Girl...Most providers donot like fingers...Why?

no fingers? Hands too rough? fingernails?

Because they don't know where our hands have been.

Add dirty hands to that list.

All of the above.

I love when fingers are used, however it must be done right, otherwise it could be a huge turn off. Here are some suggestions...

Make sure your hands are clean, fingernails trimmed, and no rough edges around your nails or cuticles. To make sure it is smooth enough, wet your lips and lightly run each finger over your lip. Be sure to turn it and feel the cuticle too. If if is smooth on your lips, it will probably be smooth on ours.

When using your fingers start out GENTLY rubbing and spreading... do NOT push. In the beginning you may "graze" over the ***toris, but do not go straight there! Once we are excited you may explore more, but remember do NOT push, it is not a doorbell!

Remember we are EXTREAMLY sensitive there and if you just move stuff around and go straight for the c*it and start flicking...OUCH!!!

If you are unsure about yourself, have her take your wrist and guide you!

You must be patient, if you are not the patient type and get too excited, maybe it is best to take the "hands off" approach.

Just follow those steps and you will have the women like putty in your hands!!

so true.. many men go for the whole shebang all at once... us ladies need to work into it. well at least I do. lol. So much more fun when u take ur time..

I enjoy fingers as well. They just need to be clean and trimmed so that if you decide to explore within...they do not cut us, ouchie.

no fingers? Hands too rough? fingernails? Originally Posted by pickupkid

Consider this, if a provider was about to caress the inside of the lil man down there, was rough, had a broken nail and you got scratched on the inside....

How would you feel if you weren't handled with care and consideration and were handled with rough, dirty, scratchy, not given a damn hands??

Just think about that the next time you want to play. As provider's we are human, we care, we have feelings and, it is our choice to see you.

So if you handle us with careless hands, not giving a crap about hygiene and so forth. Well, I really do not need to say anymore.

Think about it....

Been thinking back, I don't quite recall if I use my fingers that often...

I sure do like to lick though...

I love FINGERS...but, as the ladies have said...CLEAN PLEASE! Wash your hands before playing with your food...and above all...PLEASE don't stick them in your mouth or spit to lube before...inserting into dark caves!

For me, I love it BUT ... and it's a huge "but" ... it is physically PAINFUL to have a man stick his finger, or two, up you when you're dry.

Often a woman just doesn't lubricate well at times. Older women have this mechanical problem even if they're excited. So what has happened with me, a lot, is men wish to play around and they trying to stimulate me while I'm bone dry. And it really hurts. I mean, tears in the eyes hurt.

Spit really isn't good lube for this type of activity. Actual lube is. Liquid KY does great ... flavored is better. And be generous when using it. Most women will have a bottle or two of it around. I always do.

Women generally don't like digits for all of the reasons listed above. I tend to go with the flow and after a good round of sex, I like some manual stimulation because I like to orgasm a little more "afterwards", but lubrication is key.

Hugs,
Elisabeth

Been thinking back, I don't quite recall if I use my fingers that often...

I sure do like to lick though... Originally Posted by xlurklt

You sure do

How many fingers or do you wanna fist it??

I was hoping that most of the ladies would say they didn't like fingers. As a decuple distal phalange amputee (intermediate phalange on my thumbs), I find it awkward using my stumps to stimulate a gal.

fingers {and toes} all ok if they are manicured or clipped smooth

YMMV with me on this one.
Sometime it's: no
Sometimes its: wait till i get wetter
Sometimes its: give me 1 more finger......harder!

WOMEN?!!?!?!?

the more the merrier...just got to know how to manipulate them...