Addressing The Public

So there are a few things id like to address that have been brought to my attention that have already been PUBLiCLY addressed. I feel like those who may even care to come to a conclusion on whether or not they like me, respect me, or care for me, judge me or whatever it may be should take THEiR role as a third fourth fifth party just as that, you were not personally involved so no one elses personal interests or personal opinions or personal beliefs beside me and whoever was involved in whatever situation should even matter about half of this.

I understand and respect anyone thats looking out for the community to keep this business safe and as fair as it will get. That being said, I don't have any hard feelings for those who have hoped to effect me financially by sharing their story based on their experience with me and can understand why they would do so and how it can help the next hobbyist decide on whether or not they would like to schedule with me. However, since most of you have already read other member's points of view and ran with theirs first, I feel like its come to a point where I should say whatever I feel should be known from MY side even though most of this information personally i feel shouldnt even be public information anyway because its not really not important.

My biggest challenge today in this business as a provider is attitudes and sometimes I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut. Anyone who has dealt with me personally will learn they are met with the same amount of respect and treated with the same amount of care they meet me with. I don't mind if someone inquires about my services and asks me to do something I don't feel comfortable doing. I won't make them feel uncomfortable for asking if I say no as long as they don't press the issue. Here lately though I've felt more pressured and more disrespected than anything.

Its one thing to ask a simple question and to get a simple answer. Its another to be condescending or make inappropriate comments in reply to rejection. I'm not arrogant and although i DO love myself and DO respect myself I will never try to make anyone feel below me because we don't agree or set our standards the same. If you feel like the product isnt worth the money or you feel as if you could find a better deal all you have to say is thank you ill contact you if im ready to make a solid appointment and go about your business. I don't see why anyone would feel the need to tell someone otherwise. I'm very reasonable and willing to work with someone's budget if my asking price is a bit of a stretch for them, but they can get somewhat close to it. If my asking price is 200 or 100, of if I give someone a minimum and they ask me if theres anything I'll do for $20 or what will i do for $20 is very offensive to me. I am not DESPERATE for money and dont put money as my first priority in life and honestly in my session i try to put as little focus on the money aspect as possible and many clients try to take advantage of that daily so to an extent there is a boundary i try to establish early in our relationship without crossing a line that could get me busted in a sting.

Lets make something clear YOU as a client know your role and as a provider i also know MiNE and theres very little I wont go above and beyond doing to make you satisfied. There are also some things i just dont enjoy but would LOVE to do with a little more persuasion or motivation (; Even as a newbie you know you gotta pay, as a provider i know their are certain exceptions on my part. We dont have to state the obvious during our conversation. Unless you have a special request or a special interest services dont need to be addressed at all and even half the time your question can be answered by just looking at reviews.


Now i will address my latest review and as to why it recieved a NO. As many of my clients know I am NOT at all a clock watcher, as a matter of fact I very seldom even look at what time my guest arrives or my arrival time. I know if the goal is reached the guest will leave. I schedule hour and half hour appointments. Sure some people last a while, and some may reach their goal faster than they expected which is ok because anyone is welcome to stay their full time. I have always thought time started upon meeting, so if i were a clock watcher i would look at the time as i was opening the door and know this person should need to be out of my room within the next hour. that gives us time for flirting and small talk, the session, and clean up time. thats time for you to clean up and i still have to clean up when you leave. not just me, but the room to. 45 minutes into my session and ive been going with the flow trying to get the desired result when i notice its the very opposite and things are looking south, at this time i have done about anything i could think of to help create the imagine needed. Now if you want to get technical i couldve cut things short and said sorry we need to give us time to clean up its been 45 min end of story. Instead i figured he could get himself to an ending point and i could help him at the same time. I guess this wasn't good enough for him and HE cut the session short. I wasnt being rude. I wasnt rushing him out the door. He was very generous and offered to make up for the time but keep in mind he was my first appointment and i had to give myself time to clean myself up, clean my room up and had plans and had a roommate and was unaware of her plans so its not like i could just hold up everyones night when im not even trying to cut us short but just see that we dont go over time and throw everyones night off. He was respectful in his message to me and i apologized for his dissatisfaction and gave him my honest opinion. But because we disagreed he was upset.. not because i was rude or offensive but because we disagreed. I think i have a pretty good time gauage and try to stick to my schedule so thats all i will say about that.the session wasnt advancing it was going downhill but i did everything i was suppose to.



Now this newest alert amazes me. First off the OP only got one side of the story and the information she posted wasnt even correct and goes to show how things get jumbled up through a game of telephone. I have had women call me before. Never ever do i sell out the johns. Actually ive never had the guys number saved to tell anyone i had seen their SO. Even in this case that was so. A wife called me recently asking who i was. Told her my name and she asked me if i knew her husband. i told her theres no way i would even know him by name. she sent me his number and i looked it up. i told her we hadnt even exchanged pictures and we never even met and that he never even scheduled. Yes i do answer all my texts and missed calls as i become available sometimes that can be way later and unless someone tells me not to call or text after getting no reply im gonna think its fair game. in this specific situation that was the case. i never said i was a prostitute or an escort, i never even stated my occupation. i mean he was already caught, i thought maybe by me telling her nothing ever came out of it that that would help him. i dont see how i caused a life altering decision, thats between them.



so take it as you want, believe what you want, see it how you want. I'm not going out of my way to screw anyone around, im not tricking people out of their money, im not trying to hurt anyone or offend or be rude. wish everything could run smoothly but this is my side so end of discussion.

Ok. I rarely get involved in drama.....but you obviously need some damned pointers.

1) You NEVER.....and I do mean NEVER....speak to a wife. When they call, you simply say "I have no idea what you're talking about". And you hang up. That's it....you do NOT go and volunteer to search for the husbands phone number in your phone. You do not have a Long dragged out conversation with her ADMITTING what you do! You play dumb....not helpful!

2) when you receive a phone message or text.....if you can't reply within 30 minutes you do NOT return the call/message. EVER....unless you were told otherwise by the client.

You are paid to be discreet, darling. You are paid to go away. You are paid to keep your mouth shut. I can't make it any clearer than that.

You sure do seem to have a lot of drama surrounding you. And that, darling, is not good for business.

As far as the rest of your rant .....well, it speaks volumes.

And to the mods.....if I have crossed any lines ....well, I like my points with mayo

Alisha ...xoxo

Thank you Alisha for your words of wisdom.

Even though I have no dog in this hunt, all I could do was just shake my head in disbelief when I read her admitting to talking to the spouse. IMO that does speak volumes about the OP and her approach to the hobby and the hobbyists she comes in contact with.

Alisha, you are so AWESOME! In more ways then one.

No lines crossed here. Ranch

Thank you Alisha for your words of wisdom.

Even though I have no dog in this hunt, all I could do was just shake my head in disbelief when I read her admitting to talking to the spouse. IMO that does speak volumes about the OP and her approach to the hobby and the hobbyists she comes in contact with. Originally Posted by cowboyfan2745

Alisha, you are so AWESOME! In more ways then one. Originally Posted by Buckskin

Thank you .....

The fact that she thinks that conversation with the wife was "ok" just baffles me!

Women in this business that lack simple common sense and have no respect for boundaries just do not belong in this business.

Alisha ....xoxo

Thank god for women like Alisha. Yet another post full of wisdom and excellent advice and guidance. I think I am in love. Although I don't know about points with mayo...

That was quite possibly the sexiest response to a post of all time!!

The less drama the better, no matter what the situation is.

I like my points with bbq sauce!!

2) when you receive a phone message or text.....if you can't reply within 30 minutes you do NOT return the call/message. EVER....unless you were told otherwise by the client

30 minutes is a pretty good rule. I have had providers call me weeks after we had seen each other to solicit business and I will never see a girl who does this again.

Alisha has got me hott and bothered.......

Alisha's next trip to killeen is......?

Yes, there is something special about the combination of intellect and beauty, and Alisha definitely has it. Among her many other attributes....

The responses so far have been about a serious case of indiscretion. This will shed some light on the other (first) part of the OP's post.

I expect to receive some serious point slap down for this. And I'll take them with no sauce or lube. LOL

Cut & Paste:

When tired I suggested I lay down for a while. She said she could not get on top. Don't know why so I asked that she finish me off. She goes down for a CBJ and I ask for the cover to come off. She obliges and alternated between BBBJ and HJ. As I've said in most reviews I am slow to come, but usually get there. This is why I always book an hour minimum. After a bit she says she needs me to help. You mean beat off myself I ask. Yeah. I ask her to stay with it a while longer but after a few more minutes says it's no use and wants to give up. Not knowing how much time I have I offer more to finish me. She declines. I then ask if she will call Laci in and I would pay her the half hour rate. Laci is on an out call. So I get up and proceed to get dressed. I look at my phone and see that less than 40 minutes have passed since I walked in the door. I mention this but she basically shrugs it off. I make nice like a gentleman should and leave, having already decided I would not do a no review for just being annoyed. I sent her a text later pointing out how disappointed I was and why. That began a series of back and forth texts. Here they are:

Me:Just wanted to drop you a note after our time together this afternoon. I know from vast experience I can be a lot of work to finish off. As for reviews if I am just disappointed with a session I do not do one. If I'm seriously pissed off, which I wasn't, I will do a NO review with full details. My disappointment lies in the fact that I got 35-40 minutes while paying for an hour. Even the mention of more money to stay with it did not help. Anyway, I felt you deserved to hear my thoughts while not taking away from a well deserved good reputation.

Her: Im sorry you werent satisfied but after a certain point theres not much else to do. I did everything expected and required of me and to be honest i missed hundreds more that wouldve been quick and easy so really your visit cost me $200 but either way 10 min wouldnt have made a difference in my opinion.

Me: My visit cost you $200?? Hundreds quick and easy?? 10 minutes no difference in your opinion??

You quoted and I paid for one hour, not 40 minutes. Having never been with me before your opinion is irrelevant. I am rethinking my no review due to an attitude like this. Future potential clients will be thankful.

Her: Well its whatever you said what you had to say and so did i. Its not like i cut the appointment short and no where does it say in my job description im required to beat a dead horse. I literally did my part regardless of if you cum or not

Me: I am so sorry you have this type of attitude. All I was looking for in my initial text was an admission of wrong doing and an apology. Had that occurred this would be a dead issue. I have left 13 reviews on eccie, one of them a NO. I do not like doing that but feel the community needs to know.

Her: I dont see anything i did wrong. I dont offer 45 min appointments and YOU cut the appointment i dont even watch the time. You offered more money i politely rejected because it wasnt worth it to me. You paid for the hour because you stayed over 30 min. I was polite the whole way through AND i apologized you werent satisfied. However i dont feel as if i did anything wrong. Do you need $20 THAT bad? Cause i can gladly shoot it that way. Im not the one creating a problem out of this, you are. Ive been polite all the way through

Me: My responses are in bold: I dont see anything i did wrong. (That's the problem) I dont offer 45 min appointments (I paid for an hour up front precisely because I know I need an hour. Check my reviews) and YOU cut the appointment. (Only after you said finish myself off, you give up) i dont even watch the time. You offered more money i politely rejected because it wasnt worth it to me. (But someone else's money is huh?)You paid for the hour because you stayed over 30 min. I was polite the whole way through AND i apologized you werent satisfied. (Yes you did. But you did not give forth the effort to see that I was) However i dont feel as if i did anything wrong. (Again, that is the problem) Do you need $20 THAT bad? (This is some of the attitude I mentioned. I would never request money back. I never haggle or bargain. I pay the requested fee and expect services rendered for the agreed upon length of time. Especially from an eccie verified provider.) Cause i can gladly shoot it that way. Im not the one creating a problem out of this, you are. Ive been polite all the way through ( Yeah your previous comment about me costing you $200 sure proves your point)

I'm done trying to reason with you. It is what it is and was what it was.

GAC, all I can say is Wow, while again shaking my head in disbelief. First the admitted security risk and now this with the callous attitude, the OP just might not have the right temperament for the hobby.

I know that everyone of us has a bad day or maybe the chemistry just wasn't clicking and that could explain this interaction between the two of you; however if you take this incident and couple it with the first transgression discussed the overall picture IMO doesn't shine a favorable light on the OP.