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ISO A Gent That Isn't A Rule Breaker!!!!

When trying to book an appointment with us please provide all necessary information. Your references if you have any. If you don't please state that. Your contact info, Phone number, email address, Date check Id, P411 Info, TER info. Time and Date you are looking to meet up. If you are wanting IN or OUT. If you are not sure what the Provider needs ask her, as we all screen differently. It is time consuming to screen and we are trying very hard to get back to you in a timely fashion but if you do not provide information in the first PM it slows the process down to turtle speed.

As well when you send us stupid Pm's asking us dumb questions that are clearly on our ads that wastes my time. Take the time to do your homework about your provider with reviews she has. Ask fellow members in the men's locker room. If you just say "Hey are you available" without introducing yourself or sending Proper info it's like you aren't serious about meeting and you are wasting my time.
Sorry if I sound mean or blunt it's just irritating. I work at the Sugar Factory but I am not a Sugar Coater Thanks for all of your time, And don't forget to VOTE!!!!
Vinny

If this is you I'm ISO YOU!!!!!!
82Vinny's Avatar
Infrac me if you must but I DO IT FOR MY GIRLS BECAUSE WE ARE TIRED OF ALL THE BS!!!

This Really Is a ISO
I'm with ya on this one Vinny!! While we're on the subject...it's not always the hobbyists not providing the information...it's the providers NOT requiring or asking for necessary information.

Ladies, givng us just a HANDLE and maybe a name is not safe screening!! And, please take the time to read OUR screening requirements as well. I realize some of you ladies use text for reference requests, but I DO NOT!!

IMO...screening by text is a major security risk! With google voice and things like *Tossable Phone Numbers,* which are disposable phone numbers...how do you know where that information is going??

Gents, please DO NOT give out our phone numbers...if we don't publish them...or at the very least, please contact us directly, to get authorization!



levi tab's Avatar
So are the offending gents generally new to the site or are they old timers that should know better?

I've started not giving out my P411 id, but instead, I mention that I will be sending a PM via P411. Does that cause problems?
So are the offending gents generally new to the site or are they old timers that should know better?

I've started not giving out my P411 id, but instead, I mention that I will be sending a PM via P411. Does that cause problems? Originally Posted by levi tab
I usually send my info via P411 to screening providers. I rarely have a problem.

If the lady requires screening info via this website, then it is polite to surrender the information. If you think that it is too much info to surrender, then move on to someone that you feel comfortable with.

Gents, these ladies take a huge risk by seeing us. Help ease the process by doing what is asked of you.
Amen.
Loving the pm's that in its entirety say "lets play".
Then when I respond with the appropriate barrage of questions I only get a few answered, then it takes an hour to assertain references, physical description, date, time, location, and supposed activities (pse or Gfe)

It is sixk a waste of time, if you have done enough research to know you want to see me, you should know what I need to get communication off with a BANG :-)
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Vinny

Your commits above pissed me off on first read. So I waited to calm down.

I think most of us guys that have been in the hobby understand the issues. When I send a PM to a provider I ask for ok to see her, I would think the provider would then look at my info including my reviews and possibly contact any provider I have seen for confirmation. I have already done my due diligence before I decide to send PM From P411 or ECCIE. BTW I think P411 actually asks us the questions you are requiring.

SO for us guys that have seen providers, reviewed, added threads and been around awhile be treated like a newbie?

My confusion is whose responsibility is it to research your possible client?

So should your comments be for newbies?
Well Travelman, I think it's a provider's prerogative how they screen; It's ours whom we see.

You are entitled to your feelings and its a good thing that you calmed down before responding, but just think... We are all here for fun, right? Lets have fun!
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I have a kind of form letter that I edit for a particular provider. It has my ECCIE and P411 handles, a description of myself, what type of session i'm looking for and the times that i'm available, contact info, a couple of providers names that will vouch for me and contact info for them.. So far so good, it's worked great so far.
Certainly explains a few things about why sometimes I don't get a reply. I just assumed as a CEO of a large service oriented business that a provider did her own due diligence. Especially if a "regular" was lookin for some fun time. Thks
Looks like I now have my answer to why I don't get responses sometimes as well. I usually like to just send a hello PM to a lady first, but sometimes I don't get a hello back. I find it rude to just throw business out there as the first form of communication. I like to first say, "Hey, hope you are well," and just tell the provider just a little about myself. Then, after a response is when I provide my screening info. I just find it cordial to say hello first, but I get ignored a lot. I understand why now. *Sigh* I guess I'll stop being nice and just get straight to business. lol
Krystal21's Avatar
Aw I like when a gent sends me a hello message first. seems nicer that way for me.
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JJ - I have always tried to provide any info the Providers need to feel confortable with me. I thought that the ECCIE information supplied the providers with info they needed. I would expect them to verify us.

Slightly S - I do it the same way.

Question for Providers - Does ECCIE provide you with the information you need to verify that a guy that has been her a while, has reviews posted for ECCIE providers?