going over the line

I want to take a minute to express an opinion and concern that I am experiencing.

I will not give up any personal information about this individual but he knows who he is. I have placed my concerns in the ladies section already on this person so they are aware of the issue; and since this is not an alert I can not give much more information.

BUT...
A hobbyist has no right to try or even get personal information on any of us ladies. Just like us ladies should not get or try to get personal information on a gent here on the board. (even though technology it is very easy to do so)

I have a certain someone who is following me and knowing personal information about me, my kids and what i drive. Texting me at all hours of the night, being like a stalker which is very messed up and very scary since I have gone through this before it isnt cool.
when i told this person that he was fu*ked in the head he said "i know"lol. what the hell??
He is continuing to contact me on a daily basis and other girls also with the same results and concerns. I have contacted a moderator and there is nothing that can be done here on the boards since everything is done privately and not here in pms and such. which alone is scary... but what can u do.
I know most you gentleman are respectful and know how to conduct themselves.. but for those that like to push that respect boundary... people read and people talk here and good luck to you finding anyone that will see you if you are going to be disrespectful, stalk someone or hurt someone.
this is not what this board is all about..... this isnt just another moco space or craigslist or backpage where us ladies should have to deal with crap like this. I know for a fact he is reading this but wont respond cause he is just a little boy that likes to play his game and goes into a hissy fit because i wont see him or no one will see him because of his actions. But to that person...
I WILL NOT BE INTIMIDATED BY YOU!!!!! YOU MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE ALL OF MY PERSONAL INFORMATION ABOUT ME BUT THAT DOESNT SCARE ME EITHER. (and to be honest with you... 3 months ago when you started texting me and harassing me i dug myself on you) I am the better person here and choose not to threaten your ass... so back the fu*k off dude. GAME OVER.

sorry for the rest of you reading this.. it is not directed towards ya'll... I just want all reading to understand this game is not cool and very dangerous. If anyone would like any more information please PM me and will GLADLY give u information that I have.

thanks and licks and kisses
dbeartx's Avatar
o wow, sorry that's happening to you... hobby is all about respecting boundaries.
Marcus78's Avatar
Sorry to hear that Ms. Love. Nobody should try to exploit personal information against another, and especially not someone as nice as you. If this asshole persists with the threats, I would consider going to the police. It's not the easiest course of action with this line of work, but keep yourself safe above all else!
Bummer some folks can't conduct themselves right ! You shouldn't have to deal with that crap , but neither should girls on BP, CL , Mocospace either . If he is collecting info and calling to the point of harassing , it is an alert . You should name him , maybe someone else can straighten his ass out !
ttmax's Avatar
  • ttmax
  • 03-17-2013, 05:51 PM
it takes all kinds. sorry this is happening.....if you know who it is.....just wondering if you could put a restraining order but then again I don't know your situation with your love ones. sad!
i have posted an alert on him and i had received a warning from the mods... but thanks for the suggestions. and the well wishes.

licks and kisses to all
SENDING YOU A PM
txhuggybare4u's Avatar
sorry that this is happing LovesBJs,

That shit doesn't fly with me were here to live out our fantasy's and enoy erotic pleasures and personal stuff should stay hidden for the safety of all my two cents
pickupkid's Avatar
Sweete...change your handle and you cell phone no.. Sorry that happen to you
JohnnyYanks's Avatar
Best wishes to you, Ms. Love.
pickup...lol.. i dont want to change my handle.. it has served me well. lol I am will not let him do that to me.

licks to all
Some cell phone providers and/or cell phone operating systems support apps that will allow you to filter text messages, either based on the originating number or on text string. That might allow you to create a set of filters that flushes this guy down the electronic shitter. I have a number of these filters for friends that think I need hourly information on penny stocks.