Misplaced donation?!?

stevehefner's Avatar
So last week I am seeing provider A. I have seen her before and she is one of my favorites. She is from out-of-town and only visits couple times a year and whenever she gets here I'll see her. She is a really cool chick and easy to talk to. Anyway we're about to start the session and I remind her about the donation. I give it to her and she runs off to hide it. Typically end of the story.

We have our session it is great. after an hour I leave on my merry way and turn my hobby phone off for the afternoon. Hours later i get a P 411 email from her saying she can't find the donation and did I accidentally walk off with it. She said she's been texting and emailing me since I left. As my profile states my hobby phone is only on for about 15 minutes before every appointment so I never check it.


Anyway I reply back to her that I was the one that reminded her about the donation that she took it and ran off with it where she put it I've no idea. She emails me back indicating that she found it and it was her mistake. You would think at this point that this little crisis would be over but no...


During that couple hours span another provider- we'll call her provider B- asks her provider A for a reference. Provider A then proceeds to tell provider B that I took off w the donation.


Provider B then feels it's her duty to tell all the okays I have on p 411 that I supposedly did this.


Luckily one of my ATFs on my list calls me and tells me this is happening. I immediately email provider A telling her to reach out to anyone that she told the story to that it was incorrect. She does. But I think the damage is already done from provider B. I have emailed provider B also with no reply


Any thoughts on how to clear up my reputation? I have several okays from reputable providers in Dallas and u think that would be enough but....


Very frustrated.
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
I wouldn't say anything at all at this point. If you have a lot of okays, that should be enough for now. Let the sleeping dogs lay. If you're not losing your okays, I wouldn't worry about it.

Most of us providers wouldn't have known about this little issure if you hadn't have told us.
Sounds like you need to find a new provider A and B. If she's that out of her head that she 1) can't remember where she hid her donation, and 2) is willing to jump on the bandwagon that fast and start badmouthing you to other providers, she's not worth the effort, no matter how hot she is.
Your core base of providers will be enough. A and B did you a favor by showing their true colors. I do not want to sound harsh but their will be a certiain percentage of providers who are kooky, just like in any profession. No more contact with either.
Sorry that happened to you....
Never call either of them. Please pm me both of their names please, so I can add them to my DNS List. (Do Not See)

Thanks


Sorry that happened to you


You should tell Gina too, in case there is more drama in the future.


This is the hobby, there likely will be!
Ate too many pills couldn't remember where she put it, meantime caused u a ref
CoHorn's Avatar
Send Gina this link or just send her an email. A & B would never hear from me again unless they went above and beyond fixing this.

Kaylee I disagree, his reputation was hurt through no fault of his own. I recently saw a lady that contacted several of my okays and asked multiple questions because she is very cautious when seeing someone new. If I was denied entry I would have been pissed. Kaylee, I still love ya though

Hope this gets fixed Steve
stevehefner's Avatar
Thanks for the advice everyone. I will not be seeing either for sure and hope this all dies out.

Cohorn it is the girl u r referring to is Provider B. so for those that want to know read his recent reviews. As for provider A I don't want to bad mouth her. She is real sweet but just flighty I guess.
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
Love you to Cohorn.

Steve...this to shall pass.
I don't care how sweet she was. She certainly wasted no time badmouthing you over her mistake, so I don't know why you afford her the courtesy. If she was willing to turn on you that quickly, it's a red flag
VIP Mya Michelle's Avatar
I don't care how sweet she was. She certainly wasted no time badmouthing you over her mistake, so I don't know why you afford her the courtesy. If she was willing to turn on you that quickly, it's a red flag Originally Posted by BrockLanders21
+1
This sounds just like someone I bought a couch from last weekend. I sat there an counted the money in front if them, then their wife counts it back to confirm its correct and all is good. As we are loading up my truck, the lady comes bac out of the house and says she is short 150 bucks! I didn't even blink and kept loading. Crazy!
Too bad this is one of those activities where you can't ask for, and probably don't really want, a receipt.

"What's this, honey?"
"Oh, a receipt from my hooker. She gets dingy sometimes and forgets where the money went, so I get her to sign off on it."
"Oh. Right. OK. Do we need to file it?"
"Nah. I keep 'em for a coupla weeks to make sure there's no brain farts, but I shred
em after that."
Yea.....cause having a good reputation in the hooker community will make you sleep better