When does time start.

What happens if I wanted to go somewhere with a provider like dinner, movie, drinks or ? before. How does it normally work?

I have had different answers from providers.

It depends on the lady. They all work independently from each other. One thing is certain. You want make sure that you are both on the same plan before you commence.

you know even though you pay for food , movie and drink...you are still on the clock right??? if might be and should be discounted, but she is expecting to be paid for it... (at least most of them)

Well said JJ
I think if you are unsure, havent built a rapport with said lady, or its the "first" date...i think you would be safe if you compensated her for her time accordingly
You dont want to be known as a "haggler, one that asks for more but expects to pay less, etc" type of gentleman

I've definitely met ladies who go out to dinner , or club off the clock . But they are rare ! And I had seen them a couple times first .

I have NEVER paid for time that was NOT BCD! Thats just me. It would make feel like buying a friend. Not going to do that. Seems I have no shortage of ladies who would like to have dinner, drinks, Las Vegas, Hawaii etc to join me. But I ALWAYS pay for BCD.... ALWAYS!

Several providers have rates posted for multi-hour "dates"--dinner, drinks and "dessert".
After you've seem them a couple of times, some will be willing to go to lunch or dinner w/you afterwards if they're not busy. Just keep in mind they're business women, not girlfriends and spend accordingly and be respectful of their time.

Suggestion. Post up that you would like to take a lady to Morton's and a movie and then BCD. Once the dollar signs dissolve, I think a lady might like an evening out. I know if I had to look at vaginas all the time, I might like an occasional break. Just a theory. Most I ever did was lunch before or after and I paid for the meal. To me this equates to tying the pork chop around your neck so the dog will play with you. Hope you and the lucky lady have a great time.

Some of us are so abrasive and discusting that we need a pork-chop around our neck.

Don't knock the pork-chop. Its served me well.

What happens if I wanted to go somewhere with a provider like dinner, movie, drinks or ? before. How does it normally work?

I have had different answers from providers. Originally Posted by travelerman

All ladies are different in this type of situation you could write a nice introduction about yourself in e-mail or pm. Asking the lady if she ever does dinner, movies, drinks. A lot great information in this thread already good luck to you travelerman.

You definitely need to know up front. I have only done it with providers I have known for a while and always off the clock. It is not a question of money for me. I just don’t need to be seen with eye candy at a restaurant, movies, bar etc. I just do it if we mutually want to experience something. Of course I pay for everything.

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I need a Smithflield smoked pork chop, and the dog needs to be hungry.

This is an area that requires frank discussion between the parties so that there is no misunderstandings and resentments.

Discuss it with the provider each one is different. Both of you must agree on the donation and what is expected before the date.

There are too many abreviations - BCD? I know it is probably real easy, but sitting here al least 5 minutes trying to figure it out - LOL