What's on your mind when u r screening?

While I as a hobbyist look for a great experience (all the time )by first select by the physical attribites of my liking; then the sexy, fun nature, or even naughty personality; Finally, of couse the most important of being safe and comfortable.

What's on your mind when you are screening?
Surely I understand one of the main goal is to select clients that's "safe"

But I'm curious as to how do you decide? Most of the time, will the referred providers even remember the name or handle?

I'm new to this type of hobby, getting screened, just had my first rejection! LOL. My feelings are not hurt but surely it's a very unique experience for me after all these years of playing in safe, VIP type of environment.

Let me hear from you ladies and of course my new found fellow hobbyist.

Yes, yes, I do know about P411. I'm in the process of getting verified but without the use of traceable payment method since I am having so much fun of this new ways of hobbying.

tst888,

I think a lot ladies do there screening to keep safe. They may ask for a detail description, age, race, height, weight, 2-3 known companions you have last seen in the past 2 months or so. Also has to be a site eccie, p411. As I don't use "BP" nope nope that's just me hehe.

As I did rejected you because I don't use that site you gave me your references from. You may need try P411 they do some type of screening also. I know you would still have to get "okays" on your profile. You may want to start with eccie "newbie friendly ladies" here. There are a few ladies that take in new guys but very few lefted here. Hope this help's when you get references I would be happy to see you. Til mean time

Sonya Playmate

can I add? not only to be safe with the screening thing.. but this is also a tool to get to know you and to know who will be knocking on the door. Utmost it is for safety.
Sonya had said it correct, you will need to see a newbie friendly provider and start adding references under you belt.

licks and kisses hun

Sonya, thx! that's such a nice thing to say.
Hahaaa, now everyone knows that u r my first rejection of my life, hobby or not. LOL
Never gonna to hear the end of this from some of my friends. (@@)

Beyond the the whole *safety* aspect of it all As that is a major part of screening. I screen to make sure he's the type of man I *want* to spend time with. A man I will *want* to enjoy. I'm not a *session* type of woman.
I enjoy dates!
I screen more-so for the sole purpose of weeding out the wham bam *session* type guys . So I can enjoy being with a true gentleman who who adores and appreciates every aspect of a woman.

Sonya, thx! that's such a nice thing to say.
Hahaaa, now everyone knows that u r my first rejection of my life, hobby or not. LOL
Never gonna to hear the end of this from some of my friends. (@@) Originally Posted by tst888

I need to go see an eye dr....thought it said "whats on your mind when you are SCREAMING"....hate when that happens

Sonya, thx! that's such a nice thing to say.
Hahaaa, now everyone knows that u r my first rejection of my life, hobby or not. LOL
Never gonna to hear the end of this from some of my friends. (@@) Originally Posted by tst888

tst888, Guest what sonya got you screened...I'm ready to ROCK your world

For screening, I prefer men who have seen at least 4 references although 10+ reputable providers would be ideal Also, I pick up on wording/tone/mood in e-mails and prefer an e-mail exchange which is very positive/upbeat, not too pushy or where a client is putting me on a guilt trip because my screening standards are set very high. I would rather keep my rates San Antonio friendly for men who meet my requirements than see a guy at a much higher rate and have him murder me, rape me, steal from me or stalk me. You have to understand that providers face a great deal of stress and anxiety and we have to protect ourselves. Being selective has kept me very safe from harm....same with my sister provider Sonya who is legendary in this hobby and known for screening safe. Men who are pushy and think they can see me with one or two references....sometimes zero references.....especially references I am not fond of will make my black-list pretty quickly. I had clients in the past two months put me on a guilt trip and I blocked them to make my life easier.

Yeah......I PASSED. HEHEEEEEEEEE................
LUV YA. Yo quiero.......yo quiero......
Thank u. Mmmmmmba

Yeah......I PASSED. HEHEEEEEEEEE................
LUV YA. Yo quiero.......yo quiero......
Thank u. Mmmmmmba Originally Posted by tst888

YAY!!! You better buckle up and eat your wheaties because Sonya Playmate is the premier experience. Love the girl and glad that we are hanging out again these days

Yeah......I PASSED. HEHEEEEEEEEE................
LUV YA. Yo quiero.......yo quiero......
Thank u. Mmmmmmba Originally Posted by tst888

I understand a provider's screening requirements and believe that a safe provider is good for the hobbyist.

However, at my current hobby rate of twice this year, and three last year, there are many providers on this board that would not or will not 'chance' seeing me.

Oh well, with too many choices I would never be able to make up my mind, so I take it as a positive.

Ladies stay safe, gents stay horny.

Dogg

Thx for the advice, Latina Barbie, i'm lifting weights to get ready!
12oz BL, one in each hand! Heheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Can't help it
Me gusto mucho Latinas Bonita
Yo quiero taco bell!

Tst888' man you rocked my world...By the way feeling a bit better...

Lol...I should review you haha...