Do I really need to know?

So just finished with the first round and settled into some chit-chat while cooling down and recovering for round two, when she felt the need to share with me. I put on my best listening face and responded with "hmmm."

Do I really need to know that she only sees two visitor's a day? Except not today because I already wore her out. She's going to crash when we are done...

I don't know where to being on my thoughts about her comments. Really? Only two clients a day? Is this supposed to make me feel better? I'm not stupid. I know this is a business for the vast majority of the ladies and that means providing service when the demand presents itself. I can't believe it is any different than other business models. If the "store" is closed people go down the street and the opportunity is lost. I know some days will be dead and others will be slammed. That is reality, I am OK with it and have put it out of my mind. Do we really need to talk about it and get me thinking about it all over again?



I'm just asking. The visit itself was pretty damn good. the second thrill worked out fine after a she did some sweet work on my junk.

Wow. Why do you guys really think we see 10-20 guys per day? Why is it so hard to believe we see normally 2 guys a day. Maybe 4 on a high day. And we mention it because some guys think we are nasty whores that see crap loads of men.

Sorry but this just irks me. It's disrespectful to think we sleep with sooo many guys. We're not SWs you know!

And perhaps you didn't need to know that but maybe she felt comfortable with you or perhaps you said something that made her feel the need to defend herself. Like "Oh you must be tired from seeing so many guys today." I HATE when guys say that.

Rover, you are right, of course, it was TMI and you *don't*Need to know her entire business strategy (SPOILER ALERT: gross generalizations coming) but apparently she wanted to talk. I've encountered similar situations and noticed that giving an ear to their musings, for a while and within limits, seems to return energy to them in a way that makes the next round even more pleasurable. Worth it, to me, for a little while of listening. YMMV

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It doesn't matter to me if a lady sees 2 or 20 that day as long as I'm the only one she thinks about for that hour I'm with her. It's a business and I actually think that she's comfortable with you in sharing that info. My 2 cents.

I don't need to know anything, but I do like to turn a sympathetic ear. That's just the kind of guy I am though.

If anyone feels like blowing some steam, or just wants to chat, I'm all ears.

Rover if it brothers you ....just tell her...personally
I harley ever listen to what they say ..Ib could care less

I don't need to know anything, but I do like to turn a sympathetic ear. That's just the kind of guy I am though.

If anyone feels like blowing some steam, or just wants to chat, I'm all ears. Originally Posted by JJ

This kind of attitude will get you a better blow job.

The way I see it -- there is no need to stroke my ego --- I dont have issues in that department -- as long as Im the only one youre seeing while Im there --- Im cool with it --- I dont care how many you see a day, Its not that I think you see tons -- its just none of my business -- just like I dont care how many cokes the circle k sells.

You blew me you earn a few mins of my time of uncensored talk lol really man I think you just think to much of everything, ever date? Women talk and talk a lot mostly about things that really don't matter lol

This kind of attitude will get you a better blow job. Originally Posted by Malaya

LMAO! Honestly, that is not my intention. I'm really a nice guy. I just have a warped sense of humor.

LMAO! Honestly, that is not my intention. I'm really a nice guy. I just have a warped sense of humor. Originally Posted by JJ

**And a warped sense of humor, much like a dirty mind, is a terrible thing to waste, J-to-the-Squared:-)

I once saw a visiting provider on her first day in town. I prescheduled, and had the privilege of observing the prior hobbiest leave the incall prior to seeing her, and tipping my hat to the next guy.

While I have no illusions, I left satisfied with the service I had received, and blocked out all other thoughts.

Malaya, please give me a chance...

I wasn't saying that you or anyone else is seeing twenty friends a day. Nothing like that. The frequency isn't even the issue for me. I probably could have done a better job of starting the thread. And I didn't mean to offend with the business analogy.

My comment, though somewhat specific in this particular instance was meant as a more general thought about topics of discussion on first dates. I have had this sort of discussion with dates after I became a "regular," but never on the first date. I was just musing about why it would be the thought on her mind that needed to be shared? I have heard other guys with similar experiences but different specifics.

... turning my thoughts back to Malaya. I'm sorry I offended you. That was never my intent. I think you are awesome and I remember awesome bits of conversation with you. I also remember you weren't all that interested in lounging around talking the afternoon away when there were much more fun things to be doing.

over think things much?

Yep, apparently I am. I return you to your regularly scheduled conversations.