Re-entry question

Something has fallen into my lap, and I may be able to treat myself the next time I visit San Antonio.

However, I'm going to have a problem on references. It's been ten years since my last confession - I mean since I last saw a provider. None of the ladies I knew are active now. If I happen to take a shine to someone who wants references, what would my best options be? Outside of spending my windfall on P411 which would knock me out of being able to enjoy myself.

Thanks for any suggestions.
RD

Starting over again , you likely won't be seeing someone you take a shine to , unless they are newbie friendly . Even with p411 you don't have any okays , and most require 2 or 3 okays . Find a newbie friendly lady that is suitable . Best of luck !

There is a difference between "references required" and "references preferred". If you communicate like a gentleman, you may find a lady willing to take a chance on you.

However, there are a few bad seeds here in SA that have caused the ladies to rightfully be more cautious of the unknown hobbiest.

More of a Coed topic.

Moved to the proper forum.