Freggin Flakes Piss me off

Shit happens. That being said not getting back to the person you had an appointment with for days is rude. Whether it is the provider or hobbyist doing it, it is rude.

As for you putting them on your DNS list, I would say that depends on how well they make it up to you or if they are a good customer. How the person recovers matters but keep in mind that the provider is the business owner and performance is mostly on your shoulders. However, all business owners can decide that some customers are not worth their time. The business value of any customer has to be considered in all businesses. Not all money is good money.

You're right, with all of the communication options these days there is no excuse for not notifying someone if plans change. The NCNS seems to me to be a problem in RL too not just the hobby IMHO.

I agree although I tend to give a second chance. I, myself, only did one NCNS my whole hobby career. Why? Because I ended up in the hospital and had completely forgotten to contact said gentleman. I turned out to be ok but I was truly terrified and everything was wiped from my mind. I even offered to show my client the ER discharge papers to prove myself. But if it's something other than the hospital it takes less than 30 seconds to send a text.

Shit happens. That being said not getting back to the person you had an appointment with for days is rude. Whether it is the provider or hobbyist doing it, it is rude.

As for you putting them on your DNS list, I would say that depends on how well they make it up to you or if they are a good customer. How the person recovers matters but keep in mind that the provider is the business owner and performance is mostly on your shoulders. However, all business owners can decide that some customers are not worth their time. The business value of any customer has to be considered in all businesses. Not all money is good money. Originally Posted by Laz

+1 well said Laz.

<------no NCNS here

...Am I insane, or are these men ridiculously stupid?... Originally Posted by 82Vinny

Vinny, I understand your need to vent. And to Laz's excellent points, I'll add this: you need to consider such men an occupational hazard. Take whatever precautions or mitigating strategies you consider necessary, because you're bound to encounter them.

BTW, I LOVE your attached image!

The nerve of these guys!

I have never called and then not shown up for an appointment of any kind . I have had ncns happen to me , not a good feeling . We're all adults and should be able to conduct ourselves as such . For me I will give another shot depending on how the situation is handled . But it's totally inconsiderate to not even text , so there really isn't any excuse .

NCNS is rude...like you, I'm very low volume and having a NCNS can be costly! On the other hand...I've had situations where regular friends have NCNSd me, but come to find out...they were in a bad accident and the other one had his phone compromised.

So, I've learned to accept that sometimes there are legitimate reasons for the NCNS. Most of the time, they're just being inconsiderate...but, there are times when it cannot be helped.

I send a PM asking if they're Ok, and give them the benefit of the doubt and a few days to respond. If they never do...but, see them posting or reviewing...they go directly into the DNS file!

I hate NCNS especially early morning appts or late late evening.. it erks me!

Hair and makeup freshly did and then NCNS .. DIS BITCH.. is what i think to myself LOL. However, I do understand somethings cant be avoided. I even have emailed the person and asked if they were ok and what happened. No response then starts a thread about grk providers..SMH!! I had seen him before and he was awesome but this unexplained behavior has put him on my DNS list.

Well doll I feel for u and good for u speaking ur mind.

xoxo
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it's bullshit no matter what part of life it happens in. ncns just spells lazy, inconsiderate, and incompetent. it's that simple.

I hope NCNS doesn't mean No Chinese No Spanish! (@@)
Always kept my words on appts, just good manner. I once made two appointments in one day. One in town in the morning, one out of town in the afternoon...what can I say, got the urge when I woke up, drove like bat out of hell to make the second one. relaxed with a massage after, then party all night.... followed with naughty deeds til morning.
That's a great day! Weeeeeeeeeeee

Vinny, you are so right. If a man has time to set up with you, he has time to explain his absence. Nothing unreasonable in your expectations. Stand firm. (that noise you hear is me...applauding.)

It's a "two way street" gentleman & ladies...... Shit happens!!! I don't let it bother me "no "more. Along as they can tell me a couple hours ahead of time that they need to cancel it's all good with me. With the (NCNS) well that's plain wrong for anyone to "flake out" cause we depend on it. What if it was the other way around guys wouldn't like if ladies "cancelled" right away they would be ticked off just as we are.

Vinny... Hope that person will make's it right sorry he wasted your time. There are plenty of good guys that would treat you a lot better. Hope you have a better day! ;-)