind and i have discussed with the SO. The thought and fantasy of it is a real turn on; my SO can be very sexual so having her fully enjoy herself and indulge in a fantasy is an amazing thought. However i'm a bit lacking in the self-confidence area so that boundary of fantasy that becomes self-doubt is pretty slim.
Jasser's Avatar
When I was first approached with this idea, I admit, I said hell no! However, I realized my concerns weren't necessarily homophobic as much as they were insecurities.

I finally gave into the idea and it was actually exciting. Neither of us (males) paid attention to one another; our attention was all on the female. Once we saw the satisfaction she received from the tag team, we had a blast.

The latest double team I had involved me, a female, and a cucumber. Yes, the cucumber had a larger cock than me, but it was all good and the female was in total bliss.

DISCLAIMER: No the cucumber never looked at my penis nor do it come anywhere near my glory hole, however I did take a peak at the cucumber's length and girth and was a bit jealous. blah blah blah blah...copyright of Ricky Bobby.
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
Jasser,

That was a funny post, in a way. There was a book in the 70's called something along the lines of "You can always find a fresh cucumber" and it was full of one-liner's.

I just googled it and came up with a few of them. (DISCLAIMER: I disagree with the premise of the prose. Men are DEFINITELY better then a cucumber!!!!)

THE CUCUMBER BOOK

(124 REASONS WHY CUCUMBERS ARE BETTER THAN MEN)


CUCUMBERS ARE BETTER THAN MEN BECAUSE..........

Cucumbers stay hard for a week.

A cucumber won't tell you size doesn't count.

Cucumbers don't get too excited.

A Cucumber never suffers from personality anxiety.

Cucumbers are easy to pick up.

You can fondle Cucumbers in a supermarket.....
.... and you know how firm it is before you take it home.

Cucumbers can get away any weekend.

With a Cucumber you can get a single room.....
.... and you don't have to check in as "Mrs. Cucumber."

A Cucumber will always respect you in the morning.

You can go to a movie with a Cucumber, and SEE the movie.

At a drive-in, you can stay in the front seat.

A Cucumber can always wait until you get home.

A Cucumber won't eat all the popcorn....
.... or send you out for Milk Duds.

A Cucumber won't drag you to a John Wayne Film Festival.

A Cucumber won't ask:"Am I the First?"

Cucumber don't care if you are still a virgin.

Cucumbers won't tell other Cucumbers you're still a virgin.

Cucumbers won't tell anyone you're not a virgin anymore.

With Cucumbers, you don't have to be a virgin more than once.

Cucumbers won't write your name and number on the men room walls.

Cucumbers don't have sexual hangups.

Cucumbers won't make you wear kinky clothes....
.... or go to bed with boots on.

Cucumbers aren't into rope, leather, talking dirty or swinging
with fruits and nuts.

You can have as many Cucumbers as you can handle.

You only eat Cucumbers when you feel like it.

Cucumbers never need a round of applause.

Cucumbers won't ask: "Am I the best?... How was it?...
Did you come?... How many times?"

Cucumbers aren't jealous of your Gynecologist, Ski Instructor, or
your Hair Dresser.

A Cucumber won't want to join your support group.

A Cucumber never wants to improve you mind.

Cucumbers aren't into meaningful conversations.

Cucumbers won't ask about your last lover.....
..... or speculate about your next one.

A Cucumber will never make a scene because there are other
Cucumbers in the refrigerator.

A Cucumber won't mind hiding in the refrigerator when your Mother
comes over.

No matter how old you are, you can always get a fresh Cucumber.

Cucumbers can handle rejection.

A Cucumber won't pout if you have a headache.

A Cucumber won't care what time of the month it is.

A Cucumber never wants to get it in when your nails are wet.

A Cucumber won't give it up for Lent.

With a Cucumber, you never have to say you're sorry.

Cucumbers don't leave whisker burns, fall asleep on your chest,
or drool on the pillow.

A Cucumber won't give you a hickey.

Cucumbers can stay up ALL night, and you won't have to sleep in
the wet spot.

Afterwards, a Cucumber won't.....
..... want to shake hands and be friends.
..... say, "I'll call you a cab."
..... tell you he's not the marrying kind.
..... tell you he is the marrying kind.
..... call his Mother, ex-wife, or therapist.
..... take you to confession.

Cucumbers don't leave you wondering for a month.
###

There's more. It was a cute book. Sorry for the thread drift. I'm just glad that there are some men who are realizing that a mmf situation can be really great!!!

Elisabeth
morefunat38's Avatar
I think it would be wild to be second in line for a BJ
Bobster36's Avatar
I've done MFM on several occaisons with no sword crossing. It was great. I'd do it again in a heartbeat.
Someone had recently posted a thread wanting an mmf encounter. You see this every once in a great while. As usualy happens, there were a few interested, but most replies were squeemish of the idea. (homophobia?). I think it is all kind of funny. Who here hasn't/doesn't watch porn? Porn is essentialy phallic in nature. Yes, there is abundant female nudity, but what are those females doing? They are stroking penises, sucking on penises, sitting on penises, getting showered by penises... . In Bukake porn, some poor asian girl gets attacked by dozens of penises. Half the time, you dont even see the guy's faces, just a penis fills the screen, a penis being engulfed by lips. Now here is the irony of it all. While we enjoy watching images of penises, pretending we are the ones recieving special treatment, we (actual y'all) get squeemish if you find yourself in a real life situation of another penis in the same room getting tlc. For me, it would be a turn-on to watch another man being serviced while I too was getting some, although, given my oral inclinations I would want to be the guy in front! I guess I'm either crazy or have subconcsious bisexual leanings. Just an observation. Originally Posted by garlandBone
I really like the way you think. You're open minded and secure in your sexuality. Pretty impressive. If you resemble David Beckham, lets get married! LOL
P.S. I LOVE 3-somes.
And who among us hasn't grabbed a handful of 'manliness' in a moment of need?

(Why are my palms so hairy?)
Someone had recently posted a thread wanting an mmf encounter. You see this every once in a great while. As usualy happens, there were a few interested, but most replies were squeemish of the idea. (homophobia?). I think it is all kind of funny. Who here hasn't/doesn't watch porn? Porn is essentialy phallic in nature. Yes, there is abundant female nudity, but what are those females doing? They are stroking penises, sucking on penises, sitting on penises, getting showered by penises... . In Bukake porn, some poor asian girl gets attacked by dozens of penises. Half the time, you dont even see the guy's faces, just a penis fills the screen, a penis being engulfed by lips. Now here is the irony of it all. While we enjoy watching images of penises, pretending we are the ones recieving special treatment, we (actual y'all) get squeemish if you find yourself in a real life situation of another penis in the same room getting tlc. For me, it would be a turn-on to watch another man being serviced while I too was getting some, although, given my oral inclinations I would want to be the guy in front! I guess I'm either crazy or have subconcsious bisexual leanings. Just an observation. Originally Posted by garlandBone

Well I can't say I quite agree with the logic. Yes, when watching porn you can fantasize that it is your own penis receiving the attention, but in a MMF threesome the situation is quite different, unless of course you like to fantasize about having two penises... Talking for myself, I would do it as a favor for my SO if she asked, but otherwise this doesn't really interest me. It certainly does not interest me enough to PAY for it. Doesn't mean I am homophobic as some other posters say, just not my thing. But for those of you who like it, that is what is so great about this hobby: You can pretty much get whatever you like, so go have some fun! Sounds like there are a few providers and hobbyists on this thread alone who will indulge you...
kohoutek's Avatar
Did it in college 30 sum (70's you know) years ago and would be up for it again.