It depends on how well the two partners click & trust each other.
Spanking and pulling of hair, and restraints,
to me is just normal. And not rough play. (mpo)
But add restraints and blind folds, with slapping of his face while he's on his knees sucking your clit, or you lean in and suck on his nipples and you feel his swollen cock against your thigh and he didn't have permission to get hard, then he'll get punished in some fashion that pleases him.
Rough play all depends on who your with and the trust you have with your partner. It can go to different levels of extreme, based on comfort & trust with the two. And it can be thoroughly enjoyed in an erotic fashion
But to me, rough play won't be enjoyed with just *anyone*.
So what do most providers consider acceptable rough play? Now don't get me wrong, good old normal sex is what I am after, but once comfortable with a woman, ocassionally I like a little pulling hair, some light spanking during doggie, etc.
Others like more......restraints, choking, etc.
What do you like, and what don't you like? Just curious.
Originally Posted by Rossboss