For people who know me, if I make a mistake I admit it. If I am right on something, I stand behind it. I try to put a lot of research into things that I say, sometimes resulting in an accurate portrayal of facts, sometimes screwing them up. I am not perfect. But always I am honest about what I say even though I am criticized for being too blunt, too factual, and too aggressive in my statements. Some people do not like me because of my honesty......oh well.
Earlier I made a statement about Tara Evans in the Men's Lounge and a similar one in the Coed section (or some place). I later received a nice ass chewing from Tara a few hours later and my first response was that there was a leak in the Men's Lounge. There wasn't. I forgot that I had written basically the same comments outside of the Men's Lounge where Tara obviously has access. Having said that, I would have said what I said either place as I really do not care what Tara thinks of those comments as they are factually correct.....Sorry Tara. Contrary to her beliefs, I am not trying to hurt her business or am I (cyber) stalking her. This board is to post factual information and obviously interjected with personal opinions on those facts so that members (men) can make choices on who they want to see with MINIMUM risks of a less than satisfactory session.
Recent discussions have been going on about Tara Evans' sessions. I have expressed my beliefs based upon personal experiences, and from others who have seen her. Much of the disagreement comes from the belief that there are TWO Taras.....one of the past and one of the present. Admittedly, and I have said this quite emphatically, my experience is with the OLD Tara. That experience has shown that she WAS YMMV to some extent and was not GFE in most cases (specifically CBJ, lack of passion, rushed session). That is what I got out of reading the 58 old reviews and the 5 new reviews I could find on her on three boards. In all fairness that was the old Tara.
Who is Tara Evans today? Obviously I do not know personally. I am still cautiously optimistic that she may have changed. She appears to be providing BBBJ as a few members here have stated. I went back and re-read all of the reviews being careful not to confuse her with Tara Andrea just to make sure I was accurate in my representation of the facts. Looking at all the reviews I could find (63) she has a 68% favorable rating and a 32% negative rating. The negative ratings were a result in most cases of the three things I mentioned above that she was lacking. Of the recent reviews I found four good ones and one bad one (80%/20%) which is not unusually out of character for many providers. A few of those mentioned BBBJ specifically. So has she changed for the good? I truly hope so.
It is never the intention of most members on review boards to do anything but help fellow hobbyists with accurate info based upon their experiences. I am willing to concede that possibly she has changed. I will never find out personally as she has assured me of that, but based upon 5 recent reviews she may have turned a corner in her career. Time will tell. Times are tough and that calls for drastic measures. Maybe she has reached a point where she must become what she needs to be. I hope that she has.
I have always liked her as she has always shown great potential. She has had to adjust and even when starting out at OES she said she would NEVER provide L2/L3. But as many others have acknowledged, she simply came up short in the GFE department all those previous years possibly due to her slow acceptance of what GFE was.
As I am sure Tara will read this, I mean you no harm. Part of the purpose of these review boards is to not only protect the hobbyists from poor service, but to motivate providers who are lacking in areas and make changes for the better or get out of the business and do something they are better suited for.
I wish Tara the best in her new found career and sincerely hope that all hobbyists will find her as enjoyable as she now claims to be. If in fact she is now GFE as she claims, I think she does not charge enough. She may have caught on to something with this new GFE mentality in terms of new rates.
Again, my apologies to Tara if I offended her with my observations, and to the members of this board for assuming there was a leak when in fact it was me that created the problem. I humbly stand with egg on my face.
IT