The Art of Seduction, Teasing, Arousal, and Anticpation

One of my most recent (and most memorable) dates started with dinner, during which a few sexual topics were discussed, thereby setting the mood and getting me “primed”. We then went back to the hotel room, where I received what amounted to a 2-hour hand job. There was a little oral contact, and a very brief time where she hopped on for some cowgirl – but really, she kept me aroused and let me build-up for 2 hours with her hands. Not just standard hand job stuff – this included an extensive body message with powder, some chopping/vibrating message action on the cock itself, and prostate stimulation. I just laid there for 2 hours while she did all the work.

This produced one of the most intense orgasms I have experienced. I was in no condition to notice the distance I covered - but I was laying down, she was sitting to between my legs, and she made some comment about making a mess on her face and in her hair.

I’ve had a couple dates since then – your basic get nekkid and get to work dates. These were certainly enjoyable, but I am finding that I really long for more of that arousal, teasing, and build-up.

Guys: Any suggestions along these lines?

Ladies: If a guy requested a 4+ hour date – during which he wanted to be seduced, teased, aroused, and otherwise made to feel a heightened sense of anticipation – would this appeal to you? Do any scenarios jump to mind? I can see how this would require additional effort on your part – would that be a problem?

I like the long build up too - I can skip the dinner before, but I always enjoy some flirting via PMs or email to get a connection before the date.

I was hoping this thread would generate a bit more conversation between the guys & gals of south Texas, but the gals only seemed to want to respond by PM.

I did get one suggestion/offer from a lady. She seggested a multi-hour date starting with dinner in a public place, with plenty of under-the-table hand and foot action to get the blood flowing. Then back to the room for a seductively teasing striptease, followed by a comprehensive FBSM/HJ/BJ with orgasm denial until the very end.

I am realizing more and more how exciting I find the teasing and anticipation, and how much work this sort of date is for the lady....

I'm going to take a chance and respond here, I just hope that the ladies understand this is my opinion ONLY and what I say won't be misconstrued as anything other than having a conversation between men and a woman.

Your question:

Ladies: If a guy requested a 4+ hour date – during which he wanted to be seduced, teased, aroused, and otherwise made to feel a heightened sense of anticipation – would this appeal to you? Do any scenarios jump to mind? I can see how this would require additional effort on your part – would that be a problem?


MY Response:

YES! It more than appeals to me. Anything outside the box is new and exciting.

Scenarios... Being the tease; being your dirty girl; exhibitionist while you sit in the chair and watch me "do my thing". Then there's the porn star! ha ha....yes, as Johnnybax mentioned he likes porn, I will go there and let out my well kept secret... I love porn! I watch it, well, let's just say...often, and wearing the sexy lingerie and heels...oh so priceless! It defiitely heightens the experience both mentally an visually.

As far as "additional efforts" statement made...EFFORT? No effort when it's something that pleases you and that you, yourself like. That's just pure enjoyment, excitement, and definitely not considered an effort by any means.

Okay, I kept this "safe" in responding as I don';t want a million emails on how I crossed a line or anything of that nature..I am the new girl and drama isn't my favorite thing...though cuffs and whipped cream are. I hope you got the answer to the question you were seeking, Grasshopper. Now, go enlighten yourself, and by all means guys, tell your "girl of choice" what you want...your fantasy, whatever it may be and I'm sure it will lead to your "happy place". Communication is the key to success...in more ways than one!

Now that I came out of the porn closet ...I will simply excuse myself by wishing you a good evening, and exit somewhat gracefully...

I got wood!

Prediction: Heather's phone will be ringing off the hook this weekend.

...I'm going to take a chance and respond here, I just hope that the ladies understand this is my opinion ONLY and what I say won't be misconstrued as anything other than having a conversation between men and a woman....

...I kept this "safe" in responding as I don';t want a million emails on how I crossed a line or anything of that nature..I am the new girl and drama isn't my favorite thing... Originally Posted by Heather Anderson

That just goes to show how inexperienced and naive I am, since it didn't even occur to me that this topic could cause drama or bad mojo.

Now please excuse me, while I go look up Heather’s contact info and screening requirements.....

Heather - I don't see any lines crossed or potential for drama either. (And that was a HELL of a great read!)

I think that's why I stick to a more FBSM GFE's. They seem to cover all bases in the mental aspect of sensuality. Then the "Business" isn't hard to achieve. And I never have remorse.

I completely agree with Heather.... This is your fantasy! Communicate what you want... Now that doesn't mean that everything you want is provided by every provider, but you never know unless you communicate your wants and needs.

This is an experience, one in which you should walk away saying WOW that was it...