Goodbye ECCIE, Ladies, Gents, and the Hobby

It has been an interesting time as I've ventured into the hobby. It has been full of fun and excitement, beautiful women and explosive finishes. But the stress of engaging in said activities, ranging from avoiding LE to the risk of robbery has become too much for me. Even though I always enjoyed the company of the providers I met and the excellent service they provided; I never felt truly comfortable, which robs me of a fully pleasurable experience. Plus I am a hopeless romantic and I need that true bound that comes between two consenting adults to acheive ultimate satisfaction.

As I ride off into the sunset, I'd like to again thank the providers who welcomed me and provided a wonderful experience. There are several of you that I didn't get the opportunity to meet, and certainly wish that I had...Alexxxia, just something about that one...and I wish you all the best of luck and success in your endeavors. To the gents still venturing out, be safe and enjoy.

Farewell.

notb4u
Chris

Guess we should make this the Welcome and Don't let the door hit you in the rear on the way out section

The light is always on in the window for you.

Sorry other things occupy your mind while you've been here. Definitely picked nice women to spend your time with.

And I understand that Bond issue also. Would get no enjoyment if I totally left emotion out of the equation.

Take care.

Everyone has tried to quit for one reason or another. They always come back.

LE and being robbed, sounds like the SW scene. My encounters with the fine providers on here have been very pleasing

A Coed topic.

Moved to the proper forum.

We should have a going away party every month for the pros/hobbiests who are jetting from the scene... lol.

Best of wishes homie!

I have some experience in this area, folks leaving groups they have heavily invested money, time, energy, mental gymnastics or whatever else. When I was younger I never understood what was going on when a shit storm was kicked up before someone made an exodus. Later a friend with psychology and counseling experience explained what was happening, what seems always happens with people who aren't comfortable with their actions. Basically they are trying to create justification for their leaving. I used to get drawn into the drama, trying to fix it because that is what I do, fix things. But people don't fix... took me a long time to learn that. I can fix almost anything except people. I am impressed by those who believe they can fix people. Anyway, I've learned to recognize the signs and step away, letting them go. Oddly enough, they still seem to feel justified once they say their peace and leave, even if there is no resulting drama. So why encourage it. Just acknowledge the intent and let it go.

People CAN be fixed... takes heavy medication... 200 an hour... and a couch to lie on. LOL

Justification is entertainment. It is like an ongoing battle within one's own head displayed publicly. I 86d facebook because I got so sick of the incessant "poor me" posters and the 100000 pix people. Yes your kid is cute. No I dont give a flying fuck that she ate peas for dinner and has green goo all over her face. Off topic but kinda the same thing in a way.