Before I get kicked of Eccie

Im asking truly

If a provider is willing to chill out and have some drinks or dinner and have a conversation without charge... doesn't that make it better? I mean for both parties?

Everyone is different. But from my experience I have found it helpful and successful. I for one wanna skip the BS and have a Mature Companion I can Really Click with. So I have met many hobbyist old "A*P*" and new and I always love making new friends, but come on, tell me that breaking the ice doesn't help??

Why would you be kicked off ECCIE?

I don't see what is the big deal. If you both want to get together socially prior or post an appointment, well... that is your call.

Is anyone complaining about it?

I was wondering what would you do to get kicked off ECCIE, that really won't get you kicked off the site.

Many years ago when I first started this Hobby of ours, that was how I was screened as a newbie. I met the lovely Provider at a local restaurant for drinks and appetizers, we chit chatted til she felt comfortable with me and then we moved on to her place.

I think it not only makes you comfortable with the Hobbyist but it makes the Hobbyist comfortable with you.

Also, there have been a couple of Providers that I've seen several times that have met at a restaurant just to have lunch or dinner off the clock and then we continue on our separate ways after eating together. You can make friends in this Hobby of ours that you like to just chill with.

I hope you have a great New Years sugar

Kicked off Eccie ???? Oh no , pretty lady wants extra-curricular fun , Get a rope !

Kicked off Eccie ???? Oh no , pretty lady wants extra-curricular fun , Get a rope ! Originally Posted by rockerrick

maybe a good tongue lashing before the rope...

If both parties agree I see no problem with meeting before or after.

It should make the encounter more enjoyable.

Have fun Vinny!!

I always offer dinner (on me) to the ladies I have never met before. And you are correct, it is a great way to break the ice.

Actually it makes it feel liike a real world date

Damn I need my ice broken!

How simple things can work wonders.
It was the third time with the provider, first time we met outside the room and seeing her with clothes on was the first time I came to apprciate how damn hot she is, so hell yah to a little socializing verticle.

I've done it several times and had a great time.

R u trying to ask me out? Lol I like meeting first too takes away the nervousness

Vinnie, don't you still owe me a birthday drink anyways???

Im asking truly

If a provider is willing to chill out and have some drinks or dinner and have a conversation without charge... doesn't that make it better? I mean for both parties?

Everyone is different. But from my experience I have found it helpful and successful. I for one wanna skip the BS and have a Mature Companion I can Really Click with. So I have met many hobbyist old "A*P*" and new and I always love making new friends, but come on, tell me that breaking the ice doesn't help?? Originally Posted by 82Vinny

Multiple opportunities to "break some ice" every month in 2013 are in my signature:

what ck said!!

Yup! I think the socials are a GREAT way to break the ice
I enjoy meeting the men & ladies

Reason why I don't do just hour sessions. I like to break the ice.
It is always welcomed when an opportunity is extended like this.

But never take advantage of ones hospitality.