Dinner beforehand...

This is a question for both sides...

Have you ever thought of having dinner before a session? Is that wrong? Should there be a fee for the time spend there too?

I put in request for this and was Very Disappointed with the lack of replies. I was left dateless lol....

No.
Don't want either party to have a case of bubble guts.
We can go have a few drinks beforehand.

No.
Don't want either party to have a case off bubble guts.
We can go have a few drinks beforehand. Originally Posted by playIVkeeps

Good point but I think a light meal and a few drinks would be a nice opener. But BG's isnt as good as BJ's lol

Well considering you're paying for time and not just activities that's why you lacked replies. Now if I have a long time client then I might have dinner with him without him paying extra simply because I enjoy spending time with him. The definition of an escort is one who's time you pay for. The definition of a prostitute is one who's sexual services you are paying for. Most of the girls on this board are professional escorts and handle themselves accordingly. I'm not saying some don't go an eat with some of their clients but mostly because they are either 1. long term clients or 2. friends outside the hobby.

Now if you pay the fee beforehand (most girls offer great date night specials for a couple of hours of their time) then I don't see any issue with eating before playing. Just make sure it's nothing to heavy that might make you sick lol.

I like to eat after... I think its better- and I enjoy going out every once in a while with people that can carry a conversation :-)

I have to say that recently I had my milestone occasion.

And to celebrate it, I invited a very appreciative, beautiful Lady from this site to join me on short notice (seeing that another Lady from here who volunteered months earlier to be my date that night was a no go.)

She said it was the best meal she ever ate.

Unfortunately, we were so full that I could not partake dessert. But I have a rain check on that.

So, don't fill yourself up if you want a very well rounded evening.

NVM

I prefer to eat after a session myself

After!

have done it both ways have gone out for dinner and drinks and then a session and session first and then dinner and drinks. With the 2nd scenario it turned into another session afterwards a few times : ) so yeah I prefer eating after...

But it was almost always with someone i knew pretty well. never did either the first time seeing a lady.

This is a great question to have come up, and Malaya I love your definitions of the difference between a professional escort versus a prostitute. I have had many people suggest the dinner date scenario to me before and the response I have always received was "so you mean I have to pay for dinner and for your time, shouldn't dinner be enough"? Which of course my response has been "I can eat dinner at home, don't need it bought for me and besides, again, it is my time you are compensating me for, not the activity." I've always received a negative response even after I would try to draw them a mental picture by asking them how it makes sense to have an hour long dinner that cost them approximately $50 on their part when in that same hour I could have made $200, but alas it never gets through. I, too, though believe that if you have a long-time, or frequent client, and/or someone you have also created a friendship with than it makes sense to on the occasion to throw dinner or a movie in for nothing. It makes sense. So, like, what was mentioned above, I added to my menu a while ago a "dinner date package" which gives you a chunk of time at a great value so everyone is happy and remembering why we are all here!

Hell looking back at it my real life GF's have cost so much money even paying for time served at dinner would be getting away with it for cheaper in the long run lol.

On many occasion I cook dinner for the ladies and they really appreciate it. All costs are always discussed before hand. It really works out great for the both of us.
fisherman6944

Katia,

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