Quitting.

I am normally a very nice and understanding girl, but this has gone too far. Posting pictures of people who are extremely sick and comparing them to me? Or how about my make up? May I ad my eyebrows are blonde and some of you would attack me even more for not drawing them on. How about my "addi*tion" that I DON"T have? I'm laid back now I've been through a lot, excuse me for being who I am. This is high school drama. I am 19 years old and I think this is immature as fu*k, what dies that tell you? My character is being slandered nonstop, no helpful advice, just stupid immature bashing. I do not deserve it. Some people need to grow up and get lives. Just so you all know I am human too! I have feelings, and emotions just like you do. The point this slander has gotten to really has me considering quitting. I can't even take time off without being bashed. I'll go back to my tralier now since I have no class. I mean my rates are sooo dirt cheap... because 1. I'm running a special 2. you all complained before! and now they are too low?
BTW plenty of girls advertise on bp BFD
Summer

Summer , you really need to stop reading private material . It's not good for your self esteem . It wouldn't be for anyone ! The happiest and longest working girls , are the ones who stay off the boards . I'm not saying this to be mean , I support your taking time off and getting your feelings together . You've let this get under your skin , let go and ignore it . If you're happy with yourself that's all that matters. Don't read stuff , and don't let people tell you what's said about you . Nothing good will come of it !

Don't read stuff , and don't let people tell you what's said about you . Nothing good will come of it ! Originally Posted by The Rover

How does one do that? ...."wait. If youre gonna tell me anything about myself, STOP. *plugs ears & walk away* ..... (not trying to be mean, but its almost impossible. )

Anyway....SB, when "this" is no longer fun, a break is very much needed.
Sometimes we give so much of ourselves, to this lifestyle, it feels like a slap in the face....when people dont play "nice". Im sorry that harsh things were said, or that the pic was posted. It wasnt nice.

If you need to take a break, quit, come back, retire or whatever....DO IT!!! Through it all, you may learn that YOU have to take care of YOU, before you can even try to take care of a gent & meet their needs. They (hobbyist) will always be here. LOL and many of the same ladies as well. Myself, probably included.

Take care of yourself pretty girl!!! Stay strong!! ♥

Stay strong, Summer. I think you are drop-dead-gorgeous. Ignore the drama and go to the symphony, or watch a documentary. There are so many awesome things to do which do not include reading this board. Every time you read it, you are wasting valuable time that you have to do the fun things which bring a smile to your face. I was glancing at the co-ed to see what is up, and this broke my heart. You have to be strong. I have become very strong this year and at any point when someone name-calls me, I will ignore the person and smile as though it doesn't matter or as if it is very irrelevant in my life! Remember, Good Karma!

Chin up! xo

VLB

Summer, I would say, don't sweat the reviews (or insults). A provider can't hardly be all things to all people. Everyone has critics, even the fabulous VIP Latina Barbie and the tenacious MsPrittiKitti. Just ask 'em.

Perhaps consider going UTR for a while. Maybe attend socials and just see folks from there - you would definitely turn heads there.

Good advice given above. If someone else knocks you off the horse, don't let them win. Show them you can ride the storm out. Or maybe just show yourself.

Hope I will see you again in the future, but whatever you decide, good fortune to you.

I am going to give you a little bit of different advice. You are a business owner. You have had a couple of unsatisfied customers. You need to evaluate what happened and decide what you want to do. You can choose to change what you do, screen better so that you accept clients that you know will like you or anything else to avoid the situation. I know this is a VERY personal business but it is a business and if you treat it that way it will be easier to accept the criticism. Sometimes honest criticism is the best thing that can occur because it identifies opportunities to improve.

You are a natural spinner with super light hair. There are plenty of people that will like you so do not let the outragious comments hurt you but pay attention to the honest ones because those in the long run are the best things for you. One of the hardest lessons I learned is perception is reality. Whether it is right or wrong does not matter you still have to handle it.

I hope you understand that I have nothing against you and want nothing but for you to be happy and successful.

Summer unfortunately you ran across someone that I guess has a grudge against you. That's is the only reason i see for finding most threads/reviews dealing with you to post basically the same comment. It is up to you if you want to quit or take a break, but consider the source of the comments. Look at the guys posting history and you will understand that there are some members here that their only purpose is to try and get under others skins.

I am in favor of posting "no" reviews as long as they are truthful and they don't get into bashing the provider. Also, if someone thinks you have a problem that should be approached privately. I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do.

Chucks thread brings a good point.
I wonder if its that rp dude reincarnated.
I mean, he constantly would write negative comments on reviews.
Then the little tantrum, followed by those obviously "fake" p4"LL" emails....
Sickening at its finest.

SummerBaylee, There are just some "mean" people in world that have nothing better else to do with there 'sweet' time. I say forget the (negative) harsh' bad people. Keep positive and ignore the rest it's the best thing you can do. Don't let it get you down at all. Hope you can have a better rest of the week beautiful'!! Annnnd

You know what you guys are right. Screw leaving, I love it here. Just because certain people maintain grudges doesn't mean it has to effect me! Like VIP said it's a waste of time reading that crap. I just wanted to see so I know what I could improve on, but I'll stay out of that area from now own. Thank you guys for all your advice. Everyone made very good points, and honestly I feel sooo much better just knowing that the support is out there and that I can get negative/positive criticism. I'm gonna take me a nice long hot bubble bath, and melt all the negative thoughts away. There is no point to stress. I am me & there are so many people that love ME. So ME is what I will continue to do. If a person and I don't click no biggie. If they bash me.. no biggie! The sun will rise tomorrow and I will be like a little ducky and let it roll off my back. Thanks so much guys, love you all!!!!
<3 SB

Keep your head up!

....Maybe attend socials and just see folks from there - you would definitely turn heads there.... Originally Posted by FootLong

FL has some good advice there. That's what I do....except the turning heads part.

Good for you Summer! Besides if you quit, you lose both the good with the bad (and the haters win)

All I know is personally, whatever is going on, I wish you the Best. I saw you several times the beginning of this year and I always had a good time. Although you may be "too thin" in some peoples eyes, all my eyes saw was a VERY HOT, very beautiful woman. That you have a great personality, were funny, playful, and smart were a definite bonus.

P.S. Summer, here is something to put things in perspective:

Current Pop Culture Phenomenon: "Gangam Style" - Psy
656,867 Likes - 123,292 Dislikes (aka Haters that you know are saying mean ugly sh!t in their posts. "Haters gonna Hate" <-Philosophy Gold right there... Confucius? LOL

This dude is so admired (loved) that they paid to fly him from S. Korea to the U.S. this September to be on the Ellen Degeneres show and teach publicly Dancer/Pop Singer superstar Britney Spears his dance moves.

And people still gonna be talkin' sh!t....

P.S. I forgot to mention that 131,070,220 other people that watched that video didn't say a damn thing....(and thus not helping the artist feel liked....)

You know it doesn't matter who does what drug or whatever the hell. They are not our parents or family. And when someone is ready for help they will get help but insulting them or calling them out on it will make the addiction WORSE! So the immature fuck head that continues this shit is actually making himself look stupid because he's going on several girls' DNS list. If he doesn't like skinny girls then why go see one? Just to have an excuse to write a bad review? How fucking stupid. I honestly have no idea if you do drugs and I honestly don't care. It's your body and your choice. And I wouldn't judge you for it. I sure as hell wouldn't call you out on it or bash you because that makes someone want to do it more. When someone has an addiction they need SUPPORT. Apparently some jackasses don't realize that. They can call me whatever the fuck they want but I am always a nice person and I'm not just mean to people just because I have a stick up my ass. But you know what..... Karma is a bitch and these little boys will finally learn a lesson. Don't let them win by making you quit. Hold your head up high, flip them the bird, and keep on walking with your sexy self. It's much more mature than their stupid little comments.

Plus, Summer Baylee, we know you are really Gwen Stefani, so you tell those haters to, "don't speak!". Lol

You know what you guys are right. Screw leaving, I love it here. Just because certain people maintain grudges doesn't mean it has to effect me! Like VIP said it's a waste of time reading that crap. I just wanted to see so I know what I could improve on, but I'll stay out of that area from now own. Thank you guys for all your advice. Everyone made very good points, and honestly I feel sooo much better just knowing that the support is out there and that I can get negative/positive criticism. I'm gonna take me a nice long hot bubble bath, and melt all the negative thoughts away. There is no point to stress. I am me & there are so many people that love ME. So ME is what I will continue to do. If a person and I don't click no biggie. If they bash me.. no biggie! The sun will rise tomorrow and I will be like a little ducky and let it roll off my back. Thanks so much guys, love you all!!!!
<3 SB Originally Posted by ~SummerBaylee~

Atta girl! You took the first step! Respect yourself, and screw everyone else. When all the dust, debris, hulaboo and smoke finally settles down; you are the only one still standing there.


If you take a vacation to get away from it all, and rejuvenate yourself; do so! Nothing wrong with a few days/weeks off just to be yourself and relax. Might I suggest a place of your dreams, many spa treatments with people fawning and coddling to your own personal dreams/desires. Nothing better than to have a other people make you the center of attention, and I don't mean sexually either!