Is This True, Ladies??

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I just read two online help/opinion pieces called "A Nerds Guide To Sex" and "How To Use Escort Services" by Marc Perkel. http://sex.perkel.com/howto/nerdsex.htm

Being very new to the hobby I really enjoyed his insights but one thing he kept repeating was hard for me to swallow (no pun intended ladies). Scattered throughout these tomes of wisdom was the constant assertion that, even though he was middle aged and a nerd himself, the woman he was with always had orgasms, usually multiple times. (That includes escorts of course and he claims 50 of 'em helped him with the research)

These orgasms were achieved by 1) his careful attention to NOT doing what she didn't like 2) doing a lot of what she liked , 3) going in with the presumption that a fabulous sex experience was gonna happen 4) technique, etc. etc. In fact the lady almost always has the first orgasm at his hands just to get things quivering right.

With the understanding that I know less about this than anyone alive, I've gotta say this is hard to believe. So I've come to the ultimate source for the truth: all you sweet, sensuous providers. Is he right or way off the mark?? My big head tells me that escorts, dedicated as you are, must just give men what we want to see and hear. This is a job. How many times a day can you get that WOW feeling without having to take a nap?? 5? 10? You must pretend a little. Just a teenie bit?

Or do you REALLY have those multiple toe curling, shuddering orgasms every time like he says?

Inquiring prurient nasty little minds like mine want to know.
Thanks Ladies
In my case, it is certainly true! Sometimes it takes less than 5 minutes, other times a little longer. My personal best is over 20 in less than 2 hours! I am always looking to break that record!
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In my case, it is certainly true! Sometimes it takes less than 5 minutes, other times a little longer. My personal best is over 20 in less than 2 hours! I am always looking to break that record! Originally Posted by Nicolet
Damn Nicolet, that is hot. I'm going back to count my money; gotta find a way to get to you girl. Thanks for the info, straight from the girl who must love it!!!
I'm here darlin', ready, wet and more than able!
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quote---Or do you REALLY have those multiple toe curling, shuddering orgasms every time like he says? ---unquote

a slut never tells...wink/wink{lol}


No serriously a guy can usually tell if it is fake..I enjoy myself in ALL my sessions in every way possible...does not mean I orgasm every time,but I sure as hell am enjoying whatever is happening at the time!
I am a little different then most girls,I can orgasm thru intercourse AND thru greek play....I dont get hung up on whether i am going to have an orgasm,rather I just lay back and enjoy the pursuit of pleasure!

Tantric teaches that the "object" of sex is pursuit of pleasure....not to orgasm...the orgasm is just the benefit of that pleasure!!!!
That is so true! It was not until last year that I even HAD orgasms, or at least the ones that flood the bed! Back then, many of my lovers were disappointed that I did not orgasm, but I would look them dreamily in their eyes and say, "Baby, I loved every second of you...."
Unlike men, women don't always have to finish to feel satisfied. That part is of little importance to me. If it happens, it happens, and it's great. I always enjoy myself though!