Men: Exploring outside the norm and exploring your fetishes/fantasies.

The GShower thread and conversations I've had with certain men.
Got me to thinking about men and their fetishes.

To what point do you allow yourself to explore outside the norm and unleash your inhibitions and truly enjoy them?


If you've done so or are wanting to explore outside the norm.
To whom have you or would you wish to explore them with & why?
Your S/O (gf/wife/casual civi lady friend?) Or in the hobby with a companion you know & feel comfortable with. Or in the hobby with a companion you meet for the 1st time?

What's holding you back from exploring certain fetishes that arouse you?
Is it fear of being judged? Shy or nervous in asking the opposite sex to oblige your curiosity of said fetish? Or fear that you may enjoy it too much?


These question are not meant to judge you nor cause you to out your personal fetish desire. Rather a way to better understand the man in you and what needs (outside the norm) you may have/desire.

I always say: You only live once. Best to explore what's within than to regret not doing so. There's a burning wicked desire in all of us.

I would have to be quite comfortable with someone before I would attempt any exploration of such things. I have only begun to scratch the surface myself with the help a couple of providers but so far it has been quite fun to say the least.

I recently tried a fetish I've thought about for a long time. It was with a provider I had never met before but I knew she had extensive experience in this area so felt comfortable going there with her. There are other things I am considering.

Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality.

I recently tried a fetish I've thought about for a long time. It was with a provider I had never met before but I knew she had extensive experience in this area so felt comfortable going there with her. There are other things I am considering.

Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality. Originally Posted by 9pinBowler

T'was fun!


KKA

Actually, there's a fetish (does it fall in that category?) that I've wanted to try for awhile. I've heard prostate massage causes the ultimate male orgasm and I've received recommendations from other hobbyists based on their experiences. Apparently, it's a more common activity than I thought, and in retrospect, I don't know why I haven't brought it up before! Self-censorship is an odd thing . . . .

It's always been my nature to explore and try new things. If there was something i haven't done, i might give it a go once to see if i like it. Sometimes once was enough but if i liked it, it became a part of me.

Actually, there's a fetish (does it fall in that category?) that I've wanted to try for awhile. I've heard prostate massage causes the ultimate male orgasm and I've received recommendations from other hobbyists based on their experiences. Apparently, it's a more common activity than I thought, and in retrospect, I don't know why I haven't brought it up before! Self-censorship is an odd thing . . . . Originally Posted by Transplanted2tex

Yes, those can be very intense.

Should not be missed. Really!

Yes, those can be very intense.

Should not be missed. Really! Originally Posted by Mokoa

Now I've had brushes with backdoor play, but just haven't gone all the way. There was this horny animal of a woman I dated just 2 years ago who could only cum orally, but boy did she cum! We're talking screaming, crying, full body spasm orgasms. When we'd be in 69, with me hovering on top, she would reach around and play with my ass, but she would get so aggressive I would have to pull away. She got so wound up I feared internal damage LOL! Then, there was a bbw from way back in the day who first told me about the Ultimate Orgasm. I was in my early 20's and down for anything. She was a blond milf with long curly hair, and had a lifetime of sexual vagrancy on her resume. Just a voluptuous and wonderfully sexy woman. Unfortunately, she came at me with a dildo, and after a few attempts, I was like, "Whoa. That's a bit more than I can deal with." I had a tantric massage experience in Chicago last year, which was incredible, and there was some peripheral play in the general vicinity, but she was a serious tantric practitioner and was faithful to the philosophy, and she considered herself to be more of a tantric "educator" rather than an escort. My education would have to come in multiple stages, which would lead to the Sacred Spot massage and culminate in full blown tantric "relations" (can't remember the proper term). I don't live there anymore so here I am in San Antonio with all these lovely ladies, experts in the arts of pleasure and love.

I'm normally a Domme, but I have a special regular that has made me very curious about exploring my submissive side. Not quite a switch yet,but definitely ha me exploring some things I had only done to others... so guys if you find the right one don't be scared lol

9pinBowler is right on point. I think a provider you've never been with before but who is experienced in that area is a wise choice. I am looking to experience a fetish for the first time this week.

KKA, I'll be in touch.

the definition of fetish is- A : an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion : prepossession B : an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression

that def makes it sound so displeasing. what do you call a fetish if it doesn't interfere?

I am wanting the prostate massage for that ulitimate O. The close experiences and rimming has made me think that is my thing. Any suggestions?