Greek and CIM???

Ranchhand's Avatar
Ok maybe im old fashioned but these are just some things I dont understand. I would like to hear from guys and gals on this subject. First off I just dont understand the Greek thing. Why is that important to guys in the hobby. Too me its just disgusting, but maybe im a prude and everyone has different likes and dis-likes.

As for CIM, one of the most important things to me when im with a lady is dfk, I really love kissing, thats what makes the illusion of passion as far as im concerned. If a lady has CIM on her menu, then thats sort of a turn off to me. I dont think I want to be kissing someone that is doing cim all day long. As I said, everyone has their likes and dis-likes and maybe im a prude. Anyone want to weigh in on this? Ranch
I don't understand the fascination either... But then my Idea of GFE seems very different than most... I love to tease... I love to take my time... I believe there are many other enjoyable factors than just greek and CIM.. which are simply 2 things I am not into. I want to be able to get into it... have chance to feel out the appointment and really give them the attention they deserve, rather than just get to it. Although I know there are those who feel if every moment is NOT concentrated on the wants of specific pleasures, they aren't getting their $$'s worth... I hope that my different approach to all this doesn't discourage the guys who truly want to have a good time... I may be different... but I know that an hour with me is most especially worth every penny. However,if all one is interested in is Greek and CIM... I'm just not the right gal.
Buckskin's Avatar
In lieu of a long paragraph, i offer this.
To each their own. And an exchange of information to pair us up with like minded degenerates.
davidsmith0123's Avatar
What Buckskin said.

Besides she said I was the only one allowed to cim.
aggietigger's Avatar
An old girlfriend of mine summed it up like this: "When you're in the mood, anything goes."
Randy247's Avatar
To me the Greek thing is the forbiden fruit. Some guys just have to have it. I prefer a nice tight kitty to the black hole, but like Ranch, this is my preference. I prefer a good BBBJ, but I have no problem with a provider that does not like to CIM. Loosing my load on her breast, tummy or anywhere else, as long as she pulls the plug is fine by me. I'm looking for a fantasy connection, with a little passion and a happy ending.
tractortech's Avatar
I think people hobby for thinks or activities that they don't get out side the hobby world. It maybe something like Greek, cim, IOP or maybe a girl with a build or even hair color. I think that men should be upfront about what they are looking for and not bash providers if they don't offer what they are looking for. The bests dates are the ones where both enjoy there selves. There is nothing wrong for a girl sticking to her set menu or stating YMMV. On the same hand there is nothing wrong a client passing on a provider due to lack of menu options. But no reason to look down on a provider for not offering what you want rather what she wants.
for me the idea of greek turns me on but thats also brought on by porn. Porn makes it look so fun and sexual. Ive have found that in the real world its not nearly as fun nor as enjoyable. Cim for me is hard to explain. I like it when a provider finishes me off but then its lost when she runs to the bathroom. lol Ive actually stopped doing most crazy activities since they never fullfill my fantasy about them. Again induced by porn.......real world....not so much
qwik101's Avatar
mama always said lif was like a box of chocolates
Two menu items that don't interest me but like mentioned before to each his own.
knotty man's Avatar
mama always said lif was like a box of chocolates Originally Posted by qwik101
greek is like a box of chocolates.
if ya keep diggin in the box, sooner or later your gonna get "brown" under your fingernails
LOL knotty man. So true. I think once you've had it, the forbidden is not as interesting anymore.