This is really a plea for more discretion. I have run into some real issues lately and am not sure how to deal with them. I have tried to stay off the boards to avoid any and all drama. I am here to have fun and do not look for trouble. However, this "look the other way" approach is not solving the issue either.
Anyone who has seen me recently knows that my incall was burglarized. Seemingly by someone who had been there before. I have had several other issues that I have kept to myself and do not wish to discuss on such a forum. But have really tried to ignore the problem.
However, now I have recently been shown evidence that someone is blatently bragging that SHE is going to ruin me because she is recruiting hobbyists to help damage my reputation. Been in the hobby long enough to have had my dealings with bitter people, hopefully my reputation speaks for itself. If gentlemen wish to trade digs at me in return for a freebie from her, that is their choice. I can choose not to see them again. What really concerns me is the amount of information this person has about me.
The proof that I was shown had details that could have only come from gentlemen that I have seen. This is really disgusting. I am not sure if these details were given knowingly to harm me or if this person is managing to elicit the information under false pretenses. I certainly hope it is the latter. But in any case, I beg you. Please do not share information about providers, either to other providers or to other members that you do not know to be credible. Not sure if this will be applicable to me, because this experience has made me seriously consider retiring. But the same consideration should be given to any provider that you see. I have met so many wonderful men and women in the hobby, had so many amazing experiences! Hate to have such a low, mean-spirited person taint my credibility.
To those that have chosen not to participate in this ugly campaign against me and have instead given me fair notice, thank you so much! I know that there are WAY more good guys out there than those who will stab you in the back for a free time. I have truly been treated like a princess by the majority and appreciate the support you have shown me. I appreciate all of you!!