What if there is no "chemistry" ....do both sides feel obligated to continue

...and see it through? Ok, so for the gents, you've done your homework and wanted to see so so and go through the booking process, set your date and then there you are. You arrive/she arrives and after the initial intros and maybe some talk, you realize that there is no chemistry between you. Do you stay out of politeness? Feeling of obligation?

I wonder about this b/c I've had one occasion where clearly there were "sparks" between myself and a gent and it made for a very umcomfortable situation; not b/c any factors like character/hygiene/appearance went into play...we just didnt click and I understand that sometimes expectations aren't met at first meeting and that's ok--it doesn't always work.

Just me .02...

Should allways make the best out of a bad situation and be polite.

I hade a two hour appoinment with a girl in Dallas some time back. She was very cute spinner type and fairly new to the hobby, but very quite and seemed uncomfortable. After round one we still had an hour plus time left but I told her she did not have to hang around on my account. She left and that was that.

And yes I did pay for two hours.

I do see where you're coming from, I happen to know a woman that is extremely beautiful but there's no way I'd put my penis anywhere near her because of her personality.
If I accidentally booked with a lady like that, I'd be hard pressed to stay in the room.
But I was raised frugal as well, I'd probably at least try and get a blowjob for my buck!

(Ashley, glad to see you taking it upon yourself to liven up our little area of the board!)

(Ashley, glad to see you taking it upon yourself to liven up our little area of the board!) Originally Posted by riday

Thanks, doll!! ... Trying to get the pot stirring with some provider feedback as well so they see (the providers who ask about W. TX and whether they should tour out here) we are not just tumbleweeds and crickets chirping. W. TX has alot to offer

I think its up to the provider to make whatever chemistry she can. I mean...we're not going to be attracted to everyone in the same way. For me, every man has some kind of quality that makes me interested. If I don't get that dampness in my panties the minute I see him, then I'll certainly try to increase his interest, which by default increases mine. I wonder if when it happens for a gent its not just because the provider isn't really into making it happen? What I mean is...is it possible she's just not livening up the party?

I think its up to the provider to make whatever chemistry she can. I mean...we're not going to be attracted to everyone in the same way. For me, every man has some kind of quality that makes me interested. If I don't get that dampness in my panties the minute I see him, then I'll certainly try to increase his interest, which by default increases mine. I wonder if when it happens for a gent its not just because the provider isn't really into making it happen? What I mean is...is it possible she's just not livening up the party? Originally Posted by Nina Rae

Nina, I agree as providers we need resonate sensuality and sexyness for the people who want our company and no...we won't be attracted to everyone we are with. But for those rare moments when you (a provider) have given it your all or perhaps at first glance or first verbal interaction, the two of you dont mesh well....do you bow out gracefully or let him call the shots and he determine whether he wants to continue or exit since?

Interesting to see the difference of answers

xoxo

Great question,

AshleyAshton.

For Hobbyist, I think research and to read reviews lessens the chances of a bad meeting. Also good communication as to expectations.

And I thought me and you clicked?

@ Westtxbudman.. Baby, I had a great time with you!!! We absolutely clicked and can't went for our weekend rendevous. 8+8+

Damnit! Hate posting w a mobile device..What I meant to say was..." Can't wait for our weekend rendevous xoxo".