Sorry this is late but I just gave her another opportunity to correct this this morning. Her answer was "no thx, I have no time to waste with this type of bull." We texted prior for some time trying to verify some review information. She told me I would just have to take a chance and the decision was all mine. So I said I'd take the chance and set up an appointment for that Friday. Unfortunately I had a shift change at work and had to text and cancel. On Feb 1st at 9:20 am I texted for us to get together on Monday the 4th at 3:30. On the 2nd at 10:30 am she responded "Monday is fine". Monday morning I texted on my way to work to verify. Texted again at 1017 and1200, 1230, and at 1328. At that time I said it was getting late and it felt like she wasn't going to show. I said I would wait until the next day for her to tell me what had happened. If no answer I would do an NCNS. Never got a response. Wrote in ECCIE to find correct place to post. So here it is. I don't see her showcase anymore so maybe she just doesn't care. Well, that's my side of the story, for what it's worth. I don't ever no show on providers and I would appreciate the same courtesy. Thanks everyone.
This a follow up to my initial report. This will be the last I say on this subject. Personally, while this is a good forum for getting both sides of an issue I feel that we should be able to post NCNS as a review so that more people get the information. I seldom come here but I always look at reviews.
After I said I would do the NCNS I was told by her
"whatever, im an established provider with regular clients so you will not influence my work with ur annoying and uncalled for comments, you canceled on me twice" I wrote her back saying..."The difference being - I canceled. We all have lives and at least I had the courtesy of letting you know I couldn't make it. Now it would appear you simply did what you did as some sort of revenge because I had to cancel!? Seriously?"
dude...chill...no harm no foul...you didnt come out of pocket, you saved it for someone else...
but she was being truthful with you, she has a pretty large following...its a shame you didnt connect with her, cause she is a very cool girl... i've canceled on her a couple times, but i see her kinda regularly and it was worked out...her body and bcd skills and her attitude are all worth the wait... she rarely comes on here... if you do calm down and have second thoughts... she is very cool, if you try and work it out with her she probably will see you....
but i've been in your shoes as well and it sucks sometimes when ncns'd...
Thanks for your thoughts lasvegas. I didn't doubt that she had a following. I just wanted to be one. That's why I tried for so long to work out a time to meet. It is also why I waited for so long to report.
I never said a cross word and I still don't understand. Oh well.