Hobbyist/Providers-- What's your definition of an ATF?

initial d's Avatar
Well the other day me and a friend/hobbyist where talking about ATF's.
He said he was never a flavor of the month kinda guy....he likes having a atf.
He asked me if I've ever had one...the answer "not really,kinda".
I asked him what his definition of an ATF was and he said, "Someone who I have no desire to see another". I like that.
My definition would be "somebody who I can always have fun with...guaranteed.
My question to you what is your definition of ATF?
Also do providers have ATF's?
Dakota123's Avatar
I think an ATF is someone that you can call and say "hey, set me up for tomorrow... I cant wait to see you" or you want to see on a reg basis.... I could be wrong... but I just think someone you enjoy spending time with. someone you want to see succeed.... *Shrugs*

Kisses Initial d
The next one ! Keeps me chasing infinitely !
colt's Avatar
  • colt
  • 01-10-2013, 12:43 PM
What's this flavor of the month, its the weekly quest, adventure, new and exciting.
There are those that deserve a repeat, but those seen to be busy and unavailble.
Ur bud is a settler not a reacher.
The big repeat factor is connection, not just plugging in.
Love Your Zoo's Avatar
I think an ATF is someone that you can call and say "hey, set me up for tomorrow... I cant wait to see you" or you want to see on a reg basis.... I could be wrong... but I just think someone you enjoy spending time with. someone you want to see succeed.... *Shrugs*

Kisses Initial d Originally Posted by dakota123
Dakota123, you pretty much nailed it... Someone you click with. And she knows exactly what you want. For me, I know when she is an ATF if after a session with someone else you always say "I should have called..." Usually it is GFE on steroids.
Sonya Playmate's Avatar
ATF, is someone you enjoy spending time with. You feel very at ease with. :-)
black5uperman's Avatar
Im still in search of my atf. To me its someone I can see on a regular basis that gives mind blowing fun, someone I forget this is about the donation. I had one but she retired... still on the search.... ladies any ideas lol

fyi sonya is the next audition I wanna hold
Altbier's Avatar
For me, it's pretty straightforward--an ATF is the one who I'd rather spend my time and cash with than anyone else. Doesn't mean I won't quit looking for an AT(more)F.
...My question to you what is your definition of ATF?
Also do providers have ATF's? Originally Posted by initial d
Last question first, my friend: Yes, they do. However, smart businesswomen that they are, they will never name names -- certainly not in a public forum such as this.

I had an ATF, and currently have one.

The former was the #1 among favorites, nothing more: while seeing her more often than anyone else, I also "played the field."

The current is so much a favorite, and there's so much "chemistry" between us, my interest in "shopping" elsewhere is virtually non-existent.
savak's Avatar
  • savak
  • 01-10-2013, 05:22 PM
I think an ATF is someone that you can call and say "hey, set me up for tomorrow... I cant wait to see you" or you want to see on a reg basis.... I could be wrong... but I just think someone you enjoy spending time with. someone you want to see succeed.... *Shrugs*

Kisses Initial d Originally Posted by dakota123
+1
FootLong's Avatar
I asked him what his definition of an ATF was and he said, "Someone who I have no desire to see another". Originally Posted by initial d
That is not an ATF. That would be a (new) wife.

An ATF is someone you keep going back to cuz she makes it 'fresh' each time, and you enjoy being with her even when you are not fucking her. So there is a 'chemistry'.

And yet, as a guy, you are still in search of other chemical formulas...cuz, ya know, there was this atomic bomb, and everyone was like WOW, and then next thing you know there was the Hydrogen Bomb, and folks were like SUPER WOW.

Are we still talking about sex here?

ATF or no, a hobbyist is always looking for the next best thing. Maybe the Antimatter Bomb. So ATF ladies, keep making it fresh! Do not take your ATF client for granted!
bamatide's Avatar
[QUOTE=dakota123;1052179419]I think an ATF is someone that you can call and say "hey, set me up for tomorrow... I cant wait to see you" or you want to see on a reg basis.... I could be wrong... but I just think someone you enjoy spending time with. someone you want to see succeed.... *Shrugs*

I totally agree Dakota!!
sanantonioman37's Avatar
I think an ATF is someone that you can call and say "hey, set me up for tomorrow... I cant wait to see you" or you want to see on a reg basis.... I could be wrong... but I just think someone you enjoy spending time with. someone you want to see succeed.... *Shrugs*

Kisses Initial d Originally Posted by dakota123
Ditto.
Hooligan_'s Avatar
Im still learning all this terminology to this hobby, but from what i gather, and in my own opinion, An ATF would be that one girl you click with, and she with you . and would rather spend that time with her, and her only. correct me if im wrong, but also, the ATF would kinda be like a " Friends with benefits " with a twist.

Im not looking for a " new Wife " here. but i think it would be kinda cool to meet someone that would satisfy my sexual needs, and cool as fuck to hang out with too
Or am i just way off base here??
Hooligan_'s Avatar
Im still learning all this terminology to this hobby, but from what i gather, and in my own opinion, An ATF would be that one girl you click with, and she with you . and would rather spend that time with her, and her only. correct me if im wrong, but also, the ATF would kinda be like a " Friends with benefits " with a twist.

Im not looking for a " new Wife " here. but i think it would be kinda cool to meet someone that would satisfy my sexual needs, and cool as fuck to hang out with too
Or am i just way off base here?? Originally Posted by Hooligan_

Let me revise what i just said, i just re read it and i was like wtf..you sound like a fucktard.. ROFL

When i say "" hang out " it means, if you had already set up the appointment, but able to sit in a bar and have some drinks and or dinner before hand, Someone you can call when you want some chon chon. you can call up freely and say, Yo are you busy? lets have some drinks, then a romp in the hay?