Im a bit confused ..

Ok so i am a bit confused ...

I had a gentlemen wanting to see one of my lovely ladies and wanted pics .. which are in the inital ad if he were to look ... then asked for face pics. Im like umm no im sorry for the safety and discretion they wish not to. Overall just pretty much insuating that they could be a bait and switch. So I assured him and said please do a little research and you will see who i am ((agency person)) and ect. I told him ive been around for yrs and ect. He then the following week said ok well is ____ available and if so what time .. I gave him a day and time and then he cancelled after i sent directions .. he said his instincts were telling him pretty much not to go through with the appt.

So after all this whhy?? I mean is there anything off about what happened ??
What are some things that can make u change ur mind about seeing someone ..???

well a bit of a vent but yet just really want to know how men see things.

so enlighten me ...


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A bad location could make me change my mind, but I always find out the area the session will take place before committing to the appointment.

He just had a "whatever feeling", providers do that too

He's a wimp, put him on your "not to see" list and move on.

Don't waste anymore of your valuable time.

SF

A bad location could make me change my mind, but I always find out the area the session will take place before committing to the appointment. Originally Posted by Bmerazi

I concur with this.

If it was not that, then what the others said. Flake.

Sounds like you did nothing 'wrong'.

No worries. Carry on.

In these hard economic times, many guys are not willing to spend $$ for a provider unless he is absolutely sure he is getting what he wants.

He probably needed face pics to see if he was definately attracted to the ladies. The location probably had little to do with it, and it just so happened that his message to cancel was just a reply to your last message.

But more importantly, he did let you know he wanted to cancel and not NCNS. So don't beat him up for his decision.

He could be a private investigator. Now, he knows where your location is and may scout the place with a camera and telephoto lens. This, is paranoid me talking of course.

im sorry but the location is an amazing spot, impossible to pass up, its probably one of the best incalls known to provider world in sa. That clearly cant be a "variable"

im sorry but the location is an amazing spot, impossible to pass up, its probably one of the best incalls known to provider world in sa. That clearly cant be a "variable" Originally Posted by ExoticEzra

I couldn't agree more, the location itself is classy.

Although, if you use google maps, it looks like a dump. There has been a lot of construction since the map pictures were taken.

Once you are there, you won't regret it. Parking is a bitch, though.

I concur with JJ.

Just so no one misinterprets, I wasn't saying THIS providers location would make me change my mind. I was stating in generalities that location could be a reason I may shy away from seeing a provider. I thought that was the question. Sorry for any misunderstanding.

I agree it is his decision but to cancel 10 MIN before appt time is pretty crappy if you ask me since this lady requires a 2 hr notice and has to hire a sitter for the days as such ..
When he cancelled he said he was gonna do that and i replied to him as OK .. which it is bc its his choice .. but when i recieved the email i did feel insulted. Like why the hell do you go back n fowrth with emails and booking if you had an off feeling.

Thanks Ez, coochie, and JJ .. I know parking is a biotch .. lol.. and during the day its A -OK and no problems but after 5 is horrible. They are buying the lot next door so parking should be getting better this yr...

I have an upscale location and dont let the street names fool you.. its a nice place ..

well happy sunday and take care ..



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Secret Encounters

Indeed Lexi, it is a very nice place. I was leery when I researched it, but felt very comfortable once I arrived.

I second that "motion" or emotion Mr. JJ, Lexi has a very classy pad!

JJ you need to stop by ..lol.. i promise no drunkeness behavior lmao.

Tmax thanks babe..