Why is it so hard?.... not enough on both sides!

by Samars.man "I consider myself to be a great client .I am always polite , clean , descrite ,punctual, i call if time is not going right, a good tipper hell i even joined 411"....Me: tmaxgarcia.... On a positive note, I sometimes find that, yes it is hard to set a date with a provider due to screening, .....but, then again, I think that screening is not consistant or is lacking on both sides! I find myself, even with a known provider, a little on the questiong myself side... "is she ok or save?" . I have been (as I have shared with some off you all) takeing in by LE, and let me tell you it is not a good place to be and expansive too (even if not guilty), .... but hell its in my DNA, I need to have it!. So, I say, yes, providers and clients, keep up your guard, even with the best client!!!! What's your input?, What other "safeguards should be implemented when screening?

Many ladies are now adding additional screening methods on top of references to screen. For obvious reasons these methods are not disclosed but may require additional info from the gent. If the gent is seeing a well known provider with plenty of reviews, he should feel comfortable providing the info she requests (well other than SSN & such). The hobby has changed & refs are no longer as reliable. Some ladies will mo longer provide refs, so gents should ask in advance if they will provide a ref before the appt.

Many ladies are now adding additional screening methods on top of references to screen. For obvious reasons these methods are not disclosed but may require additional info from the gent. If the gent is seeing a well known provider with plenty of reviews, he should feel comfortable providing the info she requests (well other than SSN & such). The hobby has changed & refs are no longer as reliable. Some ladies will no longer provide refs, so gents should ask in advance if they will provide a ref before the appt (if they plan to have her vouch in the future). Hobbyists & LE are both getting smarter about getting around being blacklisted by the ladies, but don't underestimate the intelligence of the ladies on this board. Individually & combined, there are some real smart cookies on here who look out for each other.

I agree with you atx sometimes it may be difficult to hear back from some providers, but I harldy had issues with girls not contacting me back but then again its different with everyone. I try and get back to the girls asap I have always told customers if I dont reply fast for the providers to call me no biggie. I pretty much ask for at least two refrences and or p411, if they have p411 then i usually dont request the refrences it takes to long.

Sometimes after a long wait for my dinner, I tend to enjoy it more....... When a provider takes a while to get back with me and I finally see her (cause she was checking my referances), i seem to eat everything in my plate!