If you should know providers have clients who are NCNS and providers respect clients decisions of not showing up and also the fact that they do have lives outside of being a hobbiest and that blowing up there phone or sending numerous pm's is not going to make the appointment happen and you simply move on with your life Appointments are neither fun or enjoyable if your not comfortable with your client or provider I learned this from being a provider for 2 years...
Thats the greatness of being a hobbiest/provider you see who you want and just like hobbiest look for providers who meet there criteria..providers do the same.
Also if I may add I had a 9lbs 14oz child when I was 18 (which it may have made my stomach not flat but it gave me great tits)so gents out there who would like to say "my stomach was horrible" "I have to many stretch marks", I am so sorry that my stomach got damaged from having my child and those who feel this way about my stomach do me a favor and please do let me know how easy it is for you to push out a 10lbs baby (gain 96lbs total for those 9months) and have a banging body with no stretch marks!
Yours truely,
Emma_blue_eyes
XOXO