Taking A Small Break

I’m taking a break from ECCIE SA starting tomorrow for a couple days to a week. I will only be seeing people who I have seen before, and people from my choice sites. I feel I need time to gather my thoughts due to recent negativity. We all know I had a down period a bit ago, but I took my time and moved on. Ever since I have given 110% to my clientele. I have no idea how it hasn’t become apparent to certain clients. I know my personality may have changed but considering me getting older, maturing, and the things I’ve recently went through I can’t help who I have become. All I know is I love my job, my clients, and I’d do anything to make them happy and continue my time in the hobby. I understand everyone doesn’t click that’s a given and it’s ok. I almost feel as if I am being bashed though. I feel it happens to a lot of providers. I can only see part of these reviews obvi, but I get the idea. I believe one of the main concerns is my weight. Trust me if I could gain 10-15lbs over night I would, but I have been this way since I was 16. I’ve tried everything you can think of to gain weight back. Believe it or not I used to weigh 135lbs and be a size 9. I was really short, then I grew taller. I assume my body is just at its natural weight, my doc agrees. Honestly my feelings are hurt because I always put my client’s happiness first, and it’s saddening that crude things are said about me. I do admit I may have blonde moments and LOL, but you always get the real me & my best. Don’t get me wrong I’m all for constructive criticism, it’s how you learn and better yourself. I am going to take some time for me, and gather my thoughts. I’ll let everyone know when I’m back.
NOTE: not complaining about the accurate reviews, everyone has their own opinion. The bashing is my target. Advice is much appreciated! <3 SB

Although there’s ups & downs I still feel like we are a family
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Summer, I say be yourself we all have different shapes and sizes. Don't let anyone put you down. Also before you see anyone make sure to do your research first. Remember the ball in your control who you may see. We all live and learn. So keep your head up. Kisses! Have a great day also.
Thank you so much Sonya! That really means a lot
You have a good day as well beautiful<3
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SB---I am with Sonya....I say screw all that negative feedback and just be yourself....take a few days off to recharge your batteries and come back strong!!
  • Laz
  • 11-05-2012, 12:28 PM


For the record so anyone reading this is not mislead. I have met Summer briefly on a couple of occasions that were social in nature. I do not know her well enough to discuss the accuracy of any statements nor have I ever seen her do ANYTHING inappropriate. My statements are meerly to try to get her to look at comments she has heard about in a different light. As from people that are concerned and not from people trying to hurt her.
Let me cook for you and you will gain weight LOL. This is a sample of things I cook. These are my famous Monster Burritos. OR you can take some of my fat because I'd love to be skinny again!
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Chingow Malaya you just got me sooo hungry...yummy

Girl dont sweat the small stuff haters will always exist & words is all they can use as a weapon!! If you pay attention they win...if you ignore YOU WIN!!

Besides sexy cums in all shapes & sizes...own it love it & enjoy it mamacita!!!
Chingow Malaya you just got me sooo hungry...yummy

Girl dont sweat the small stuff haters will always exist & words is all they can use as a weapon!! If you pay attention they win...if you ignore YOU WIN!!

Besides sexy cums in all shapes & sizes...own it love it & enjoy it mamacita!!! Originally Posted by SENSUALCITA
Excellent advice from a very smart woman!
Let me cook for you and you will gain weight LOL. This is a sample of things I cook. These are my famous Monster Burritos. OR you can take some of my fat because I'd love to be skinny again! Originally Posted by Malaya
Damn! Burritos!!!!!
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  • ttmax
  • 11-05-2012, 03:27 PM
Malaya, I am looking for someome that would love to cook for me (no hankey pankey unless mutualy agreed), but any way, and this is a word for ALL OF US, we are only humans and we ALL need help sometime in our lives, we can ignore it, we can deny it, we can encourage it, or WE CAN HELP EACH OTHER! I am not perfect and neither is none of us!If anyone needs help we can help each other, even if its just being there to listen!
Summer,

You are in our thoughts and prayers
See this is what I'm talking about.. family. I would like to make the record clear that I do not what others are assuming I'm doing. I love my body it is my temple. I'm Wiccan. To put toxins body is a major no no. I appreciate the advice/support and love you all for it!!! Your all right! Just hold my head high and continue to give 110%
BTW I'd those burritos sooo damn fast LOL <3 SB
Man I missed a couple words lol you know what I mean
  • Jbomb
  • 11-05-2012, 04:12 PM
I wanna see you before your sabbatical I'm Jay btw.
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I like your weight just fine, Summer. Take care out there!

But now, I wanna go to Malaya's place. Yum!