I have a problem...

Around Wednesday night, this crazy latina woman was stalking me because I wouldn't give in to her mind games or some bullshit.

Well, I was trying to chat with someone on AIM and she left me a crazy e-mail saying that she will ruin my life.

Well, starting now, people do not believe that I attend Austin Community College as I tried to state to them that I do. She is crazy. At one time asked me if I had a girlfriend. I said no. Then, she asked if I was gay. I told her no. She was going berserk about me ignoring her.

What do I do about it. I think she had won. She seems like a hoodrat that does nothing but ruin lives of many of the guys like me.

What do I do to get my name cleared from this psycho?

Is this loca someone you know in person or online? Does she know where you live? Have your phone number?

Is this loca someone you know in person or online? Does she know where you live? Have your phone number? Originally Posted by Sir Hardin Thicke

No. I think she knows my e-mail by personal information that I had from my e-mail address I gave this lady I was talking to. She was sitting right across from me and the 41 year old lady I was having a chat with.

The psycho is 23 years old.

It's not really clear what she has done so far from your posts. Did she withdraw you from ACC? Does she have any personal info besides email and IM? it's not a big deal to switch email addresses every once in a while...a lot of people do it because of spam issues. Just notify everyone on your list (except her) of your new email address and perhaps get a new IM handle as well.

It usually takes two to tango. If you aren't "there", it's 99% likely she'll go away. Under no circumstances should you meet this person anywhere at night or away from a crowd.

I suspect there's more to this story though.

I'm YELLING quack quack. who is this guy and why does he think we are supposed to bail him out of his "bad decision"?
"around Wednesday night"? WTF, what is "around Wednesday....?
Does he NOT know? Was it "around" or "near" or close to"?
Gentlemen, I think we have a kid with buyers remorse amongst us.
"sitting across from...? " Really? What does that mean?
His story doesn't make sense, and he joined the game, (if we are to believe his first POST date) 3 weeks ago. Nah, I'll pass...... he's on his own.

It's not really clear what she has done so far from your posts. Did she withdraw you from ACC? Does she have any personal info besides email and IM? it's not a big deal to switch email addresses every once in a while...a lot of people do it because of spam issues. Just notify everyone on your list (except her) of your new email address and perhaps get a new IM handle as well.

It usually takes two to tango. If you aren't "there", it's 99% likely she'll go away. Under no circumstances should you meet this person anywhere at night or away from a crowd.

I suspect there's more to this story though. Originally Posted by coste

Well, she did withdraw from ACC. Plus, I was not going out with her. She knew someone I used to see.

What happened was my business came across from a close friend which I am not friends with him anymore and he knew the two girls as well. The second girl got into it with me which I ignored her a few times.

I was never there, I continue to ignore her advantage. She is loopy though, believed that I had did something to hurt her by seeing a friend of hers back in 2007. What happened was that she told a few people in ACC where I attend back in 2007 and it really affected me a bit.

She saw me again Wednesday during the day and evening time at the new shopping center at Slaughter Ln. and tried to ask me out. I told her to leave me alone with the head games.

She went crazy and started saying that I need to go fall off a cliff.

Edit: I did make a new AIM account, but I am staying with Yahoo for the time being.

hmm...the reason i'm on this board is to avoid the kind of drama you are talking about.

Sounds like you have things under control now. Good luck.

Dont see where this is ahobby related issue unless I missed it somewhere so in saying that you should completely ignore her, dont give her anything to remark or talk about try that...

LOL, what part of what he wrote leads you to believe HE HAS THINGS UNDER CONTROL? more than a bit funny.

hmm...the reason i'm on this board is to avoid the kind of drama you are talking about.

Sounds like you have things under control now. Good luck. Originally Posted by coste

Dont see where this is ahobby related issue unless I missed it somewhere so in saying that you should completely ignore her, dont give her anything to remark or talk about try that... Originally Posted by St.Mateo59

I think I heard St.M go grrr?

Well, I have to give The Leotard credit. He's as willing to ask for advice as he is willing to give it. http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=52032 That takes a big man (on campus).

Well, starting now, people do not believe that I attend Austin Community College as I tried to state to them that I do. Originally Posted by The_Leopard

You are correct about that. Starting now, I do not believe for one second that a fine institution of higher learning such as Austin Community College would ever accept you as a student.



I have a question for some of the responders here. When someone posts something that's just batshit crazy, why do you take it seriously and try to give a serious answer? I mean, seriously people!! The original post makes absolutely zero sense.

You are correct about that. Starting now, I do not believe for one second that a fine institution of higher learning such as Austin Community College would ever accept you as a student.



I have a question for some of the responders here. When someone posts something that's just batshit crazy, why do you take it seriously and try to give a serious answer? I mean, seriously people!! The original post makes absolutely zero sense. Originally Posted by Booth

How come first off? This is graduate school for me. I am in my 30's.

Second of all, my thread was off because I checked my yahoo mail and was shocked after reading it.

I didn't respond to it back. But, she continue to send me mail about ignoring her. Fatal Attraction style.

I never have dated her or nothing. So, if my thread was sort of off, I was just terrified at her e-mail. I rarely check yahoo mail; only on Thursdays and Fridays.

And Carl, reframe from using name calling. Please, thanks.

How come first off? This is graduate school for me. I am in my 30's.

Second of all, my thread was off because I checked my yahoo mail and was shocked after reading it.

I didn't respond to it back. But, she continue to send me mail about ignoring her. Fatal Attraction style.

I never have dated her or nothing. So, if my thread was sort of off, I was just terrified at her e-mail. I rarely check yahoo mail; only on Thursdays and Fridays.

And Carl, reframe from using name calling. Please, thanks. Originally Posted by The_Leopard

Yeah Carl, you need to reframe. We're talking graduate student here!

I say marry her. No one fucks better than a chick who is one step from being crazy.