Dining out with your companion. OR enjoying a meal she cooked for you?

Many of my dates are extended lunch & dinner dates. Always dining out at the finest places. Which is nice. But often times, I would have preferred to of cooked a nice meal for him. I like to consider myself a good cook. I know my way around the kitchen as much as I do a mans body.

I've had the pleasure of cooking for a few sweet gents. Which led to
them falling in lust & traveling back to Texas for more of my cooking.

But seriously if you had the option of dining out or eating a home cooked meal she's prepared. Which would you prefer?

When I think of a woman catering to a man. I don't just mean in the bedroom. I feel there's more to man than just sex.

Having a meal prepared is rather sexy! Whether or not you are a good cook, it shows effort. I would consider it a nice form of foreplay, espcially if some good wine is served.

Prefers a woman who cooks for her man...stay home for me!

Do I remember a provider from the old site who offered a home cooked meal with a session? Must have been a flop, because it didn't take off.
To answer the question, I love home cooking, and would prefer that to any dine out. From what I hear, WM, you could be the main course, and/or the dessert.

I have cooked for some of my best friends who have some time to enjoy such a nice dinner/date. It is alot of fun and dessert is always sexy especially when you eat it off one another! MMMMMM Hungry!

KKA

just out of curiosity ..is having dinner a plus, or on the clock and dessert..

I would prefer to take you out to dinner.

just out of curiosity ..is having dinner a plus, or on the clock and dessert..

I would prefer to take you out to dinner. Originally Posted by pickupkid

You would have to ask the particular lady you choose to take out to dinner. As there are some ladies who charge for off the clock time you spend with them. I know a lady in Austin who charges 100hr for off the clock time.

I however, do not charge for non bcd time. That's part of the extended date they choose to book.

With a lady I've just met, I love, love, love to try out new restaurants and new cuisines. It shows me how curious and open minded she is, and to an extent, how she treats other people. I'm a big fan of people who work in the service industry, and women who disrespect waitstaff are usually not nice people. Also, women who can allow themselves to enjoy the sensory pleasures of great food, happen to react similarly in bed. Really! I once dated a woman, "Debbie" who had incredibly bland taste in food, and was also very vanilla in bed.

Once I get to know someone, it's great to have a woman cook for me and have a date night at home once in awhile. Cooking has been my hobby for 20 years, but I still appreciate the time and effort it takes to cook a great meal. It shows a woman's nurturing side. I don't usually like to have a woman cook for me until I get a feel for what I can expect. The first time the aforementioned lady, "Debbie", cooked for me, she made Uncle Ben's rice and pepper steak. She didn't believe in using salt at all. I respected the work she put into dinner, but it kinda bothered me that she didn't care about how the meal would taste for anyone but herself.

Not everyone is a great cook, but like any skill, it can be learned. When a woman doesn't know how to cook, but is willing to learn, it's usually consistent with her willingness and ability to learn any other skill. Even better, it's something we can experience together.

From a hobby standpoint, I haven't taken a provider out to dinner, nor have I had one cook for me. I don't think I would enjoy the thought of paying a woman for that experience, even if the "dessert" was part of the deal. Call me crazy, but to me, enjoying a great meal and the good company associated with it is something to be enjoyed simply for the sake of doing it and it wouldn't be the same if I felt that dinner was part of a "package deal" that was part of a business deal.

I don't think I would enjoy the thought of paying a woman for that experience, even if the "dessert" was part of the deal. Call me crazy, but to me, enjoying a great meal and the good company associated with it is something to be enjoyed simply for the sake of doing it and it wouldn't be the same if I felt that dinner was part of a "package deal" that was part of a business deal. Originally Posted by Transplanted2tex

I can understand your point. However, I don't view the hobby as a business. Regardless of all the nay-sayers in that regard.
I'm different. I don't do sessions.
I have dates. No one would be paying me to cook for them. Because I'm not seeing them for business.
I would be meeting a man to enjoy his company in every way. (I've said it before) There's more to a man than just sex. Cooking for him would be my way of letting him know that I actually DO enjoy his company.
I personally, have an issue with men always paying when they take a woman out to dinner. That's just me.

Thanks for everyone's input. Very insightful.

Cooking is a turn on and a great way to start or end a session. I have often wanted to ask the provider if they would like to have a meal afterward or before. Great way to begin or end the perfect setting.

Give me the home cooked meal anytime, Wicked. I get enough restaurant food when traveling..Home cooked meal is much more personal. Just my $.02.

Happy Fourth to all Hobbyists and lovely Providers!

Str8

I have had the experience of going out for a meal with a few different ladies after meeting with them, and have had a great time. I think that having a meal prepared by the lady with whom I am meeting would be way cool, and add to the experience.

I would love to try it!

Personally I would prefer to cook for the ladies. Momma always said if you pleasure a women first then you will always receive as much or more in return. Also not to insulte any of the ladies here but I do not know many women now a days that can cook much. So what better way to start the pleasuring then by preparing some delictable treats to share. just my $.02

Being treated to dinner by a lady is something I view as an honor. It does not matter whether she takes me out or prepares it herself. The thought behind it counts for a lot. When I dine out with a lady I always want to pay for it because that is how I was brought up, to be a Gentleman. However, I have no problem when a lady want to do the same for me.

In the end, it really does not matter who pays. What matters is that you are spending some quality time with a wonderful lady in a great setting.

i would love cooking and drinking TOGETHER. i also love when they cook for me..and i also wouldnt charge a man just to feed me lol... i see them all as dates as well...its nice to have that kind of company i really enjoy it...it helps to get to know eachother in that little time..so when our actual bcd fun comes...its so much more comfortable.