**** HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE A TRUE PROVIDER?? ****

OK GUYS I AM WRITING THIS POST FOR TRUTHFUL AND HONEST OPINIONS.
I AM A LITTLE KNOWN TO YOU GENTLEMEN NOW AND IT SEEMS LIKE
THINGS HAVE GONE DOWN HILL. RECENTLY I HAD A CLIENT OF MINE
EXPRESS TO ME THAT I WAS NOT A PROVIDER I AM LEARNING TO BE A PROVIDER.
NOW WITH THAT STATEMENT BEING SAID I DID NOT ARGUE WITH HIM NOR DISAGREE,
I FEEL THAT EVERYTHING IS A LEARNING EXPERIENCE. I AM LEARNING THE BUSINESS AS WELL AS LEARNING WHAT IS SAFE AND WHAT IS NOT SAFE. AS I HAVE MENTIONED IN MY PREVIOUS POSTS THIS IS NOT MY CAREER FELLAS I DO HAVE A JOB. BUT WHAT I DO KNOW IS THAT WHEN I SPEND TIME WITH THE GENTLEMEN THAT DO WANT TO SPEND TIME
WITH ME I MAKE IT MY JOB TO MAKE HIM FEEL AS COMFORTABLE AND RELAXED AS POSSIBLE TO MAKE SURE HE IS GETTING HIS MONEY WORTH. I HAVE NOT OFFERED ANYTHING DIFFERENT THAN WHAT I HAVE BEEN OFFERING SINCE THE FIRST DAY I HAVE STARTED. TO MY KNOWLEDGE THERE HAD BEEN NO BAD REVIEWS ABOUT ME AND I AM LEGITIMATE. SO FELLAS YOU TELL ME WOULD YOU RATHER BE TREATED LIKE A KING AND BE SAFE OR RISK YOUR CHANCES ON THIS PSE OR OTHER THINGS? I AM A VERY SAFE PROVIDER AND THOUGHT THAT SAFETY WAS FIRST. IF THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT I SHOULD CHANGE OR LOOK INTO PLEASE LET ME KNOW I AM VERY OPEN-MINDED TO NEW THINGS . IF THERE ARE ANY BAD THINGS SAID ABOUT ME PLEASE LET ME ME KNOW SO THEY CAN BE FIXED. I AM ASKING FOR FEEDBACK FOR A REASON EVERYTHING WAS GOING GOOD AFTER MY LAST CLEARING I HAD TO DO SO PLEASE TELL ME WHAT HAPPENED!? I AM HERE TO PROVIDE AN UPSCALE SAFE AND DISCREET SERVICE TO ALL GENTLEMEN AND IF THERE'S ANYTHING WRONG THAT I AM DOING LET ME KNOW I WOULD VERY MUCH APPRECIATE IT. SO TO SOME UP MY ORIGINAL QUESTION WHAT IS A GOOD PROVIDER TO YOU?

Sometimes I feel like you're trying hard to sell me something...

Your Avatar - Very easy on the eyes!!!
Your ALL CAPS TYPING - Very hard on the eyes...

Yes, there's not much to go on, we've communicated but I haven't pulled the trigger yet . Could it be your menu ? cbj is a deal breaker for me. just saying

Mistress Savannah (love that name by the way),
Your right, life is a learning experience. Sometimes you can't please everyone. Sometimes two people just don't hit it off, and theres nothing you can do about that. How do you describe a true provider? That type of question deserves a multifaceted answer. It's different for every man, because every person is looking for something different. In general, I do believe a provider should be open minded, outgoing, understanding, patient and willing, of course.

The only advice I can give you, is generic sounding- but just do your best. Be honest. If you don't offer a service, don't say you do. If a gent won't meet you because you don't offer something he's looking for, well thats OK. You were honest and upfront, and I think that goes a long way. Also, don't do anything your not comfortable with, because if you do, you won't do it with zest.

Every hobbyist will probably have his own definition as to what is a good provider. For me it's someone who is a good GFE since that is my preference. At a minimum a provider should be friendly and enthusiastic. Nothing worse than seeing a provider that doesn't give a damn.

Attitude trumps all else.

a true provider I think is someone who is great a DFK kissing

Make it feel like you are my GF or as porn star depending what I am asking for.

I like the GFE but you have limited on yours.

I wouln't see you.
CBJ, I wouldnt see you.
I love DFK and if you don't I wouldn't see you.

I am aware that you are protecting yourself. Thats great.

Ditto

No Thanks !!

Anxiously awaiting Savannah's return to the discussion. Peace

Why start a discussion if you are not going to participate? hmmmmm Unless of course this is a threAD.

Anxiously awaiting Savannah's return to the discussion. Peace Originally Posted by whosdair

Why start a discussion if you are not going to participate? hmmmmm Unless of course this is a threAD. Originally Posted by GP

Just shut up.

The girl comes here and asks for advice within the context of things not going so well for her as a provider. The implication behind that is anything but an ad. So why use it as an opportunity to mock her efforts (using one of your lame running jokes, no less)? hmmmmmm Unless of course you just can't help yourself when an opportunity presents itself to you where you can bash yet another provider.

Savannah, i think Tatiana pretty much said it best. If you follow her advice and come across as 100% genuine in doing it, then you should do fine. Good luck.

Just shut up.

The girl comes here and asks for advice within the context of things not going so well for her as a provider. The implication behind that is anything but an ad. So why use it as an opportunity to mock her efforts (using one of your lame running jokes, no less)? hmmmmmm Unless of course you just can't help yourself when an opportunity presents itself to you where you can bash yet another provider.
Originally Posted by Doove

I don't thinck anyone bashed a provider. But I do understand how sensitive you get during your cycle.

Savannah, i think Tatiana pretty much said it best. If you follow her advice and come across as 100% genuine in doing it, then you should do fine. Good luck. Originally Posted by Doove

Savannah, listen to Doovie, he's an expert at pleasing men. Cost effective too, can't beat his freebies!