It's okay for the guy to treat us like a prostitute but you still want us to act like a lady!

Here I go venting again....

I don't know how to start, I've been sitting here for about a hr since my last appt and I just feel a little bothered on what took place. Maybe he needs a review.....
Anyways well it felt like all was going to be a ok session he was extremely nice and talkative on the phone. This guy is a newbie, so i kept asking questions and stayed on the phone to make sure he was legit. He comes in and I noticed he is in PT worrkout clothes I say " oh you went running this morning??!" He replies that he had pt earlier and he just got finished and came right over

I OFFER/Insist on him showering up for me, but he grabs some wipes instead and asked to wipe off. WOW. I told him I'm a germaphobic and he still ignored it.
I'm at this point I'm TURNED OFF but still goes in like a champ. I perform my duties as best I could, now here were it gets weird(or is this just me). He only wants to do doggy he is done, slides out, puts his clothes back on takes condom,wipes he used from before, and walks out without evening waiting for me to come out of the restroom. That's crazy as hell.he didn't sy thanks. He didn't say that's was ok. He didn't say anything to me after he Nutted. I wasn't even dressed before I herd my front door clothes. (My Private Incall residence, non notel)

I'm so mad that I gave him fs. It's because I'm nice that I didn't go off on his ass.
Instead I post his terrible actions on the web and tell u ladies to pm me for info on this not so Gentle man!!
Just a typical guy (asshole), after he gets the pussy he acts like he never wanted you. Thass something you do to a broad whom you never plan on calling again.....hmmm Na that's not it he was A Class A Jerk
Xoxo
Jucci

Sorry Jucci.

Clearly you deserved better treatment. You should've just told the guy to run right out the door There are plenty of better clientele to choose from on this board that will treat you well.

I often have clients who want to do the dirty deed and then get out as quickly as possible.

I think that guilt, especially with the newbies, has a lot to do with it.

Also, there are some men who just aren't that sociable. And men often just have some really weird ideas about sex. They're mentally fucked up about it.

And I'm not being mean by stating that. Everyone knows this to be true. Men have a TON of hangups. So if a guy hasn't seen a sporting lady, EVER, then he's going to be nervous as hell.

And he's going to have NO social skills at all.

I know that it seemed rude of him to walk out like that but he was probably scared shitless (Boy, I'm using a lot of caustic and rude wording in my response. Wow!). I have a young friend in Chicago who I've seen about six or seven times and he STILL tries to get out of the room as quickly as possible once he's done.

I'm sorry that it's so upsetting to you. I can see where it would be. But don't put this on yourself or feel like it's YOU that he was being rude to.

It was him. And you probably know this on some level. He didn't want eye contact because he didn't wish for this to be personal. That's why he liked doggie ... or he just LOVED looking at that juicy ass, right? (My second guess!)

Elisabeth

You should've told him to bounce once he didn't shower.

I often have clients who want to do the dirty deed and then get out as quickly as possible.

I think that guilt, especially with the newbies, has a lot to do with it.

Also, there are some men who just aren't that sociable. And men often just have some really weird ideas about sex. They're mentally fucked up about it.

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Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

This is sage advice from a woman who has experience observing the male psyche.

Us old guys who have been around awhile? Well I think the post orgasm pillow talk is half the fun of being there.




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What PlayIVKeeps said. Let me guess, was it a young fella?

Sorry you experienced that. I have never and will never treat a provider with disrespect. Instead like gfe indicates like the lost love of my life. In am also obsessed with my cleanliness and absolutely love the after glow period with kissing , spooning and talking. All men are pigs some of us are cute and lovable pigs.

With all due respect ladies, and believe me I respect you sinserely, but...... a newbie?, the moment you saw him?, the words and manners he came accross?.... at that moment, boot someone out, no explanation, no butts or iffs.....out!!!!!

Don Imus is ohhhh sooooo correct......love that 10 -15 min wind down at the end....my knees regain their strenght and then I can walk.....btw yes Im an old guy... and I would be embarrassed to go see a provider and not be clean...I expect them to be..

Ewww I wonder what he did with the wipes & the condom...yikes

This is the type of loser that goes to eat at a restaurant doesnt wash his hands. Then eats a nice juicy steak & doesnt take the time to enjoy it. Then when hes done he leaves no tip & takes the salt & pepper shakes....what a freak

Its easy to say you should have kicked him out but some of us need every cent we make. I agree with Mrs. Whispers some of these newbies have no social skills.

Please go to Infoshare & report his handle so you can stop another provider from having the same greif!!

Hey mamacita did you notice we both have sweet comments from Savak...lol Theres plenty of great hobbyist around to rock your world!! Enjoy!!

I often have clients who want to do the dirty deed and then get out as quickly as possible.

I think that guilt, especially with the newbies, has a lot to do with it.

Also, there are some men who just aren't that sociable. And men often just have some really weird ideas about sex. They're mentally fucked up about it.

And I'm not being mean by stating that. Everyone knows this to be true. Men have a TON of hangups. So if a guy hasn't seen a sporting lady, EVER, then he's going to be nervous as hell.

And he's going to have NO social skills at all.

I know that it seemed rude of him to walk out like that but he was probably scared shitless (Boy, I'm using a lot of caustic and rude wording in my response. Wow!). I have a young friend in Chicago who I've seen about six or seven times and he STILL tries to get out of the room as quickly as possible once he's done.

I'm sorry that it's so upsetting to you. I can see where it would be. But don't put this on yourself or feel like it's YOU that he was being rude to.

It was him. And you probably know this on some level. He didn't want eye contact because he didn't wish for this to be personal. That's why he liked doggie ... or he just LOVED looking at that juicy ass, right? (My second guess!)

Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Thank you ma'am. I am not taking it personal, I am rounding a yr. of being a provider.so I would like to say I am used to guys being dicks sometimes, but he just rub me wrong ya know!! Like he took the condom and wipes with him thass just weird. Lol
I assume he was a decent guy. He was about 25-30 in age ( somebody asked) . Idk I took so much time talking with him on the phone and chit chat I didn't want to run him off.PLUS I LOVE HOW WHEN I DO DENY A GUY HE SWEARS MY NAME AND CAUSE DRAMA AT MY LOCATION.EITHER CALLS THE COPS(that happen twice) OR CALL THE FRONT DESK AND GETS PUT OUT OF HOTEL(once).
Thanks for the reassurance that these guys come all walks of life. Some social non social, I've taken some v-cards


tmaxgarcia :With all due respect ladies, and believe me I respect you sinserely, but...... a newbie?, the moment you saw him?, the words and manners he came accross?.... at that moment, boot someone out, no explanation, no butts or iffs.....out!!!!!


We were all NEWBIES once and I am newbie friendly. I screen everyone the ways I want and I've been cool,with my results. I believe ever should get a shot at the pussy!!! Lol
I'm sure if I treated him badly he would have been able to put the review up faster than a speedy bullet!

I agree 100%

You should've told him to bounce once he didn't shower. Originally Posted by playIVkeeps

You should've told him to bounce once he didn't shower. Originally Posted by playIVkeeps

+1

what a jerk; you deserve MUCH better - and he deserves NOT to be able to do this EVER again....

Newbie or not, there is still common courtesy, which is disappearing quickly in today's society.

If a date wants me to shower, than so be it. Of course, I would ask her to scrub my back for me.....

I am sure he is oblivious to his actions.....