WTF........is up with the ISO?

syeira pink's Avatar
Has the ISO section turned into " I am to lazy to read the provider ads"??

I mean c'mon now, every other ISO is looking for something that almost all the ladies do......( I said almost don't get pissy if you don't ..I did say almost)

So, is it to hard to read the ads? If they are not being read, then why should we take the time to write them? Is it now, that we the ladies are suppose to go hunt down a ISO .........I thought the guys contacted us.. WE ARE THE PROVIDERS...........??

I thought, ( I have been wrong ONCE ) that we post ads, you guys go find that "strange" of the day and we all are happy? AM I WRONG?

So, guys, UNLESS it's a specif ISO..get off your lazy asses and check out the ads........WE DONT have time to sit here and check the ISO section to see if we qualify for your simple request........... sheeshh.

I mean, we take the time to, clean our in-calls, do our hair and makeup, take phone calls, check emails, make arrangements for our kids.......and so on and so on............AND write our ads.


I hope I have not started a ugly thread here, I am just trying to point out a couple of things from the providers side of things.

Syeira



I stopped reading the ISOs a long time ago ever since the mods decided to take away the short notice availability thread. The mods would rather keep the BBFS threads open. What a shame, lol.
TinMan's Avatar
I took a quick look, Syeira, and I think a lot of those guys are looking for something short notice in a particular area.

It does seem as if the number of threads of that sort have increased since the IPSNAT was closed.
pyramider's Avatar
There is an ad section?
I have the problem all the time that providers post in the "Weekend Lineup" yet are not available on the weekend, just posting for another time. Weekend Lineup, you would think would mean for the weekend?
whitechocolate's Avatar
It looks like a lot of the guys are looking for something very specific (which may or may not be in ad or P411 menu), on short notice and in a specific area (which may or may not be in ad). It might be helpful, as suggested already, to put in your area of town (as specific as possible) in the ads and P411 sites. I know Syeira makes it quite clear in what area she is in but most others dont.
TexTushHog's Avatar
As I recollect, I've not posted in the ISO here in Dallas, but you have to admit that the provider ads section is horribly organized. Plus, many of the ads are unreadable or poorly written. There is no uniformity in pictures in the ads. Pricing information is allowed one day, prohibited the next. I used to try to make a point of at least browsing ads every time I logged in. Now, I'll bet I haven't looked at the ads for at least a year. I just pick a gal based on reviews. The adds are just too messy and disorganized to contemplate. This site is crying out for some sort of intelligent organization of ads.

At least the ISO's -- in concept -- place the time burden on those who stand to benefit economically. But that apparently doesn't work either. I haven't followed that section either, but the single most useful thread (from my standpoint), the moderators have apparently gotten rid of I now hear.

There has to be a small (or perhaps large) fortune to be made in matching escorts in need of clients with clients seeking escorts with certain attributes. I'm not sure how difficult it would be (legal ramifications aside), but it is a gold mine waiting to be tapped.
Roger.Smith's Avatar
Probably plenty of reasons:

Some men may have a fear of rejection, and find it easier to have a provider contact them instead. May be especially true of people with low self-esteem.

Some guys may be tired of NCNS or scheduling hassles and prefer to have provider who's confirmed her availability for a specific time or request on short notice. There are times when providers already have appointments scheduled, may be that time of the month, other providers taking forever to provide references, or whatever.

It may be provider roulette. Sometimes a man just wants some strange, and it seems easier to filter in ISO.
syeira pink's Avatar
Well put all of you...........

Thanks for the input.
TinMan's Avatar
I agree with you TTH, about the organizational shortfalls of the ad section. I'm at a loss as to how to fix it however.

I have a much better grasp on how to fix the Showcase. Wouldn't it help if there were drop down choices that had yes/no for short notice availability, and instead of location we had a specific drop down for "Incall Location" that was more granular: downtown Dallas, Arlington, west Fort Worth, etc.

There is an advanced search feature on the left hand side of the page when you do a provider search. If it had a few more options, it might solve a lot of problems folks regularly gripe about.

I hope St Chris sees this and chimes in. I imagine there are a number of us who'd be willing to offer input on how to make the provider search function more usable.
mtabsw's Avatar
Syeira is right - and I will add every time a specific hard-to-find skill / ethnicity / body type is being sought e.g. I need a old, fat, blonde, fair-skin swedish trannie to let me inhale her beer farts ...the same incredibly hot Asian 20 yo spinner responds with "I'm available!!!"

We need a smartphone app both bros & hos can access with price point, location, perversion, age, race (or racism as some prefer). So when we're lonely and horny, we can put in our side of the details and BINGO. A google map pops up with candidates shown.

Add a chat feature and you could make a fortune.

Maybe Gina is working on it...
I mean, we take the time to, clean our in-calls, do our hair and makeup, take phone calls, check emails, make arrangements for our kids.......and so on and so on............AND write our ads.


Syeira
Originally Posted by syeira pink


Judging by the number of guys who complain about communication that is never answered by the providers, along with the multiple delayed appointments and the NCNS, I would say your paragraph is far from the norm. It is unfortunate, but the reality is many women do not have a professional approach to this business.

I stopped reading the ISOs a long time ago ever since the mods decided to take away the short notice availability thread. The mods would rather keep the BBFS threads open. What a shame, lol. Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby
The rules were made very clear from the start, and frankly it was up to you and every other provider ( not the mods responsibility ) to follow directions. You had a group of adult women who chose not to comply with very simple directions.

The New Incall Provider Short Notice Availability Thread (READ INSTRUCTIONS BEFORE POSTING)

The title of the thread made it very CLEAR to READ INSTRUCTIONS BEFORE POSTING. Is there anything to get confused by on that title? I think not.


If this becomes a moderation burden due to providers not reading the rules, it will be shut down again.

Let's hope this helps people get connected, without becoming some competitive ad BS thread. Originally Posted by Duke of G
Duke could not have been any more specific on that post. Now before you go accusing moderators, go ahead and click the link, read the thread and see whose fault it was for the thread to get shutdown. Maybe you ought to call them out before you call out the mods, We are not babysitters to all providers.

As far as BBFS threads, tell us all, where in the Forum Guidelines does it say that staff will shut down threads about BBFS? Whether is ISOs, Coed or reviews. The only reason you see threads getting shut down is because many people get emotional over an anonymous person posting something on the board that they disagreed with.Then they start to post personal attacks and spew venom all over the thread.
VIP Mya Michelle's Avatar
I have the problem all the time that providers post in the "Weekend Lineup" yet are not available on the weekend, just posting for another time. Weekend Lineup, you would think would mean for the weekend? Originally Posted by AT6Texan
lol good one

I stopped reading the ISOs a long time ago ever since the mods decided to take away the short notice availability thread. The mods would rather keep the BBFS threads open. What a shame, lol. Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby
haha +1

Probably plenty of reasons:

Some men may have a fear of rejection, and find it easier to have a provider contact them instead. May be especially true of people with low self-esteem.

Some guys may be tired of NCNS or scheduling hassles and prefer to have provider who's confirmed her availability for a specific time or request on short notice. There are times when providers already have appointments scheduled, may be that time of the month, other providers taking forever to provide references, or whatever.

It may be provider roulette. Sometimes a man just wants some strange, and it seems easier to filter in ISO. Originally Posted by Roger.Smith
Thanks for the viewpoint that's why i am not afraid to reach out to guys, even though many girls say you should just wait by the phone... lol i've made many appts happen on my behalf.
Thuck Fat's Avatar
It is unfortunate, but the reality is many women do not have a professional approach to this business.
Originally Posted by Matador
Very true statement. I couldn't agree with you more.
As I recollect, I've not posted in the ISO here in Dallas, but you have to admit that the provider ads section is horribly organized. Plus, many of the ads are unreadable or poorly written. There is no uniformity in pictures in the ads. Pricing information is allowed one day, prohibited the next. I used to try to make a point of at least browsing ads every time I logged in. Now, I'll bet I haven't looked at the ads for at least a year. I just pick a gal based on reviews. The adds are just too messy and disorganized to contemplate. This site is crying out for some sort of intelligent organization of ads.

At least the ISO's -- in concept -- place the time burden on those who stand to benefit economically. But that apparently doesn't work either. I haven't followed that section either, but the single most useful thread (from my standpoint), the moderators have apparently gotten rid of I now hear.

There has to be a small (or perhaps large) fortune to be made in matching escorts in need of clients with clients seeking escorts with certain attributes. I'm not sure how difficult it would be (legal ramifications aside), but it is a gold mine waiting to be tapped. Originally Posted by TexTushHog
Thankyou!

No one got butthurt from having the "Short notice Availability" (The original thread, without all the damn rules in it) and we need that thread back!

Also, is the "ISO anyone who really needs business?" Thread gone too?

Damn.