What's MOST important to you in a session???

DallasRain's Avatar
I can’t say that I’ve ever met a man who didn’t like to have his cock sucked on. As a matter of fact that would probably rate as the biggest turn on if men had to pick just one aspect of sex as their favorite. At least that’s my take on the subject.

What's your opinion????What's MOST important to you in a session???
Let's see...where to begin.
  • I perform. Or, I perform better than normal. Just the basics would do.
  • She isn't totally repulsed.
  • I'd like to make multiple shots, but don't these days.
  • We get along.
  • We have a great session.
  • I don't leave feeling like it's been a quickie session.
  • No NC/NS.
  • No lateness.
  • No cash & dash.
Oh, I probably left some things out. And these aren't in any particular order.

My biggest quandary: since I only have one pop, do I go w/ the blowjob, with the sex, or what? It's a tough choice.

I guess it is the overall atmosphere of the session, if you really want to know.

Sorry for rambling...
Gryphon's Avatar
The feeling that she is truly happy to be with me and that we are both enjoying the time. Specific activities, while great in and of themselves, are not the most important aspect.
An intellectual connection, mutual satisfaction, lots of foreplay, pillow talk.

xoxo Sophie
Kissing, touching, and pillow talk!
MLisa's Avatar
  • MLisa
  • 06-01-2010, 10:26 PM
I can’t say that I’ve ever met a man who didn’t like to have his cock sucked on. As a matter of fact that would probably rate as the biggest turn on if men had to pick just one aspect of sex as their favorite. At least that’s my take on the subject.

What's your opinion????What's MOST important to you in a session??? Originally Posted by DallasRain

I can honestly sat I knew a man who did not like bj, my ex. I seriously thought I was doing something wrong and despite my efforts he never enjoyed them. Needless to say this left me feeling a bit in adequate in my ability to satisfy. Lucky for me I met a couple who showed me how screwed up my ex was hehe. She was awesome at bj and her hubby assured me after my first time running my tongue all over him that my ex was an idiot (at that time i was beginning to agree lol)

But seriously I tend to take my lead from my partner and hope to just have them glowing w/joy and relaxation before they leave.
KlassyKelliAnn's Avatar
My favorite thing to do is give my awesome "chrome off a bumper" bbbjs. I can cum doing them!

My favorite thing to get is a massage or really sexy passionate LFK or DFK. It is such a turn on!


KKA
tattooeddragon's Avatar
Most important in a session...

A lot has to happen to even *get* to what I feel is most important (for me anyway) in a session. If there is chemistry and good conversation (intelligence is oh so sexy!)...and if it is a nice relaxing atmosphere (No PSE for me please)...and if the woman is well groomed and smells oh so lovely (I shower and shave!)....

...then what I love the most is (going to be rather blunt here) eating that sweet pussy until she grinds her pelvis into my face screaming and creaming. I can do without the blowjobs frankly. I'm not going to pass them up (I'm a guy after all) but I guess that is what I miss most (sexually) when I am not in a relationship.

I get off getting her off. That is what is most important to me in a session. Well..right after not getting arrested I suppose...

Hmmm...maybe I should pose a question to my future dates. "So tell me....what makes you cum like a jackhammer?" I might get some really good answers...
Cpalmson's Avatar
Most important thing to me is having that momentary fantasy realized. I want the date to go well for both of us. I want us both to be satisfied.
DarthMaul's Avatar
Nice clean, place and some level of chemistry between the two of us. That's most important...OK BBBJ doesn't hurt either.
Laughter

I don't know if it is common, but after really good sex I laugh.
DallasRain's Avatar
quote--My favorite thing to do is give my awesome "chrome off a bumper" bbbjs. I can cum doing them!---quote

Ditto for me!!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE giving head!!!!!! They call me the "energizer head bunny"..lol!
runswithscissors's Avatar
Dallas, once again I find myself underneath you!!!!!

A+ on the energizer head bunny!

Most important for me in a session is a mental connection; the soft sensual carresses laying next to each other and talking at the same time; that in and of itself leads to a great physical encounter.
growler's Avatar
What's the important; simply put the spark, the feeling she wants to see you as much as you do her.....conversation/laughter/foreplay(my fav).......and yes a bbbj doesn't hurt LOL
Bobalouie's Avatar
A sensual bbj always contributes to a great session. I like the kind that brings you to the edge and back several times, with plenty of attention to the boys and other areas adjacent to that region. If it's good enough sometime's it's the only activity I want. Something about being brought to the edge and back that really makes for an extraordinary orgasm that seems to last for 2-3 minutes. I've heard that a prostate massage during a blowjob also intensifies the experience. Never tried it but I might if I get the chance.