GFE & PSE?

I always have prided myself in being versatile and meeting my friends needs and wants. I have communicated with a few new friends recently, and it seems that the idea is if a provider is gfe that they are not pse material or capable. I think I have to disagree, but thought this would be a good topic to start my first Co-ed since moving to the area. What are everyone's thoughts on this?

GFE and PSE are not necessarily mutually exclusive. Most girls come down on one side or the other (or neither)...but there are some girls who are able to do either or some combination of the two. The combination in one girl simultaneously is not all that common, imo. A Girlfriend is kissy and cuddly, whereas a Pornstar is aggressive and slutty. A girl's personality usually steers her naturally toward one or the other. But some are able to somehow blend the two.

Not doubting you FL, but I have never ran across one that could do both.
But definitely found delight on both sides of the coin

There have been many threads attempting to define GFE vs PSE. I've never seen an agreed upon definition. That aside, I have no doubt a provider can cross over between the two. It may be rare, but I know a few. Most, however, stick to whatever they are comfortable providing.

I have to agree with PB , it's not really something you can pick up and add to your menu . You are or you aren't PSE , just like you're either shy or outgoing . You may be able to do the acts required , but if you're not a natural , it will show ! Now that's not to say a couple GFE girls , don't have a freaky side , and aren't capable of putting forth a natural PSE . Just they are FEW !

I guess I would consider myself more GFE (minus the DFK, which I'm not a fan of)
PSE? I've had guys refer to me as that but my submissiveness masks my inner "slut" but sometimes she comes out hehe and when she does its of course, like always with me.....natural

PSE hands down love it!

I guess I would consider myself more GFE (minus the DFK, which I'm not a fan of)
PSE? I've had guys refer to me as that but my submissiveness masks my inner "slut" but sometimes she comes out hehe and when she does its of course, like always with me.....natural Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

PSE and with your awesome bod; there are some lucky guys in SA for sure...

The reason I started the thread is to get a little insight because I suppose I find myself in the "grey" area at times. There are times that I am VERY gfe and times that I am VERY PSE. I think for me it all depends on the date and what the mood is. For lack of better words I enjoy everything just wanted to hear what everyone's thoughts on the topic were.

I very much appreciate the responses and hope to hear more.

I can be both (GFE)...(PSE) just all "depends" on the mood I'm in @ the time too..

thatgirlbailey,

I guess I would consider myself more GFE (minus the DFK, which I'm not a fan of)
PSE? I've had guys refer to me as that but my submissiveness masks my inner "slut" but sometimes she comes out hehe and when she does its of course, like always with me.....natural Originally Posted by XOXO Karla

Excuse me for pointing this out but my understanding of Gfe is to be as much alike as a girlfriend would be which would include Lfk,Dfk,and a sort of tenderness you would receive from her.
Pse would be more aggressive and more sided torward the sex than the intimacy expected from a girlfriend
In other words skip the make out session and lets wham bam ty mam.

You can have both and there are some ladies that could pull it off but if you don't kiss and have that intimacy its not GFE PERIOD
Just my opinion !

+1 with wildwooly.

GFE is talking, getting to know you, I like you as a person stuff. And we have sex.
Maybe its just GFE lite without the intimacy of kissing.

PSE is business sex.

Now the exchange of fluids (BBBJ, DATY, BB others) is more questionable whether it can fall into both categories. Longtime girlfriends are trusted to be safe and porn stars get tested so condoms are sometimes off.

I'm definitely a blend of both! Its like having a freaky GFE. I offer lfk, dfk talking & cuddling. However, i do bbbj, fisting, greek. Things that would probably fall into PSE. Id categorize myself as GFE bc i have more of those qualities, but truthfully i think i fall into my own category.

If she's GFE she'll let you tickle it with a feather, if she's PSE she'll let use the whole chicken!!

@Toadvine-I love that, its a extremely fitting analogy.