PM-ing

I was wondering what individuals put into their PMs that are sent to providers. Is it something where one can be sexually playful and suggestive, or can one be overt, requesting certain clothing, actions, etc? I, for one, find the written word quite a turn on. It makes the anticipation all the more stimulating. What say you?

By the way, I would love to hear form providers, too. What do you like to get? Don't like to receive? Makes you uncomfortable?

IMHO PMs are more dangerous than e-mail.

I accept an occasional playful e-mail AFTER meeting.
Otherwise, it's a BIG NO NO.

Discussing services and the like is how people get busted.

you want me to do what!!!!! mmmmm would that be for cash or ass?

There's a fine line between what's playful and simply pathetic.

When guys contact me I like them to introduce themselves, tell me a little about themselves and then move on to a specific date and time, reference info, etc. That way I know they're genuine, they want to meet. Honestly, when a man sends me a playful email I think they might not be serious about meeting. Thats not to say they aren't, thats just been my personal experience. I have a great sense of humor, I like to be playful also, but it appears those types of emails always end up no where and I don't know why that is. I agree with what Sweet Elizabeth says too. A nice playful email after meeting is always appreciated.

I enjoy writing, and will be playful in my communications. At first, i found success in it, and opened doors to some really great companions. I also found some to really dislike it.

I will admit that while I get screened by providers, I am also screening them through how they react. If I am being playful in communication, I am serious about meeting. How the provider replies back as a part of "pre-sale". As a client, pre-sale is very important to me, and is a bit of foreplay. I admit, I may be in the minority here.

Some lessons learned,

1) don't talk dirty, till you ask the provider if its ok?
2) don't send more e-mail if you get no-reply.
3) providers that have good pre-sale usually provide better encounters

I just send pics of my private parts! works every time

I am with the other Ladies here. I have to screen someone or know them before I am playful. A lot of "Gents" play fantasy hobby just like fantasy football. I have no interest in that or the time to play that game, not to mention time is money.

A lot of "Gents" play fantasy hobby just like fantasy football. I have no interest in that or the time to play that game, not to mention time is money. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

LOL, gee, I wonder who fits that bill?

I am with the other Ladies here. I have to screen someone or know them before I am playful. A lot of "Gents" play fantasy hobby just like fantasy football. I have no interest in that or the time to play that game, not to mention time is money. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

I agree, BUT he is a richguy lol, only #2851 on the list, that still sounds lucrative

kidding. I do not mind a little extra reading, yet the real in and out is a bit better then the virtual back and forth..wait I need to think about this..

I just send pics of my private parts! works every time Originally Posted by GP

I do that, too. It shows the provider I have a sense of humor, at least I thinck it does since they always seem to be laughing when they reply.





If that does not work. Then first contact should be a short intro. Then straight to asking about availability and showing genuine interest in meeting. The fucktards have to respect the ladies' time because many get a lot of bs pms and emails daily.

many get a lot of bs pms and emails daily. Originally Posted by pyramider

Most of which are from me.

I do that, too. It shows the provider I have a sense of humor, at least I thinck it does since they always seem to be laughing when they reply.
If that does not work. Then first contact should be a short intro. Then straight to asking about availability and showing genuine interest in meeting. The fucktards have to respect the ladies' time because many get a lot of bs pms and emails daily. Originally Posted by pyramider

We sure do get some interesting mail, that is for sure. O_o

Let me know when you need a good laugh ... I will pm you my package.