Question for the " hobbyist community "

Im a recent member to this site, and to the " hobby " .Ive been doing my research, gaining the gull to take the plunge. so i have been reading a lot of reviews of some of the beautiful ladies on this website. but certain things strike me as odd. mind boggling actually.
I totally understand that you ladies have to screen to feel safe, and to stay away from "LE" but why on earth would you need to know my work phone, and position at work? im not applying for a job.nor am i having my credit checked to buy a car.

This one lady asked for the address at my job, phone number, and what my title was.and date of employment.

Ive had an x girlfriend almost got me fired from a job because she would make harassing phone calls

no disrespect. im just curious as to why you need this information.

If you don't feel comfortable giving out that information move on to someone else.

You don't ever give out personal info relating to work/home! Period!

You get a hobby phone. You don't call from a phone you share with a spouse or work.
You get a hobby email. You DON'T contact from an email that belongs to your work, or family/friends know about.

Everything you give for screening, should always and ONLY be hobby related. Anything beyond that, that anyone asks for. Move the heck on to someone else and DO not compromise your personal life for the sake of fulfilling your manly needs. No matter how hot that provider may look. No matter how many of her WK may say she's worth giving all that personal info to.
Don't fucking do it!

Yes, I'm blunt and straightforward!


Good luck to you!

I agree with MC. Move on, get a hobby phone and a hobby email. Stay safe!:-*

Mature Companion - thanks for the advice. I would Never give out that information.

I get that this is a risky " business " for both the provider, and the bobbyist. and i want them to feel safe and comfortable.

it seems to me that they ask for that info to have the upper hand, or possible blackmail.

Just move on there are alot of lovely ladies out there.

theres actually nothing to move on from. i have seen this often in alot of reviews and show cases. i was just curious as to why these woman would want/need this information.

but thanks for your comment. as always, they are appreciated and inforitive.

If she ask for your employer , ask where she lives ! That'll be the end of that , on to next ! Only an idiot would give that out !
theres actually nothing to move on from. i have seen this often in alot of reviews and show cases
Take a look at stats , I'm no newbie , it has never happened !

Work phone? Position at work?--WTF-Blackmail??-What idiot would ask for this and what idiot would give it??ROFLMAO

Work phone? Position at work?--WTF-Blackmail??-What idiot would ask for this and what idiot would give it??ROFLMAO Originally Posted by Txsunman

You got me..i thought what the fuck ..why would you need this???

run fast... take it from someone who was outed by a provider because i gave a "NO" ... do not give any of your personal information , in fact you shouldnt even give your real name!!! get a hobby phone!!! lol

too bad lil nikki asks for all that info.

too bad lil nikki asks for all that info. Originally Posted by oneforone

Yeah, she does if you are new. If you are established, she doesn't. The reason she does this is to verify that the perspective client is not LE.

To the OP, don't give out any information that you are not comfortable giving away.

Work phone number, real address, and real name should not be needed. Find ladies that are newbie friendly and that are willing to be your reference (not all are willing to share this information).

You don't ever give out personal info relating to work/home! Period!

You get a hobby phone. You don't call from a phone you share with a spouse or work.
You get a hobby email. You DON'T contact from an email that belongs to your work, or family/friends know about.

Everything you give for screening, should always and ONLY be hobby related. Anything beyond that, that anyone asks for. Move the heck on to someone else and DO not compromise your personal life for the sake of fulfilling your manly needs. No matter how hot that provider may look. No matter how many of her WK may say she's worth giving all that personal info to.
Don't fucking do it!

Yes, I'm blunt and straightforward!


Good luck to you! Originally Posted by Mature Companion

Sometimes great advice needs to be blunt..

Pretend you live in two world's (at lest two lol...) and this one is totally independent of others.