Ladies & Gents, What does it 4 u BCD?, gets u 2 the finish line, makes u lose it early...etc

Would love to hear from both sides of the bed. I'm curious to know the variety of things that can cause a human to loose his/her nut when they are not particularly ready to let go at the time.

I'll go first.

For me: Is when the woman tells me she is going to cum or when she lets out involuntary noises, perfect example: High pitched uncontrolable screaming usually accompanied with hair thrashing & body spasms. Hearing those words/noises makes me loose all control. I'm lucky if I can hold out long enough for her to actually orgasm. The craziest thing to me is I wont be close to cumming when she does those things but when she does I'm totally caught off guard, forget to control breathing & I go from 0 to 60 in .5 seconds. Frustrating, satisfying & funny to me b/c I'm sad I ended early IMO, happy that she got hers (pray it wasnt a fake) & laughing at myself thinking about all the ungraceful "O" faces I have made over the years, sorry ladies for that visual.

Feedback on this should be interesting.

Didn't check to see if anything like this has been asked before.....oh well.

when a guy scratches his fingernails down my back!

I love my hair pulled!

Also there's something so incredible about someone's eyes when you can tell they want you, its this dominant, passionate, "oh yea I'm Fucking the shit out of you and I am loving it" look, gives me the chills just thinking about it. :-)

DD baby...your nails felt soooooo good to me!

When you grabbed the back of my head and pushed it into your sweet spot, that would qualify as hair pulling Dallas ;-p

Hmmmmmm, you have my wheels spinning now!

Kissing my neck when Im gettin some! haha That will def speed things up!

Is when the woman tells me she is going to cum or when she lets out involuntary noises Originally Posted by L3FTY

I'm with ya on the above.

Also, a little dirty talk if it seems spontaneous and genuine will do it. When my UTR ATF tells me to give it to her...I do and am done pretty quickly for that round. One of my best pops ever was when a different young lady and I were having greek lessons in MISH and she told me to cum in her a$$...yeah...that set me off pretty dang quick.

So yeah, dirty talk can do it too, but when it comes across rehearsed or disingenuous, then it is more a distraction than fuel for the fire.

when a guy scratches his fingernails down my back! Originally Posted by DallasRain

Very nice Ms. Rain! I like ur style. I sometimes will give a little massage to the woman's lowback muscles during a slow doggiestyle session. Hmmm, I wonder if this is more distracting than contributing to the woman's senses of pleasure. Your thoughts?

I love my hair pulled! Originally Posted by DDMcGee

I am a fan of hair pulling Ms McGee, but I always end up bitchin out when it comes to pulling hard b/c I dont want to hurt or offend a lady, what is too much in the hair pulling world? Do u establish a safe word prior to said activities?

Kissing my neck when Im gettin some! haha That will def speed things up! Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield

Oh pepper, glad to see ur back in action & might I add looking very healthy
I like to start a slow light lick of my tongue above ur collar bone tracing a line up to just below ur ear finishing off with a nibble/suction/kiss. That usually sends goosebumps down my spine when performed on me. Do onto others as u wish done onto u, tends to work most of the time

I'm with ya on the above.

Also, a little dirty talk if it seems spontaneous and genuine will do it. When my UTR ATF tells me to give it to her...I do and am done pretty quickly for that round. One of my best pops ever was when a different young lady and I were having greek lessons in MISH and she told me to cum in her a$$...yeah...that set me off pretty dang quick.

So yeah, dirty talk can do it too, but when it comes across rehearsed or disingenuous, then it is more a distraction than fuel for the fire. Originally Posted by Whiskey-Fied

Interestingly enough, I havent encountered the right dirty talk (more distraction than fuel) that does it for me, however I have been slapped in the face which suprised me b/c I really enjoyed it. Thank u to the lovely little vixen, if ur reading this, who has a sneaky right forehand, lol.

Thx 4 the feedback yal!

DD ---you are such a fun sexy doubles girl........mmmmmmmmmmmm yummmmmmm!!

L3fty....wooohoooo baby! scratch my back plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!

Nibbling/lightly biting on my ear lobes always gets me going!

Nibbling/lightly biting on my ear lobes always gets me going! Originally Posted by Marcus78

Another great way to cause a dopamine dump sending chills down the spine. I've witnessed a few shy women turn into tigresses (spelling? lol) after some lobe attention. It's like flipping a switch.....haha the movie "Over the Top" with Stallone comes to mind when he rotates his cap from front to back turns him into an arm wrestling machine. Well in this case she turned into a sex machine.....hehe

I read somewhere that when ur DATYing make a circle with ur tongue around the clit (let's say clockwise) then get ur fingers wet and make counterclockwise circles around her nipple on the areola. I remember the article said the woman experiences sensation overload b/c the opposite rotations on two different erogenous zones is too much to comprehend causing an uncontrollable release.

Any thoughts on this ladies?

Also, which is more sensitive to u.......the areola or the nipple?

What makes me cum or what gets me started?

Rubbing my ass and kissing my neck gets me started.

When I can tell a guy is close to cumming or tells me he wants to cum makes me orgasm hard. Great visual thinking about a guy cumming.

Sticking a tongue up my ass while telling me what a god-like studly Adonis I am.

Sticking a tongue up my ass while telling me what a god-like studly Adonis I am. Originally Posted by flinde

G'dammit, that line and the pic of your avatar made me laugh uncontrollably!!!!!