If you do it with Julia Milano...my first experience with that activity, she takes matters into her own hands and I played a secondary role:
You need to know that not every girl can do this activity anyway. But when you get one who is capable, often just giving her a good tongue-lashing will bring the desired results. I suggest Julia but I have to believe that in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area, you can find MANY girls to provide. Go and express your interest in the Requests/ISO Forum!
G spot massage with varying degrees of firmness (depending on lady) usually works. I've never seen Amber Rain, but aparently she is a good one for the guy wanting to know how.
The video is spot on. If she tells you she needs to go pee you are very close to a squirt assuming she has an empty bladder. I teach squirting to strippers as a hobby. I was teaching a very very hot stripper at the lodge how to make another squirt the other day...it was some very odd fun with different fingers rubbing the front wall of another gorgeous stripper....Just make sure not to ruin your business suit, jizz does not come out easily....
pist78, thanks for the video link. I tried it yesterday with my little sugar baby and, while she didn't squirt then, it drove her nuts and I can see where practice could make perfect!
I've been able to get my wife to squirt by eating her out until she begs me to stop, but continue a bit longer. Then have her get up on her knees in front of you, rub her clit, insert your finger, all that good stuff. I think the secret is to have gravity do it's job. I've also been able to get her to squirt while being on top of me, again gravity is your friend.
I'm pretty good at it. The only thing is I don't really like it that much...except for a couple months back I had a lesbian friend that let me try it on her....she loved it.....and I admit I did too..
I have been successful with several different providers in the past. I think first the lady must be relaxed and feel safe above all else. I feel most women are capable of squirting if given the correct stimulation and training. Rubbing the lower back and then moving to light breast stimulation charges the neurological system to enable a bigger release. Once the G-spot is excited, light massage with the fingers along with light pressure on the pelvic bone area moves the woman into a building up of the orgasm. Just before her peak I move to light direct stimulation of the clitoris. Depending on the woman moving the legs up her body will help in placing her so light rubbing of the anus is possible increasing the total stimulation of her body. Then allow her to reach orgasm never applying too much pressure to rush her along. Focusing on her body reactions to the stimulation will allow her to orgasm and squirt. Move with her once she has started the orgasm be careful not to be kicked by her legs. Her body spasms will be robust and not within her control. I have found the woman who is brought to a squirting orgasm will never forget you. Good luck and remember is at first you do not succeed it is great fun to try, try again with a caring and understanding heart.