I just read two online help/opinion pieces called "A Nerds Guide To Sex" and "How To Use Escort Services" by Marc Perkel. http://sex.perkel.com/howto/nerdsex.htm
Being very new to the hobby I really enjoyed his insights but one thing he kept repeating was hard for me to swallow (no pun intended ladies). Scattered throughout these tomes of wisdom was the constant assertion that, even though he was middle aged and a nerd himself, the woman he was with always had orgasms, usually multiple times. (That includes escorts of course and he claims 50 of 'em helped him with the research)
These orgasms were achieved by 1) his careful attention to NOT doing what she didn't like 2) doing a lot of what she liked , 3) going in with the presumption that a fabulous sex experience was gonna happen 4) technique, etc. etc. In fact the lady almost always has the first orgasm at his hands just to get things quivering right.
With the understanding that I know less about this than anyone alive, I've gotta say this is hard to believe. So I've come to the ultimate source for the truth: all you sweet, sensuous providers. Is he right or way off the mark?? My big head tells me that escorts, dedicated as you are, must just give men what we want to see and hear. This is a job. How many times a day can you get that WOW feeling without having to take a nap?? 5? 10? You must pretend a little. Just a teenie bit?
Or do you REALLY have those multiple toe curling, shuddering orgasms every time like he says?
Inquiring prurient nasty little minds like mine want to know.
Thanks Ladies