Why Do Men Pay for Sex?

I recently saw this article by Katherine Feeney and thought I would share it with you. Be sure to check out the Comments at the end.

http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life...911-25qdi.html

I think it boils down to that one part of a relationship Men and Women sometimes look for, intimacy without a traditional relationship.

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Why Do Men Pay for Sex?

Some would say it's cheaper than getting married, I say it's cheaper than getting a divorce, as long as she doesn't tell my SO!

I'm assuming money buys silence?

Love of women, healthy sex drive and a simple honest exchange of services ... Needs and wants ... Never really seemed more complicated than that ...

Cause its easier then having to convince civilian into having sex with u.

Plus now.....some of the darker, weirder stuff i like nowadays would scare away the civilian girls i was with.

Because you can.

Katherine Feeney writes:

Furthermore, the researchers found these guys preferred good (pardon the moral deliberateness) old-fashioned “penile-vaginal coitus” to any other sex act. Not anal or oral or any other kind of freaky-deaky sex so commonly thought of as the kind men really want.

I didn't know oral -- which I immensely enjoy giving as well as receiving -- was "freaky-deaky"!

I can only speak for myself: I'm five years' divorced after a 30-year marriage in which the sex was infrequent, mediocre, and full of head games -- and not the good sort of "head" games(!) With my ATF, on the other hand, I can enjoy the perfect fantasy: An evening that starts with dinner at an upscale restaurant, where I can enjoy a conversation with my intelligent, beautiful, elegantly dressed companion. Afterward, we repair to her cozy, residence-like incall for passionate -- albeit usually "vanilla" (as well as the "freaky-deaky" oral we both enjoy) -- sex. Then, after at least one satisfying orgasm each, we lie together and chat about anything and everything. The consummate courtesan, she knows how to stroke my ego as expertly as she strokes my...well, you know...

To a lawyer acquaintance of mine, who sneers at me from his legal high horse ("...what you're doing is illegal, you know"), I retort: "I probably spend as much as you do on a date, with one big difference: I know I'm gonna get laid tonight!"

...Plus now.....some of the darker, weirder stuff i like nowadays would scare away the civilian girls i was with. Originally Posted by savak

So, savak -- you're freaky-deaky!

Because the Hos don't give it away and the old fat bald toads can't get it any other way. Any half way decent looking man can go to any nice hotel bar; even a fat toad, if he has a good line of bullshit, can get laid for free. Most of the Hos I see I would not fuck for free much less pay them.

Because the Hos don't give it away and the old fat bald toads can't get it any other way. Any half way decent looking man can go to any nice hotel bar; even a fat toad, if he has a good line of bullshit, can get laid for free. Most of the Hos I see I would not fuck for free much less pay them. Originally Posted by Txsunman

So, why are you here, you smooth talker you?

two words ... instant gratification.. it easily fulfills my need for physical intimacy... it's also a bit of a power trip, and strokes my very fragile ego.. these are the main reasons

Because the Hos don't give it away and the old fat bald toads can't get it any other way. Any half way decent looking man can go to any nice hotel bar; even a fat toad, if he has a good line of bullshit, can get laid for free. Most of the Hos I see I would not fuck for free much less pay them.

Not even close, TxSunMan. Going to a nice hotel bar is a crapshoot, and it takes time, AND a line of bullshit. Paying for sex is simple: $$$ for pussy. However, the biggest reason men pay for sex is elimination of drama. Men want pussy, they want strange, but they don't want all the drama that comes with even a hotel bar pickup. That hotel-girl wants wine, champagne, a two hour courtship, then your name, your number, etc... She wants to feel like it wasn't "cheap."

Fuck all that. Men don't pay for sex, they pay for the girl to get the hell out after sex. They pay to not play all the damn games that women attach to the snatch.

I need a lover that won't drive me crazy
Some girl that knows the meaning of a
Hey hit the highway

John (Couger) Mellencamp

There are too many reasons why people pay for sex, and we all have different ones. I don't think that there is a one solid formula to answer it all.

If you have to super-simplify it... I would guess that, it's because the resources are available to be utilized and the sex is there to be had.

Oh yeah, before I miss this opportunity:

Because the Hos don't give it away and the old fat bald toads can't get it any other way. Any half way decent looking man can go to any nice hotel bar; even a fat toad, if he has a good line of bullshit, can get laid for free. Most of the Hos I see I would not fuck for free much less pay them. Originally Posted by Txsunman

Why? Because it's safe sex.......no danger of a provider moving her mother into your house! Lol

Why? Because it's safe sex....... almost no danger of a provider moving her mother into your house! Lol Originally Posted by Jed Clampett

Fixed that quote for you Jed. http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...light=pregnant